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Artzdanielsz:
I now see why you are here crying like a kid, you don't have the mind to engage in an argument, mugu

Me? I cannot and never argue with woman... For what?

Artzdanielsz:
Op acting as if he is still in year one. O boy man up. That girl care for u relationship is like that na. Lol

Mumu

ezegenigbonine:
Guy that girl is more matured minded than you. If you really need a girl that will not argue with you (a zombie) why not go to a timid village and carry one illiterate that will worship you as a demi god.

In this century, you are still expecting your woman not to air her view? My brother grow up.

U better carry your big head and reconcile with her before a lucky man will take her away from you.

That girl really love you and she is ready to amend.

Sincerely, you are useless and I understand...lol

DECENTBWOY:

Honestly, I don't like girls that talk too much, before you say A, they have said B to Z...
With those screenshots, I can only sense that your ex talks too much and I would have ended my relationship with her a long long time ago... There is a way problems are being handled in a relationship, not talking at every point in time..
I'm not saying you should be a dummy o, but somethings should be overlooked just so that peace will reign...


Op, you did the right thing.. Don't feel bad, you will be alright...

Sure boss. Thanks

oluphemmxzy:
U are the problem here....u re too egoistic!

The lady is more mature than u....
Another thing is, u seem to be novice in relationship matters.

Chill, u guys should hang out, have fun... nothing do u two.

Deep down, are u sure of your break up note? Call your bae and give her the sweetest kiss

Ofcourse I'm sure. Ok yes, I'm the problem, agreed!. Anymore?

Opeyemic01:
The two of you know too much and want too much and less from each other at the same time. Two bosses. She always has a point or two to give, while you can only accommodate less. None want to compromise his or her stand. Communication is argument per second. If you didn't break up now as you just did, you will do in future, or will do it herself, when she sees someone she can lord over. In a nutshell, since you both didnt understand each other and were not ready to compromise, I can only say you did well breaking up. However, whatever makes you go back to her, she will initially raise your hope and crash it in revenge, to give you a taste of how she felt, when you broke up with her. Revenge is a sweet game, I like it too.

Nothing is ever taking me back. I'm not that kind of person... Thanks for the understand. Atleast u r part of the few that didn't insult me.

patosky55:
sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

That's true bro... Thanks alot... It's better that way honestly.

T3ndrils:
I wanted to ignore but nah

Now I see the reason why men suffer—almost everyone here is attacking the OP for having standards. As in e don reach where e dey certain say guys dey so f,ucking cheap with no boundaries—that's why you lots suffer and to a point you deserve the suffering you get in relationships.

Just cos she wrote she loves him, every one is siding her—how daft can most guys continue to be?

She obviously doesn't respect him and women love through respect so her typing that stuff means nothing—she's just butthurt that he cut her off. (Girls that don't love you will still be pained when you cut them off cos it under leverages their power over you)

The guy sef don already tell am say e no like the constant argument but due to lack of accountability on her part she shifts the goal post and calls it "teasing" WTF!

Una no Sabi say na so the disrespect they start? Na small small e dey start upto the point where e go don build up to a point of no recovery.

If she respected him truly she would have stopped the constant argument. Una suppose know say Dem like to argue for no reason and sabotage the peace.

Abeg make she geddifok.

I've been laughing at all the insults and bashing. Thanks a lot brother... You understood perfectly what the thoughts in my head were. Thank you.

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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All i want to say to you op, is that, that girl still love you, at least you haven't catch her cheating on you


But your 'i want to be a man in the relationship' mentality won't agree with you

No! That's not it. It's not about the I want to be a man. She doesn't even listen. I can send just one message and she is sending 10 or more already. You might not understand how annoying that is sha

TimFisher2:



You are a Mumu oooo



Well i won't be tempted to blast women this time around...some of our beautiful women deserves some respect

That lady loves you...and i did not see any crime she committed rather i see a Foolish ego maniac man that calls himself Man of the house


I am happy she dumped you..let her go and find someone that will cherish and respect her


Pride no go kill this man!


I see OP running after her...I see her rejecting OP..telling him is to late...I see OP wailing and hitting his head on the bathroom mable ....I see OP not eating for three months..... I see OP falling in love again with an Olosho...I see OP tired of relationships because of what he passed through

I see OP becoming weak docile timid and quiet because his spirit has been broken

I see OP coming to Nairaland again to spill venom on women

I see Marianangels falling in love with OP...just to finish him kpatakpata for the last time

I see OP leaving woman matter for next 40 years and becoming a proud bachelor


This I have seen!

wiseone28:
we see same

Hahahahahahaha.... To begin with. I'm a foodie... I'm a kind-hearted man and anyone who has come in contact with me loves. So my man. This una vision far ehnn.

GoodHardDick:
What is there to understand? we have read the chat and she did absolutely nothing wrong.

She seem very mature and intelligent too. You should know the difference between a wife material and a gold digger. If you have a girl who's as understanding as that girl, then complaining? People argue in relationships no mean say make dem break up. However, for as long as she's not billing you or laying her financial problems on you, then she's one of the few sensible ladies in Nigeria. Her types are rare to find

Is there any girl in this country that doesn't bill or because I did say that one? Those are personal things to disclose... But thanks anyways.

wiseone28:
we see same

Hahahahahahaha.... To begin with. I'm a foodie... I'm a kind-hearted man and anyone who has come in contact with me loves. So my man. This una vision far sir.

clevybrown:
it's ur mind and foolish ego that is tormenting u and not that innocent lady u call ur girlfriend. From my point of view, I think she is even doing u a favour still sticking around with someone like you... It must have been really chocking and draining for her both physically and mentally... U did well by calling off the relationship... I'm actually a women basher, but ur case is a no no.....

Lolzzz... Okay. Thank you.

clevybrown:
I have never said this to a guy before but I'll have to say it to u Op, from the screenshot conversation, I'll say u are a primitive being op, too stiff and rigid... U take life too serious that u don't even know how to read emotions... I believe u act same way with ur fellow guy. U don't deserve that girl u call ur gf cos she is far more mentally advanced than u are. So it's better u breakup with her and make her find her match while u keep living ur serious stiff life.....

You won't ever understand man. So that's it.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!!!!

Honestly brrrh; Text or call her back.. u guys should meet face-to-face and talk things out.

Sincerely, it’s not worth calling the relationship off. I can see you’re kinda a guy who doesn’t like to be stressed or who doesn’t like argument..


She sounds like she doesn’t want the breakup. Wooooooo ogbeni; no girl is perfect o ajeh.. you didn’t even catch her cheating. Lmao. What if u caught her cheating? U fit go commit suicide. LoL.

She can just be among the almost perfect girl out there; Don’t lose the girl coz of mere arguments brrrh... u literally have no idea about the next girl...

Exactly. Sincerely I don't want any stress especially from a girl now at all.. I love her alot. It's so unfortunate. There was the chance for her to agree, change from arguing unncesessarily and we would be fine bt she still continued, u can imagine.

DoctorOlasDesk:
This mindset is also not healthy for a relationship. Listen, when you have downtimes, ask for time to think and clear your head. Love rampant in early years is not always easily replaced oh. This isn't trouble enough Use it as a bonding tool. call her in person, hold hands and tell her how you both want each other to communicate. Love builds, not destroy at every or any opportunity

If as the man, you stoop down to pick her up, you win more and more of her loyalty and respect, cause she then sees you as having the ability to maintain coolness under pressure and willfully entrusts herself to you more and more

Don't cut that girl off o, abeg you

They are a lot better things to worry about man. I won't let any girl try to play with me again...

soundOsonic:
From what I saw, the lady isn't even a lady.
Ladies don't type like this.
They are less logical when you drop break up message on them like that.
They wouldn't want to analyze the situation. They will just go full emotional blackmail, that's if they love you or are a leech.
If they don't even care from the onset na block.
Your babe na guy.
This one na acting joor

That's my girl bro.

xaliujokes:
I felt emotional at her last message. She's really hurt. But I don't advice you to go back. Else it'll be worse.

Bro you also need to learn your lessons too. Make a reflection on the just ended relationship. Make amends as to your future relationship.

From your chat, I'll say from the beginning of a relationship always make her know your type of person, open up , be real so she can understand your likes and dislike.

All the best bro.

Sincerely this is exactly what I'll be doing.. it's better honestly.. it's a hard decision I made, it's hurt me equally but it's best for me. Thanks man

DoctorOlasDesk:
Guy this isn't worth calling a relationship quits for o. This lady appears mature, calm and has your interest at heart. It doesn't imply she doesn't have weakness. You should lower your expectations and reduce finding faults.

Those rudeness thingey you're picking in your conversations is your own mind picking and finding faults. It's a state of mental restlessness. Yes, she may have her share of wrongs. You also condition your mind to reduce finding faults and both of you develop communicative habits. You're both in the place of bonding where communication creates chaos. Work on it, not walk away

O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

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Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

A man simply identified by his first name Friday, has gambled with people's contribution money for the festive season amounting to over N201,000 naira.

He is alleged to have gambled the said sum over a short period of two months with numerous amounts of bet9ja tickets played and no single one won (over 5,000 bet9ja tickets) recovered from under his mattress and around his house as at the time of filing this report.

He has been swiftly moved to the Kwanawa Divisional Police Station, Special Crime Unit, Sokoto for further investigation.

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FIFA played politics again! It could have been the Bayern Hitman; the Polish Executioner; The goal scoring machine. Come on everybody, it was supposed to be Robert Lewandowski, inshort it is Him...

This guy netted 41 goals in 29 appearances.. he holds the fastest goal scoring striker accolades to this very day... Messi is a good player, yes but gaskiya did not deserve this year's highest individual award (BALLON D'or)..

Haba na! It's unfair... Even if them wan compensate am, it shouldn't be at the expense of another naaa

MVLOX:
I just received mine like 5 minutes ago..... First bank

Yes bro! That's true. Even my friend wey receive this morning na First bank he dey use.

princefrank76:
Heart attack ontop 30k? There's poverty in the land

You no go understand!

JohnCyrilEfe1:
Ecobank will always be the last bank to pay her beneficiaries ......why is it always ecobank having slow service in disbursing payment like this

Mine bank is GTB, up till now I never see anything Sha... My friend's bank is first bank

uthlaw:
Na rubish bro...since on Monday till now,na just few pple received money!

Make we just the manage their gradual processes like that... E go come.