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KiidaACE:
Is it only girls that get thier hearts broken

no both parties bro..

Flashh:
[color=#225484]This has nothing to do with one gender, both parties are facing it.

It shouldn't be as if men are heartbreakers, women are worse. [/color]

I know both parties get hurts,but I always believe a man would always move on,but ladies find it difficult to..

deadZONE:

who seal your mouth??

Pain is inevitable, a heartbreak being the worst kind
of pain there is.With every heart break, it does feel
like we’ve lost a part of ourselves.Sooner or later,
after we’ve used up our free heart break quota, we
wake up one day to realize that we no longer
recognize the person we’ve become.We reach a stage
in life where we build a wall around ourselves. A wall
too strong to break; too high to climb. It seems safer
to be within those walls,to feel nothing at all.


What once used to be what you craved, now seems to
be what you absolutely detest.You were once a girl
surrounded by the people who adored you, and now,
the slightest sign of love seems to irk you.You begin
to slowly associate love with pain, and all you wish to
do is run away from it, as far as you can.


Believe me, the initial phase is blissful. You manage to
convince yourself that you are protecting yourself
from feeling any pain. The walls you put up, the
constant need of establishing boundaries, your
unquenchable thirst to be alone, just by yourself, yup,
it all seems like you’ve finally cracked the code to
living a happy life. When you give pain no room, you
will never lose complete control of your life, you
argue with yourself.


What you don’t realize is that tiny bit of emptiness
seeping into your life. You forget that we were born to
feel something. Anything. Every tiny feeling. Funny
thing about our emotions – You cut off one; you won’t
be able to feel any of the others. You try cutting off
pain, and happiness will evade you too. They’re all
interlinked.
The bubble you create by doing all you can to evade
pain, refuses to be filled with any other emotion. That
very bubble grows bigger over time and it envelopes
you completely. We call that phase, the depression
phase.


Before you know it, you’re stuck all alone, trying to
figure WHY you can’t seem to get your life back into
control. I mean, come on, it’s been months since he
left, and you’re still stuck in the same place as you
were when you had your heart broken! Ridiculous!
Putting up walls may seem like an easy solution, but
it’s gonna get you deeper into the mess. Learn to let it
all go. Heal.


Learn to forgive yourself. Don’t be too harsh on
yourself. Yeah, you misjudged someone, but it’s okay.
It happens. It’s part of life. Now you’re one step ahead
in trying to figure the next person out.

Associate pain with the person. Not with love. It’s just
like how you’d associate sourness with lemons, not
the entire fruit fraternity.

Allow yourself to be loved, not just by you, but also by
the people who deserve to have you in their life.

You’re allowed to be cautious. But don’t overdo it. It
becomes repulsive.


I know you’re afraid to fall in love right now, but
believe me, when you finally meet the one for you,
he’s not gonna break your heart. All of your previous
heart breaks begin to make sense, because each and
every one of it has slowly, very carefully, lead you to
him.


It may just seem impossible to pull yourself together
right now. It may seem to be too much of work trying
to find your lost faith. But you have to.


Because getting over all of your heart breaks, all the
pain you went through, those sleepless nights crying
into your pillow, the constant frustration you carried
around for months, learning all the lessons each heart
break taught you, making the effort to believe in love,
in yourself once again, will be worth it in the end..

written by: Zadok El nino Amos
cc: lalasticlala

I for don get nation now

let this man be plssssss

is this the biggest pit bull in the world?..

its in my blood already

is this also a news?

okay

base on my fundamental observation,I've come to a conclusion not to believe this..
The cement I used to know would never be friendly with anyone to this extent.

the heart of a man is wicked

ShakurM:
[color=#000050]what have you done again? [/color]

I did not do anything o,maybe because he just employed one fine okpekete that's from my state and me sef they call her my sister.

chaiiii I just wonder what will happen when the legalize the use of guns in nigeria..
Abeg whites make una hold una problem to na selves..
The kind of anger wer dey run inside una vein sef pass the one wer devil give una,mtcheeeew..



r.I.p to the innocent girl

that one no go make my manager call me back to work abeg...

if I continue listening to all this romacelanders,I swear my mate go marry finish while me never get gf..

this guy above me sef

una neva catch shekau na dz minor una wan die put...mtcheeeew. why una no arrest doze prophets wer dey prophesy bomb blasts?

op you try

wakacome:
VERY FUNNY!!! for ur mind

lmao..shey dem don bite your nose before?

this op is mad I can prove this..

Terry68:
Very simple.

Cover her face, glue your eyes to a spiritfied video and concentrate on her major.

And she will be healed.

u are a very badt guy I swear..

boobs my foot

RealAdewole:
how will life be like on venus?

u wer neva rent one room like me,you no go come make we go claim lands there?...

hmmmm..btw,shey na bald head d pikin get??

lol
yea,I would say its true partially..

chocolateme:
I keep having these feeling that basket mouth stingy pass Allison Madueke.

you wer no stingy,ngwa nu generous woman begin share to the nation na..

I am sick and tired of all this lame stories ever time..

some people are just foolishly useless