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Hassanmaye:
Guy marry that girl getting free Puna hard

Please don't get married cos of free sex. Woman are ever ready to trade ur commitment and provision with the only coin she has[sex] mostly when with HIGH VALUE MAN.

And who told you free sex is scarce? HVM with good jobs and well placed in life rejects sex from their admirers all the time.
Ur job is to explore, redefine and find ur Palace in life and woman will be jumping fence to fuk you.

Faber:
I am just afraid she might change, because women change when you marry them, that's my fear a swear

Did you deflower this girl urself?

If not, thread with caution- her DESIRE might be base on other things not you persay.
Hope its not ur attentions/Good sex she's in for? Cos marriage comes with more and more responsibility especially for an ambitious Man who has dreams to fulfill for himself and children ( ask liona messi).
Good sex if at all is reduce to minimal or completely flies out of the window.
Try and check her mother relationship/loyalty to her father, Leaves don't fall far to the tree.
They are all devil, we must choose our devil/battle with wisdom..

AlphaNugget:
Iron Rule of Dating:

Men pick loyal girls over successful ones.
Girls pick successful men over loyal ones.

Remember this and apply accordingly.

--MasculinePeak---

Brotherly kindly explain more on DIS ABOVE.

Anunakeeh:
Only LowSelf Esteem Rich/Poor men reason like this.

Fvck Control.

I have nothing to do with Poor Women/People.

what are your thoughts? The man mentioned WELL TRAINED YOUNG VIRGIN. Bro been wealthy is a state of mind, you can be rich today and suddenly go broke tomorrow.

GoddyOra:
The only bulletproof advice I will give you bro is: Never delay sex just because a lady (Nigerian one at that ) claims to be a virgin. Almost all non-virgins claim exactly that, because it's a normal thing for a girl to try to appear chaste in front of her new mate. So if you eventually "pop the cherry" to find out that there was no hymen, don't accuse her of lying or whatnot, rather I will suggest you simply accept the fact that you got played by a player. Then proceed accordingly by switching the game to your favour .

Also there is no harm in dating a "Below Average - Economic wise" girl at all. That is if you know within yourself that you are in it for only the short-term (like a sensible man would). It is when it concerns settling down (marriage or long-term commitment) that I acknowledge the rule against broke/extremely poor girls.
My reason for this is that: for short-term relationships, the financial cost of servicing them for both girls from rich or poor backgrounds are almost equal, especially now that most ladies are inherently materialistic and still expect their male mates to be providers. So a girl (from a rich home) will still expect you to pay for dates, do most of the callings, and other relationship expenses etc. just like a girl (from a poor home). It's in Marriage that the whole ball game changes because the financial burden of the poor girl's family would solely rest on you (especially if you're now the richest in your new family) as opposed to marrying a girl with wealthy background. Also you can't gain from the former, in terms of possible connections or financial backing in the future if something negative happens to you. While for the later, there will always be that rich uncle, father, or aunt, that can easily come through for your new family financially because of the well-being of their daughter (your now wife).

Another thing is that, don't spend your resources or play a fatherly role in her life simply because of the wide gap in both of your economical standings. Don't make her a queen out of your sweat while dating, rather, simply toy with her for the meantime and see how it goes. Also no dey too carry relationship matter for head sha because most of the time na just cruise: Women go dey try game men, and men same to women. Na who Bleep up, lose.

Modified: I later noticed that I didn't really read through your post, thereby ignoring your questions.
Here is my short answers to them (The bolded ones);
1. Is she truly a Virgin? Did you confirm it yourself?

2. Mr. Time will do its magic as long as you don't play into her games and keep your resources (financially) away from her as much as possible even if she requests directly. And look out for the red flags. They will definitely appear with time, even if she tries her best to fake it at first.

3. There is no gain in a man delaying sex, Ubunja has trash this topic numerous time. By the time you attempt to pop the cherry, there might not even be one waiting for you . Ouch, that would hurt tho.

In all you do, simply enjoy your life, live in the moment, but at the same time protect your resources while dating the said girl (if you proceed to do that). Thanks for reading through and sorry for the lengthy post.

I got all you've said brother.

1. To reply ur first question I naked her 3times to confirm her virginity.

I wasn't ready for any commitment just yet [ But she keep mentioning husband and seeing her family each time our rough play got to d fore...

She doesn't have any work or financial value as of date, neither does her parents has the cash to set her up business wise but she was domestically well trained.

I equally knew the risk of using my money to elevate a woman...

I will just play along as you've suggested, time will tell.

luminouz:
Pop the cherry? Thought she is below your standard!!!

You asking a woman why she chose you?

That's some weak shiit! She chose you. You either accept or not, dude!!!

Elephant 🐘 don’t bite brother it's always the mosquito that does.

From ur experience how do I locate and attract Elephant in a dating market?

AlphaAlex:
If you feel she is below your standard then move on why be with a woman you don’t like ? From what you typed she likes you but you don’t like her like that, if you don’t like her leave her alone instead of making yourself uncomfortable trying to force something that isn’t there.

You were right, this were the general effects i noticed from daily intake of redpill.

Suddenly my taste in women is going above the roof.

My mind is highly sensitive to red sign now.

And my sexual drive dropped.

goshikid:
if nature doesn't like a man it gives him a girl from a poor family



poor girls aree too needy and stressful, they will consume your time.

stay woke

This is hard sh!t people, personally most of the ones that gravitate towards me are average. How do I attract from above average?

Brothers kindly give me advice I had this girlfriend/lover who had lot of admirers she's a virgin and we had exposed each other to different romance and erotic sessions. I declined the penetrative sexual act because she's below my standard and her family is seemingly below average economics wise. She's
a student but personally she barely challenged herself to level up ( self development).
The issue is this girl hardly call me with her card only flashes,
I ask her why does she chose me for relationship she said she doesn't know.

I LOVE HER COURAGE TO REMAIN CHASTE TILL WE MEET BUT REDPILL WARNS AGAINST DATING THRASHY WOMEN

How do I VET her true motive expecially now that she knew am a king.

Is it wise to keep refusing her sexual attempts while scrutiny of intent is going on or should POP THE CHERRY FIRST?

REDPILL part of me feels like moving on to other HVW but I was drawn by the way she get hold of herself, takes care of her auntie house for years now....

juitar:
Later if your employees start to dey sell your products you go wan arrest them. Since na 3people you need, I will advice you to employ your wife and your son or brother, make you sef join them. And you guyz should pay yourselves. How can you be enslaving your fellow human. What do you think 22k can buy, worst thing you still want to scam your employees at the end of the year tell them stories cut their money. I suppose swear for you sef, but because of God make I just leave you alone. Eranko(Animal)

weren't looking for theifs nor do we seek to employ people with so much entitled mindset, no one owes you nothing in this life. Proof yourself worthy and irreplaceable and see yourself rise. There's room for development in life expecially when we focus, develop and explore our little -little chances in life.

Lol

ZOT2023:
Oga,weldone,maybe you are new to farm work and business,i have the following advice for you sir;
1) 3 people are too much for a 15acre farm.max of 2 people is ok
2) N250k is too smal as annual pay,if you want to know the current annual pay ,kindly visit anywhere around you that bajaj motorcycle is being sold,the current price of the motor cycle is the annual pay.
3) If you think you can feed farm workers 3 times a day in this economy,you be oga on the top,farm workers are usually fed twice in a day.

Well said, I can relate. But those guys are mostly foreigners and they work under most stringent conditions weeding and making hips for their ogas and other villagers. I fear Nigerian might not be able to function in that capacity.

ahamonyeka:
what is feeding? Feeding? So he wont send money to his family.

We should learn to see beyond the surface. We're actually looking for young man with I CAN DO IT MINDSET not a family man. Even with family man there's ways you present urself that will open other doors for your wife to join and be making daily income..

Kaybee7000:
amen! I wish him more bads than u do bro,imagine this fool wish for nigerian like himself o.This mumu dey abuse buhari o

The more you look the less you see...

Jashub:
You are wicked . May your children be the recipients of such nonsense. Idìot

The uncouth words might not be necessary. You could have just passed.
But kindly note- It's hard getting a job that will pay you to riches, but there're offers that will grant you necessary experience to make wealth.

Rexymania:
250k? That's 20k in 12 months

20k plus in 1month Sundays is free for jobs

ahamonyeka:
We dont value life in this country,so one will have to wait till end of the year.oga una wicked oo.

Go your village go recruit them there naa

I can understand what you're feeling. I don't know if you see the part where it stated that feeding is taking care of. There's always a starting point to every journey in life. We're looking
for humans to work with not machine.

All applications must be submitted on and before 5th of January. As work had already commenced contract will come to an end by Dec 10,2023.

Zenithgroup1986@yahoo.com

Three Farm Workers Needed.


We will be engaging in the cultivation of about 15 acres of farm land


Your work responsibilities includes:


* Cultivating Maize

* Cultivating Plantain

* Running Farm errands

* Digging holes for propagating the buds

* Harvest Activities

* Pesticides Application

*picking of cashew nuts


Accommodation will be provided. ( Applicants must be willing to relocate to iseyin oyo State )


Three times feeding daily will be provided.



Renumeration : 250,000 Naira ( This is strictly on annual contract basis )


To apply, send your CV by email to:

Zenithgroup1986@yahoo.com



If you're asthmatic or have any kind of respiratory medical conditions, please do not apply.


If you lack formal farm experience do not bother


Each workman will be paid 250,000 at the end of the twelve months contract.


Accommodation. Feeding and Logistics is taken care of. Your presence and farm skills is just what you need to bring to the table.
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jossyomoo:
New maize

@ Sheriff 84
When did you think maize price will begin to shoot up?

What can I used for this--pics

Expert in the forum kindly help, what can I use to stop this before it escalate through out the farm.

stupidmod3:
apcide

Does this apcide work for the situation sir?

Dear team
I saw this land very close to a village settlement, very fertile ,dark and well moisturised. I love to use this land for farm purposes planting maize and cassava to start with. Major challenge is that there are goats sheep and cow raoming free around what chemicals can be used to keep them off my farm?

Bola146:
Marriage it's well ooo hummmm

I can see you're scared of marriage already, yours might be different positively.

@OPS, PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM AND CAST OUT ALL THAT STUPIDITY FROM HIS MINDSET.

He is suffering from mindset problem, But he's lucky to have you as his wife.
Go ahead and buy a land in your son's name and start the building and don't stop until you finished it, if telling him will caused delayed- no need telling him till the job is fully complete.
IF HE GET ANNOYED LATER, TELL HIM YOU DID IT CAUSE YOU LOVED HIM.

Hmmmmm

Many are the affliction of the wicked

cosmic22:
you are a fine woman.

she s a LovePeddler

ruggedboy01:
They look so unkempt

Bloody vampires

there is no peace for the wicked

GoldenJAT:
I'm just laughing so hard.. You know y?? Cos woman never gt on ur nerves, it's quite easy 2 give such advise. But I tel u NA PERSON WAY WEAR SHOE KNOW AS E CARRY DE PAIN AM.. u don't understand what our brother the poster is really trying 2 say.. This is nigeria, where men are so Romantic, bt Because of the indomie brain way our women gt, we go DE form superman.. Which is d best. that is that 4u.
Mr Op!!! This is my advise 2u,there is a saying that goes thus.. Desperate times require desperate measures. If sum1 pushes u 2d wall u are bound 2 react. If u don't take a serious action with ur wife, then d trend is bound 2 continue.. No b evry time person DE dialogue.. E gt where u go talk reach, u sef go tire. How long do u want 2 continue talking? Remember say u b human being on. Don't hide ur flaws, vent it out. Don't try 2b perfect. Do sumthin silly that Wil show her u are felt up with such behavior. Settle d matter once and 4 all. I'm advising from a realistic point of view... 4gt All these talk, petting.. E no DE work 4 here o

woman of this days could be so obdurate and unyielding, they don't care for confrontation with their husband.

Adaeze003:
Uhm... control?

Honestly, some men are out of their minds...

Good luck all the same.

For what reason? the man get the blame when things go wrong in the family after all.