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Re: [deleted] by ezugegere(m): 10:50pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
From your response so far, you seem to be the problem and the solution definitely lies in your hands. You need to work seriously on your mindset. You're a woman and you're capable of a lot of things. Tell yourself that you need sex even when your body is not asking for it. Recondition your mind. Think about sex.... 5 Likes |
Re: [deleted] by thorpido(m): 10:52pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sex once a month between a young couple is very poor like Disstroy said. From your other comments,the problem is from both of you. What do you mean by 'brother - sister relationship'?You both were like 'friends in the same class'.You related like classmates rather than lovers.smh From your other earlier thread,you said you have not been sexually attracted to him and not easily aroused by him.You said the sexual chemistry is not there.Well,here's the problem from your own side.There should be a sexual chemistry with a partner! On his own part,he must have a low libido to wait that long.I mean he doesn't see you coming out of the bathroom.He doesn't see you rubbing cream on your naked body?He doesn't see you in sexy lingerie and want to eat you up?For a man less than 30yrs?Haba. You both seem to be comfortable with it so I'm going to tell you, DON'T BOTHER to CHANGE it!Just keep it up this way.You're both happy.That is all that matters. 4 Likes |
Re: [deleted] by Mizwisdom(f): 12:05am On Oct 01, 2019 |
sweetmelanin: Once a year, any year you decide to have kids 1 Like |
Re: [deleted] by McTobe(m): 2:04am On Oct 01, 2019 |
There he goes giving you signal but you don’t see the green light, then he shuts down. I am a man & I know that men are different as much as women are. Is he a shy person? Even if he is not, try and understand your husband. An instance with my wife, though she is not a shy person on the surface but she is shy to express herself inside the bedroom but once I initiate the act she will take it on from there(this by the way is the opposite of my ex) Meanwhile, she will tell you that she does not fancy sex. So my advice is to try and understand your husband’s temperament and sometimes initiate the bedroom play & see his reaction. If no one is complaining about the once a month thing I don’t see how it is a problem. sweetmelanin: 2 Likes |
Re: [deleted] by Zainab20198(f): 2:08am On Oct 01, 2019 |
3-4 times a week |
Re: [deleted] by genq(m): 6:26am On Oct 01, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: Mizfoolishness, I trust you to show up here with a stupid remark as usual @OP from your responses I'm really intrigued by the kind of relationship you have with your man - I see a husband who loves you and is patient BUT if you keep up this way, he might end up cheating. A full blooded man? Once a month? Ha! Btw, if you were a victim of s€xual abuse, I'd suggest you seek help before it's too late. 3 Likes |
Re: [deleted] by Nobody: 8:11am On Oct 01, 2019 |
healthserve:A whole SonofMark? Don't say that again. |
Re: [deleted] by UniversalDove: 9:47am On Oct 01, 2019 |
It should be twice a week |
Re: [deleted] by OluwabuqqyYOLO(m): 10:11am On Oct 01, 2019 |
Hello, OP. I won't spill much but I know a lot about this. A man that gets sex once a month from his wife is very vulnerable to temptation. He may be in it due to the excess love he has for you, but all it takes is time. 2 Likes |
Re: [deleted] by osato45: 12:09pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
sweetmelanin:you say both of you had low libido. Then how did you hubby cope when you had an increased urge to have sex during your pregnancy as you said he has a low libido. i feel you and your hubby are shy of sex because of your ego, what stops you from initiating sex, since you desire it to be more often, the answer lies with both of you. 1 Like |
Re: [deleted] by anonimi: 12:39pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
sweetmelanin: You don't have a problem as long as your husband is okay with things, as he seems to be. Enjoy your life as it is yours and not that of someone else, friend or not. 2 Likes |
Re: [deleted] by anonimi: 12:49pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
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Re: [deleted] by healthserve(m): 2:09pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
Epithelial: I care not |
Re: [deleted] by Ayofaks(f): 2:20pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
@Op, I sell ORIGINAL kayan mata that can help you and your husband, libido booster for women |
Re: [deleted] by osato45: 2:56pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
sweetmelanin:i feel you have never had an mind blowing orgasm before especially before and after your pregnancy, because if you had, you will never settle for once a month routine with your hubby when you aren't even in your 60's. secondly its possible your husband is a perfect gentleman hence he respects your decision thirdly you both love each other, unfortunately you are getting it wrong, get rid of the thought of brother n sister shit. because brothers n sisters don't make love to each other, of which you both do |
Re: [deleted] by zed7: 3:01am On Oct 02, 2019 |
Once a week is a sweet spot if you ask me. With the wahala of raising a family, once a week is very ok. We all started wanting it every day but now, most times we just want to sleep, no power to dey hump up and down. With marriage, it becomes more emotional and less physical with time. But once a month is a bit too infrequent, if you said, once in 2 weeks, I'd have said no big deal |
Re: [deleted] by cRobo: 6:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
sweetmelanin: Why |
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