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Idowuogbo: Taaaa! Shattap! At that age,you were busy roaming your village square looking for suitors that'll deliver from the spirit of poverty.

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

EnlightenedSoul: I stand corrected. Meanwhile, this one here is actually trying to rationalize a sober person taking a drunken advance as valid consent. Pfffft.

Sagamite: You are a cretinous person!
What point is he making?
And which of my points is he challenging?
What did I tell you about shutting up 100%?

Sagamite: Poof person, is that the answer to the question asked of you?

Homosexual that "has a girlfriend".

Sagamite: Let me give you an advice useful in the intellectual sphere:

"If you have no point to make, it is better to shut up 100%".

Sagamite: If she did not say No or resist while intoxicated, then she can't claim rape.
A woman has a responsibility not to get so drunk and be in a situation of not being able to say "No".

EnlightenedSoul: 'cuz she's drunk!

EnlightenedSoul: You're the who's missing the "actual problem" despite the fact that it's the the TOPIC OF DISCUSSION: RA.PE.
Proof beyond a reasonable doubt is required before a person is convicted of ra.pe and labeled a ra.pist; however, ra.pe is ra.pe even if there is little proof. That is, you are intentionally conflating (1) what is required to prove ra.pe with (2) what is ra.pe. Yes, additional witnesses, drugs, and violence make proving ra.pe easier, though none are required elements of ra.pe.
It seems to me that you are arguing for a default definition of ra.pe that includes specific physical evidence, an admission of guilt, or perhaps something like a surveillance tape.
Which means, therefore, if I (were I a man) wear a condom, don’t hit a woman or tear her clothes [all under category of no physical evidence]; if I don’t tell anybody I did it; and I am careful not to be caught on a surveillance camera, then I can have forcible sex pretty much whenever I want, and haven’t committed ra.pe.
The reality is that the crime of ra.pe exists independent of the evidence or the ability to convict the ra.pist. Many murderers go undetected and unpunished, but we do not raise doubts that murders were committed.
And who would be best positioned to know if she were having intercourse against her will, other than the woman?
Unless, of course, you believe that the default setting of such a high percentage of women is to lead men on and then cry, “ra.pe”, that we must bend over backwards to protect all men from these vampiric vaginas, even if that means letting serial ra.pists off scot free.
Now that I would be a truly "hilarious" notion if I could but laugh.

all4naija: Wow! They should also extend this to young girls coerced into p o r n.

CFCfan: She can agree by writing it out. The law says "affirmative, conscientious" consent. So if both parties sign a contract to mess themselves; in the law court that contract will be regarded as a valid 'yes' or consent.
Nawa oh. All these grammar because of konji

Sagamite: And Ngwakwe thought it was made by "intelligent" people.

The way people speak from their arsses shock me.

NIGERIALOLoCOM:

Where the body is, there the vultures gather.

Therefore, keep off the vultures by not having dead bodies around you, or hide the bodies well wellu.

Don't leave yourself vulnerable. A word is enough for the .........

Onilaiscool: trying to be funny huh
idi..iot
descendant of a family of demons

BananaBender: Have you guys seen a picture of this bald-headed-pot-bellied-fool wearing black shades, orange sneakers, with orange back-pack?? You'll die!

EfemenaXY: Mtcheew!
Mtcheew!! Mtcheew!!
Mtcheew!!! Mtcheew!!! Mtcheew!!!
You know what, I give up completely on this section with it's endless tirade of ghost stories. Complete and utter waste of time.
Mtcheeeeeeeeeewwww!!!!

edwife: That is why i don't waste my breath commenting up and down on NL.
I will rather read,and go find myself a nice nollywood movie,at least they believable.