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Family / Re: How To Communicate With My Yoruba Husband's Family by yurubaajejiiyaw: 2:38pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
freecocoa:thank you for the advise. In my opinion I wasn't being bossy but she could have misinterpreted it. after that answer I just kept quite for the rest of the night. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: How To Communicate With My Yoruba Husband's Family by yurubaajejiiyaw: 2:31pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
username792:one of the things that shocked me the most was to notice how he can't stand to his mother! I imagine that in nigerian culture measn that one was well raised 1 Like |
Family / Re: How To Communicate With My Yoruba Husband's Family by yurubaajejiiyaw: 2:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
ephemm:thank you for your advise. she wasn't the one who cooked it. however it never occurred to me that giving him advises in front of others may not be rude, although I did speak with authority it may sound like it to who doesn't know me. I can certainly take her advise like from my mum but my mum would never talk to anyone like that unless she's really mad! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: How To Communicate With My Yoruba Husband's Family by yurubaajejiiyaw: 2:09pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
ibkgab001:blame it on google translator loool |
Family / How To Communicate With My Yoruba Husband's Family by yurubaajejiiyaw: 1:21am On Mar 24, 2015 |
I am an african girl married to a Yoruba man in the Uk. In my culture we have lots of respect for our parents and we are collectivist (relate closely to extended family) so I expected to relate easily to my inlaws and the rest of the family. I am a very easygoing person who hates to be in conflict with anyone. I have a good relationship with my husband, he's a good and very hard-working man but when we are around his family its like our relationship changes. when his parents came to visit us we started having arguments because he's always stressed and it looks like I become a child who people can talk to anyhow. he talks to me in ways that he's not used to and it looks like I don't have the right to contradict him. even his mum talks to me in ways I don't understand if she hates me or its just their culture that allows disrespecting me. for example we were visiting some of his family members in London at very late hours and advised my husband not to eat amala at that time because of his indigestion problems, my mother-in-law asked me: is it your stomach? I felt verbally abused. how to react to this sort of situation? also, I do not always agree with her in certain issues. is there any way, socially accepted and polite for me to contradict my mother in law without causing offense? I'm getting frustrated and seeing myself accumulating negative feelings towards people . Please help with any tips and advises. 1 Like 1 Share |
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