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muyico:
Depending on ur location desired
Package u wanna dish out!
If shey nah Lagos
Where shop rent is 1/2m yearly
Dat money is nothing!
Frying indomie down the street is flourishing business!
U can start with just 50/100k
But if u wanna modernize it,
1.5m not enough

Sonnobax15:

Bro,calm down.....You ain't a failure....

As a matter of fact,it's just a phase....And one that will surely pass someday so long you don't give up....

Come on,you think your case is the worst, right? Have you entered into the streets and listened to others as they tell their own stories, about their own personal struggle in Life? Na once you go CHILAX cuz where you dey today na just a temporary state of life,and not a permanent one...

And besides,you better erase the thought of "your mom" being the one bewitching you whenever you give her money from your head....

alphaNomega:
Economy is so bad even your regular effort feels like a failure. Take it easy

Gadafii:
Now when ever this your girl call make sure you don’t pick it immediately or allow it to ring over and then call her back, even if you wan call her back make sure it’s not immediately

😂😂😂

Klass99:
Lol 🤣, well played OP.

When I say giving people a dose of their own medicine works like magic and can be a brain resetting experience, where people know not to mess with you again or they adjust their behaviour, some folks will still want to argue the point.

I just read your original post on the previous thread and my questions for you are;
1. Do you really want to carry on with this relationship?
2. Why are you reluctant to break up with her?

Truth is I'm not reluctant. That girl is a pest. She knows verily I hate plenty missed calls on my phone. Few days after I breaking up with her is usually cool, bt a week or two later would be toomuch messages and calls from her begging me, she calls endlessly knowing fully well I do not like many missed calls.

Salowise:
Bro quit that relationship, you'll keep going through this phase over and over again, clearly she's not up to 20 or she's in in early her early 20's. Reason you just can't quit is not because you love her badly, but the cool moments you share together keeps replaying. Just save your mental her and move on, i think you're an introvert.

TemplarLandry:
Ask her why she is not contented with dating only you, ask why she keeps dating other guys. Expect a lot of manipulative tears from her eyes. Then ask her if she's cool with the idea of you seeing other girls too. Holy Spirit will give you utterance thereafter.

Smartguyboy:
You mumu sha
If you are asking what to do.
As you are ok with her cheating on you do nothing.

Slynation:
Text like this are meant to discourage you...!! "What if she never finds a man like you" means she will forever be weighing her options until she finds someone she presume better than you...

You are different from the rest means she has tested and carried out a full experiment of the rest for her to draw that conclusion...

TemplarLandry:
You're weak, and she keeps exploiting this. At the same time claiming to love you. Truth is she'll keep exploiting this weakness again and again.

You're dealing with an unrepentant cheater. If you value your peace of mind, discard her and make her realize you've got a replacement for her.

rookidmart:
She already told you what you need to know.
She's not scared of losing you, she's scared she won't find someone else.
Basically you're a backup until she finds someone better which she hasn't. That's why she keeps coming back

Coolsat:
I hate that last paragraph, who are the rest and how was she able to come to that conclusion? Mehn I can't deal sha

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Cantonese:
I am having the same experience. Three payments from three people not seen. I think Kuda has a problem.