₦airaland Forum

lymelyte:
Which of these is easy to forgive.
A lady cheating on her boyfriend with a girl vs a lady cheating on her boyfriend with other men?

Gerrard59:
I don analyse am tire and have come to the realisation that it is a woman's world. I am supposed to write on this sef. An educated woman in today's world has more power and opportunity than ever recorded in history. The only way out for a man is to have few children so the bulk of his savings and investments stay within himself till he kpeme. This is because even the children at a young age cling more to their mother than their father.

Our men should be more selfish and better planners. The era of paying for the education of a woman one is not married to has to end. Complusory taking care of her siblings (that is her father's responsibility) too has to cease. Conduct DNA test in at least two reputable centres.

The sex is not even frequent as the man has to beg for it. Jesus! Wetin I don read about sex between husband and wife from today's women scare me to the bones! The favourite question is: "Is sex food?"

Thank God for Ndi red pill even though I have been harsh towards them in the past. They have been a force for good.

Fiscus105:
Even though man will marry woman that his own father sponsored her education alone. Afterwards, man will force such lady to abandon her father name and impose his on name on her, not done with that oo, all the seeds ,that she experiencing excruciating pains to bore, the seed would bear such man name.


Frustrated and hopeless guys who refuse to have life, would lament all his life and eventually end bitterly.

isyourboy:
There’s no doubt that today’s men are the most disadvantaged in all of histories.

These men invest so much only get so little. Only to get disrespected at the constant for not doing enough. They work so hard just to make life easy for women. Everything they strive for in life is for women.

In the past, women were loyal, submissive, and are happy to be wife and mothers while enjoying the good things of life men have to offer for just being women. Today women aren’t wife, but partners. This is the new term with which married people refer to themselves. Yet, marriage remains traditional as ever with the man carrying all the weight in the relationship while he get rewarded with sex during weekend as a “thank you my slave” gift.

Today’s men fight for their right to slave for women so badly. They provide, work hard, go to market to buy good stuffs, get home , cook, bath the baby, pampers, wash clothes. And these men even revolt the ideas of anyone that say “ a woman is supposed to cook for
Her husband” before u know it, you see these men saying “omg is she ur slave” “why not enter the kitchen and cook for her” it’s absurd

Today’s men get cheated on and they dare not leave because they’re afraid of missing out on the golden pvssy their wife serve them

They take care of another man child while they know.

It’s even worse for Nigerian men abroad. Their wife bring different men home and they dare not talk or they will be sent out of their own home and be made to pay alimony all through their life.

SpencerForbes:
MODERN WOMEN BROKE THE FIRST RULE OF LOVE: YOU DON’T REPLACE PEOPLE YOU’RE STILL WITH

There used to be a rule—unspoken but sacred: no matter what happens, you don’t seek someone else while still with your partner.

But modern women threw that rule out the window and replaced it with Wi-Fi, location switches, backup plans, and burner accounts.

Now we have relationships where the moment she’s not happy, she’s hunting. And the moment you blink, she’s gone emotionally but still living in your house.

1. Emotional infidelity is now a feature, not a flaw. She’ll tell you she’s “just venting to a friend.” But it’s always a male friend. And it always sounds like a husband application. One bad argument with you and she’s texting someone else with “he doesn’t understand me.” Every word is betrayal dressed as harmless honesty. Modern women don’t leave—they emotionally relocate and still want the bills paid while they shop for upgrades.

2. Her loyalty ends when her comfort ends. Can’t afford the new iPhone? No problem, she has a backup provider. Can’t travel this summer? Her “work brother” already booked the trip. Modern love isn’t about vows or values—it’s about convenience. She’s yours until you miss a payment, until you say no, until you stop entertaining her like a personal Netflix subscription. And the moment life gets hard, she logs out.

3. One woman, three boyfriends, five locations. There’s the weekday boyfriend, the Sunday church flirt, the Instagram follower who sends “you look amazing” every morning. Modern women don’t cheat anymore—they rotate. They build rosters, hide apps, change contact names, upload stories for one man and kiss another goodnight. Loyalty is just a filter—applied until the DMs heat up.

4. She’s not single—she’s between sponsors. You think you’re building something together. But to her, you’re a chapter, an access point, a sponsor for her current phase. When the money shifts, when the attention dips, when you’re focused on legacy instead of lashes—she’s already calling her ex, already replying to the “heyyy” she left on read six weeks ago. Modern dating isn’t about finding the one—it’s about never being alone.

5. Men are waking up—and backing out. Men aren’t dumb. They see the games, the backup plans, the “just friends” with six-pack abs and long hugs. And they’re backing out. Not because they hate love—but because modern women have turned relationships into contests of attention where the winner is whoever provides the most stimulation, not stability. So men are going ghost. Not from fear—but from wisdom. You can’t build with a woman who treats your presence like a trial version while keeping three tabs open for other options.

Final Word: When you normalize replacement—you kill commitment. If the first sign of trouble sends you looking for someone else, you were never committed. You were leasing love. Don’t cry when men stop proposing, stop investing, stop trying. Because no real man will play musical chairs with his money, time, or legacy. He’s not afraid of building. He’s afraid of building alone while you entertain alternatives. You’re not a partner if you’re always prepared to leave. And no amount of body count denial, emotional justification, or “just friends” excuses can hide the fact that modern women killed the first rule of love—then wondered why no one believes in it anymore.

Nyascobar1414:
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I'm redpilled,I just can't fake it..
I'm just aware of the intersexual dynamics,reason why I snub women😹.
I mean I'm just too authentic to fake it..
Can't roll with the herd pls😔.

heracles1:
most of us redpillars are broke angry youth. that hardly get sex

Solofresh2:
What can a red pill do about this

Nyascobar1414:
..

So, this week I entered a bank to pay for something,I walked in, and the cashier in there didn't give a fvck,even after greeting her😹.
Woow,I just noticed that a female walked in and she was validated and complimented by the same cashier,there and then I noticed that males are not welcomed..
It's all good though,cos that's what I also do..
I do t notice females,no attention, validation etc..
Cos I've seen the pains my fellow males have been through,so an eye for an eye is what I do..

Fr man,I wonder what will ever make me not to be ruthless to the other g3nder,even to fellow males..
Cos I've seen that a man will hardly help a fellow man. So everyone for themselves..
This is an animal kingdom, I swear 😹

Anenehi:
girl wey go work go work whether relationship or not. Girl wey nor go work nor go work weather relationship or not.

Kenogidi:
Bro I swear SMV is real. Again I repeat all you want is to smash no attachments or long term dating plan. Nothing about this strategy will weaken your game. On the contrary, it will strengthen your game with the so called 9s and 10s cos one of the greatest sources of confidence for a player in the game is getting steady pussy(girls) regardless of the SMV of the girls.

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the fastest and easiest way to consistently get laid is to always shoot at girls below your SMV. You can't be a 6 and be chasing a 10, you most likely won't get her. In other words, the uglier she is(i.e the lower her SMV), the easier she'll be to smash.

iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls.. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...

manoflove22:
what can i do to felling lonely not being in relationship, loneliness wan tear my soul

note i just don't want to be in relationship for now

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime?

luvyaself95:
That would be really painful 😣
I have been helped by female but my strong head no let me appreciate her instead i always ignore her on several occasions whenever she tried to talk to me.

luvyaself95:
Maintaining is not easy thing bro.
The one i see daily from the girls in my area,work area and workplace even sometime inside commercial buses.
Aside all these maintaining is about every gender not just only girls.
Even your friend self will want to test your abilities.

KingEarnest:
What about hypergamy? Thought women don't date down?

luminouz:
I've had same experience as yours. That's why I laugh at people who said redpillers hate women. I don't hate them but understand them. I have been helped severally by women when my own gender turned me down. Not to say men never helped me at all. But I've received help from more women than men. If not for a lady, I would have died in 2016 in Abuja when my classmate(who was married) suddenly decided not to host me after previously agreeing(said his wife disagreed) when I already got to Abuja park. I knew no one in Abuja and I was turned down brutally by 3 different churches(after talking to their pastors).

I called Oge who I met online on NL and had never seen and she came to my aid. She called two yoruba guys in Abuja and they rejected me. She tried to take me to her house but her parents refused because I'm Yoruba (just by hearing my name on her phone, even though I look like Ibo). Oge kept going from house to house in that area looking for where I would sleep, ignoring her parents' calls to come home. I later found refuge in a church owned by an ibo prophetess around 1am. She took care of me till I left for my interview that day.

I finished late at the interview and Oge sneaked me back into her parents house when they were at work. I was in her room for three days , eating good food and fuqin good pussy. I was notified after 3 months that I passed the interview (a scholarship) and my greatest regret was losing my phone with Oge's number and not repaying that prophetess for her kindness when I went back to Abuja. That is just one of many help I've had from people/women and other tribes/races, which is why racism/tribalism is dead to me.

KingEarnest:
Bro, thought we agreed AWALT? Whether rich or poor, AWALT

luminouz:
I don't agree...