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Family / Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by yum01: 10:10am On Jun 16, 2021 |
See guys I have erred and I am trying to do better . No matter how we see this I am at fault and I am not the type that blames the devil for anything , I take responsibility. My first child is a girl and recently I imagined what I feel if her husband is treating her the way I am the mother . I told my side chick the same day that ha m done, alto she is still begging but I don’t think my home is worth the bullshit I am doing . I have erred and just trying to be better . Like some people said it has always been in me and waiting for when to manifest . We married virgins guys , I never double dated as a young man and now I wonder why I am like this . I will do better. Thanks a lot . I deserve whatever you throw at me here . CharisEleos: |
Family / Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by yum01: 1:56pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Sometimes in life we need others to help us press the reset button . Thanks . |
Family / Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by yum01: 1:40pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Thanks for the advice. Both harsh and mild . All point is noted . I have to make it work . Divorce for me is never an option and a side chick will always be a side chick . She can never sacrifice what a good wife would. |
Family / Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by yum01: 7:43am On Jun 15, 2021 |
[ 1 side chick really, the other 3 were just flings (sex once and that was all). Nothing justifies cheating, I I to find a way to make this work. I am just getting better at this cheating game ( I mean seeing a life with my side gig, this is too selfish ) and i don't like it. quote author=tesuto1 post=102736704]From your write up,it is obvious cheating is in you,you only surpressed it before marriage because of your fellowship affiliation. Okay let's assume your wife is not ur 'spec',bro,you had a side chick that I want to believe is your spec,now how do you explain other 3 side chicks??[/quote] |
Family / Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by yum01: 9:35pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
No judgement please.i know I am a scum but please dont add to it. Myself and my wife were friends in school , I had what we call my spec in my heart then and she jsnt it ( she is beautiful please). She is a good wife and mother not perfect cos no one is but she is good. The issue is I have never found her attractive but then in school fellowship and preaching said looks do not matter, that the true beauty is internal. So I silenced the voice of my spec and married her. Let me say again, she is a good woman and doesn't deserve this. 9 years after marriage with 2 kids, the problem is since 2019 the attraction has got worse. I dont find her attractive at all again , we hardly gist , the way I express love I struggle to . To have sex seff , I have to use enhancers to get erections . I started cheating last year and I dont like it but I am.doing it. I love the girl in question and i know its unfair to my wife. I have sought help , spoken with elderly people in marriage, prayed but its getting worse. She doesn't deserve this to be candid , and I am boring so much inside. No woman deserves to be treated like this. I never cheated as a single guy, how can I be doing that now. She was my 1st body count but from 2019 till date my body count is now 5. |
Family / Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by yum01: 7:04pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
No judgement please.i know I am a scum but please dont add to it. Myself and my wife were friends in school , I had what we call my spec in my heart then and she jsnt it ( she is beautiful please). She is a good wife and mother not perfect cos no one is but she is good. The issue is I have never found her attractive but then in school fellowship and preaching said looks do not matter, that the true beauty is internal. So I silenced the voice of my spec and married her. Let me say again, she is a good woman and doesn't deserve this. 9 years after marriage with 2 kids, the problem is since 2019 the attraction has got worse. I dont find her attractive at all again , we hardly gist , the way I express love I struggle to . To have sex seff , I have to use enhancers to get erections . I started cheating last year and I dont like it but I am.doing it. I love the girl in question and i know its unfair to my wife. I have sought help , spoken with elderly people in marriage, prayed but its getting worse. She doesn't deserve this to be candid , and I am boring so much inside. No woman deserves to be treated like this. |
Car Talk / Re: Tell Us About Your First Car Experience. by yum01: 1:19pm On Apr 22, 2016 |
hmmm...we (my family) bought our first car 1 Like |
Car Talk / Re: Pls Advice by yum01: 8:10am On Nov 25, 2015 |
thanks guys, i am going to sell it but dont know the people that buy a car in this present state. |
Car Talk / Re: Car Talk Chat Room by yum01: 3:04pm On Nov 19, 2015 |
hello everyone, |
Car Talk / Pls Advice by yum01: 10:02am On Nov 19, 2015 |
I gave my car to a mechanic to fix, after working on it he told me he needed to service the gear. |
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