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Hmmmm.....this is so sad,one thing im happy for u realise it,it shows u acted based on your reasoning....you thought everything your sister did was out of hatred,no but love....what i will advice is please go and meet with her husband to be,beg him to keep everything you are going to tell him as secret for now.open up to him,plead with him to forgive your sister that she is innocent,also let him no u did all that thinking your sister hates u and guy.i pray he understand...after that he should also join u and your guy to plead with your sis.with this things might change.no harm in trying.please help a dieing sis and never do such evil....God knows how to reward those who hurts us badly,revenge is not ours and sisters,women,please lets try to stop this act of destroying ourselves ......hmmmm

I recently found out my husband of 5 years has been cheating on me , he accidentally left his Facebook account open on my laptop and I read everything. He told this girl he loves her and want to spend the rest of his life with her, I confronted him and his side of things is I have been pushing him away to care for our very high needs 2 years old triplets sons and my sons needs constant attention , it’s very tiring working , caring for the kids and keeping the house clean with no house help. I know I have my faults , and all my energy goes into the kids and trying to keep the households running , so there isn’t much left at the end of day. I’m always tired and once the kids are sleeping I’m far to tired to do anything ... like sex. He knows all this yet I’m at fault. I feel heart broken , I try to talk to him and he just blames me , even if I’m in wrong , how is cheating justified by what I have done ? I don’t know what to do ?

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She is cheating on you

luluosas:
Zainab, divorce is wickedness and it is very of you to advise her to divorce her husband because of this avoidable mistake.
Sorry to ask, please, don't feel offended. Did your mother divorced your father? Cheers.

What her husband did is abomination and she is free to divorced and move on with her. I wish your wife could do to the same to you by getting pregnant for your nephews then you can come and tell us , that you have forgiven her because it was avoidable mistake. As for my mother not she did not divorced my dad because he didn’t stoop so low to sleep with any of my mum family members. Thank you

Please my brother divorce her as soon as possible . Take custody of your boys and God will bless you with a good woman who will take good care of your boys

Madam pls o believe your niece , she is telling you the truth. Your husband is a liar he won’t admit it because you are too soft on him, maybe your are the quiet type so he is taking advantage of you. Don’t be mad with your niece , what you have to do is wait when she born , go for dna if it came out that the baby belonged to your husband. Stand by your niece , love her way the same way you did because Is your evil husband who seduced the helplessly girl because she had nobody to stand for her. Support your niece and her baby and as for the idiot of your husband, divorced him , yes divorced you , packed your stuffs and leave with your kids. God will provide for you and your children. You will be fine as a single mother than living with an idiot who cannot control his penis. Talking from experience. Message me if you want to chat more