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Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:24pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
MrOrioye: So many rape cases ahead. I hope black musicians and celebrities use their senses in cali. I think the law only applies on university campus at the moment. If it was applicable generally, we will have a huge rise in false accusations against rich people. Especially considering that in the US people can file civil suit for millions if someone else can be found guilty of hurting them. Lap-dancers offering sex would become millionaires over-night. 1 Like |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Zekkmixes(f): 8:25pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
CFCfan:@bold |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sixix: 8:26pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: Well, In law you can't just accuse someone, your accusations have to fulfil the conditions laid down by law. The law stipulates that she has to be 'affirmative, conscious, and voluntarily agree' . Before the court would agree with the defendant she has to be able to CONVINCE (beyond reasonable doubt) the court that she did not give consent as per the definition in the statutes and its legal interpretation, note that every tiny bit of info leading to the issue in dispute would be analysed. The interpretation the writer gave the definition may (in my opinion 'will') not be used. Law can be interpreted in various ways. For instance the brief explanation of what would not count as affirmation and voluntary agreement did not include affirmation by positive reaction, it however stated that ' silence or a lack of resistance ' should not be counted as affirmation or voluntary agreement. The rest is left for the Judges to interpret as they deem fit. The law has always been a double edged sword, welcome to life 2 Likes |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:29pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
patrickmuf: What if she says yes and goes on to deny? A very senseless law... In the West, that does not matter when making laws as long as it is only men that are likely to suffer. That is why the moronic UK also made a law where there is a ban against naming the person accusing raape, while the accused (which is virtually always a man) can be named and his face plastered all over the papers. Guilty until proven innocent. As long as it is only men it affects, .....................Fine! And when he is found innocent, the women still keeps her anonymity. So it is basically freedom to make false allegations with impunity and have a weapon against men if you want to punish them. Welcome to the West! 3 Likes |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 8:34pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: What part of that don't you understand? |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:34pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sixix: First of all, from the reports heard so far, what you termed "voluntarily agree" means primarily she has to vocalise "Yes" hence the label "Yes means Yes". Now we all know based on the process of sex with most women, that is a moronic requirement. Secondly, how can a law make sense where it states "silence or a lack of resistance" cannot be regarded as consent, but instead raape? Which person, in her right frame of mind, that is about to be "raaped" or about to have sex she does not want will remain silent or lack resistance without a weapon to her head? 1 Like |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sixix: 8:36pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: UK legislators will never pass this kind of law, that is US for you, the only state you can make millions if the coffee you bought was too hot And this law screams political pressure |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:39pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols: The part you think blurred lines is a synonym for contract. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:40pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sixix: You must be joking! The sexist, Theresa May, will propose and sign this law in an instance. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:43pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
all4naija: Wow! They should also extend this to young girls coerced into p o r n. And hear the person think stupidity should spread! |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Zekkmixes(f): 8:48pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
all4naija: Wow! They should also extend this to young girls coerced into p o r n.I agree. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sixix: 8:48pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
[quote author=Sagamite] First of all, from the reports heard so far, what you termed "voluntarily agree" means primarily she has to vocalise "Yes" hence the label "Yes means Yes". I partly agree with the interpretation of the bolded but you also have to interpret and define what silence is. And I believe that it would be given the ordinary interpretation. I am yet to agree with the label Yes means Yes, from my own point of view the law is misconstrued. I will wait for the legal interpretation before making assumptions
, say no to pre-marital sex Secondly, how can a law make sense where it states "silence or a lack of resistance" cannot be regarded as consent, but instead raape? I agree, what do you expect from an American law 1 Like |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sixix: 8:50pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: Yes she will, but she won't be able to sign it because they wont pass the bill. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 8:54pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: No. I didnt mean that blurred lines is a synonym for contract. When Yes means Yes. The lines are clear and not blurred. You can listen to Robbin Thicke's blurred lines to understand what I mean. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:56pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sixix: I partly agree with the interpretation of the bolded but you also have to interpret and define what silence is. And I believe that it would be given the ordinary interpretation. I don't think silence can be ambiguously interpreted when it comes to the use of vocal cords. If they did not want to say it is raape if she did not explicitly state "yes" or something affirmative, then silence would not be in the law. That is a catch them all phrase that ensures women have no responsibility except they choose to. Typical. Sixix: , say no to pre-marital sex What kind of proposal is that? Don't let me send my babalawo after you o. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 8:58pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols: And what I asked you was that: So they should sign a contract? So there is zero blurred lines. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Evergreat2014(m): 9:02pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
caseless: consensual agreement btw both party. Hmmmmm! |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 9:07pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: Structure your question better next time. They actually should be married before it. So, Yes! A contract should be signed. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by cassyrooy(m): 9:12pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Jesuspistol: Mheeeen...Carlifornia prostitutes are about to experience a BOOM in business!! |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by cassyrooy(m): 9:12pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Jesuspistol: Mheeeen...Carlifornia prostitutes are about to experience a BOOM in business!!Bros na now e go worst, 'cos once they see any f*ckable dude they all need do is shout YES and bam! Pukunchi don done be th@t! Easy but harder to shag over @ CA. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 9:21pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols: Let me first pack the religious dogma. I will take it a bit intellectual. So you don't think a "No" (that is raape) can exist in marriage? |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 9:23pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: Well,a Yes means Yes. There are no blurred lines and all of those should dogmatically come after marriage. Now D! |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sixix: 9:26pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
[quote author=Sagamite] I don't think silence can be ambiguously interpreted when it comes to the use of vocal cords. She may not say anything but if the guy touches her in a her sexual manner and she responded in a like manner, that is explicit consent...I don't believe they will make that type of law 'effectively requires the presence of a “yes” rather than the absence of a “no” I won't interpret it as a oral no or yes The law’s defenders, such as feminist writer Amanda Hess, dismiss as hyperbole claims that it would turn people into unwitting rapists every time they have sex without obtaining an explicit “yes” (or, better yet, a notarized signature) from their partner. Hess points out that consent can include nonverbal cues such as body language. The bolded is my interpretation however Yet even after those revisions, one of the bill’s co-authors, Democratic Assemblywoman Bonnie Lowenthal, told the San Gabriel Valley Tribune that the affirmative consent standard means a person “must say ‘yes. Well, this is crazy . http://time.com/3222176/campus-rape-the-problem-with-yes-means-yes/ Just like the paper said, the law is ridiculed with ambiguity, I will wait for the legal interpretation from the court because the above interpretation is too illogical to follow (putting human behaviour into consideration)
To be on the safer side of course 1 Like |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 9:38pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sixix: She may not say anything but if the guy touches her in a her intimate manner and she responded in a like manner, that is explicit consent...I don't believe they will make that type of law Nope. That is not consent. That is "silence" or "lack of resistance"! Do you know what "silence" or "lack of resistance" is under this extremely moronic law? RAAPE! That is how STUUUUUUPID the law is. The people that came up with it are fcktards! Sixix: I won't interpret it as a oral no or yes Once they say "silence" or "lack of resistance" is not a sign of consent, then you HAVE to interpret it as oral "Yes" or "No". Otherwise you are saying deol's philosophy of elimination of blurred lines is wrong. Sixix: The bolded is my interpretation however Amanda Hess is a man-hating person that is trying to deceive people. If the law says "silence" or "lack of resistance" is not consent, then except a woman explicitly tells you "Yes", nonverbal cues such as body language are just "silence" or "lack of resistance". Do you know what "silence" or "lack of resistance" is under this extremely moronic law? RAAPE! Sixix: Well, this is crazy One of the fcktards has explicitly told you what they meant with the law they created. Sixix: Just like the paper said, the law is ridiculed with ambiguity, I will wait for the legal interpretation from the court because the above interpretation is too illogical to follow (putting human behaviour into consideration) The minute I read it, I knew it was written by fcktards. So, yes, it is illogical. Fcktards don't understand logic. Sixix: To be on the safer side of course Some people are not interested in marriage, so what should they do? They should never have sex? What safe side can they be in? |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 9:43pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols: So you admit marriage is not a panacea? Neither does it give any justification that this law is not stuuupid? Now secondly, if people do not have your religious beliefs and dogma, they should not be allowed to have sex? |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 9:50pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Sagamite: The law does not say they should not have sex. It says they should seek her consent. I think the law is OK. So many people taking advantage of some girls' naivety wont av an excuse. Once you agree to marriage, you have agreed to sex. Your partnee has as much right over your body as you have over theirs. This law cant hold in marriage. In marriage, the possible law would be, No means no. And silence and lack of resiatance, no. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols:As at now, the law only applies to university students. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 9:54pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
CFCfan: Then, the consent should be sought, thouroughly so. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Nobody: 10:00pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols:Yeah But the ambiguity could arise if a student from a private university doesn't get an oral consent from another student of a California state-funded school. And they both have intimacy outside a public university. The male student from the private school could claim that he is not bound by this latest law, since he isn't from a state-funded school. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by deols(f): 10:30pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
CFCfan: I am more interested in the idea behind the law than its practicality at the moment. Soon, it will be passed by other Universities, States and possibly, Countries. It makes sense that only mature people who can consent to or demand for sex, have it. |
Re: ‘yes Means Yes” The New Sex Law Of California by Sagamite(m): 10:38pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
deols: No, the law did not say they should seek her consent. The law said they should take responsibility that she says "Yes". She has no responsibility. She does not even have to tell them she does not want to have sex. That is a pure moronic law! Don't give me that tosh about "naivety". Are they kids? Or you are publicly admitting now that women are dumb and inferior intellectually? Or what makes a girl of 18 too moronic that she needs special protection from a boy of 18 because of her "naivety"? She should be regarded as reetarded due to her gender? deols: Maybe in Saudi Arabia. In the West, you do not live under Islamic law. Your partner does not own your body or have rights to it except with situational consent. IF you say no and he goes ahead, then it is raape. I still wait for the second question: Are you saying if people do not have your religious beliefs and dogma, hence not interested in marriage, they should not be allowed to have sex? 3 Likes |
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