samwash: Nor wori, just rape a girl mk then report you to police,they arrest you and then they charge you to court, you go kwn how far. Then you go kwn say na big case for Nigeria.
Most of the ladies gets raped by bandits every day in Nigeria. Most girls under 18 are giving birth in Nigeria in a daily basis. Most girls under 18 are getting married in Nigeria in a daily basis. Most girls and kids are raped by relatives in a daily basis
So much for inferior mindset, we sent them packing from our country ..
So much for inferior mindset, we don't have them controlling our economy
So much for inferior mindset, we don't have them taking up high and important governmental positions in the country..
So much for inferior mindset, we do not have a special place/city these folks Only occupy in the country ..
Now, let me see counter that using your country as a case study ..
Let's see the one with the inferior mindset...
I do not wish to do this with you ..
I'd like to see you and Samantha continue you conversation as it's sort of educational for us non SAns...
Firstly I like how you discus, you communicate well without insults or anger unlike most Nigerians.
Mandela said we must not force white to leave because our economy will be poor, because IMF will downgrade our currency.
Black people control SA govt and white people control private sector = true.
Orania - Mandela said we must allow them to have Orania for peace sake.
Govt positions are for blacks in SA, in private sector top position are for whites, but Julius Malema will fix this very soon.
South Africans prefers South African universities and Nigerian prefers American universities. Nigerians prefers American health care, south Africans prefers south African health care. Nigerians prefers to work overseas, SAns prefers to work in South Africa. Nigerians prefers American music, movies, cloth label and south Africans prefers SA music, cloth label and movies. Nigerians prefers to emigrate to America or Europe, south Africans prefers to stay in south Africa. Nigerians celebrate when they see Nigerian boy playing for Canada national team and South Africans won't celebrate that. Nigerians always applies for Visas to America, black south Africans mostly don't apply for visa's. Nigerians celebrate when a Nigerian got USA citizenship and south Africans won't celebrate that. Most Nigerians dreams is to go abroad and most South Africans dreams is to stay in South Africa and build it. Most South African believes that South Africa could be better than USA, Nigerians believe that USA will always be better than Nigeria.
Silentgroper: the superiority of Nigerians .. what is it that we do not have better you sapafricows, what is it that we do not do better than you sapafricows ..
We lead , sapafricows chases after 😋😋😋😋
Nigeria is a failed state, with people who have inferior mindset towards whites.
Samantha125: It's only rare for those Pedis who've been living in villages their entire lives.
Where does other Pedi's live, if not villages. What I know about Pedis even if they can own a house in Sandton they will still build a home in the villages. It seems you are a different Pedi, if indeed you are a pedi. FYI, Pedi's will never get married to a sotho, because they undermine and they call them makgatla.
Samantha125: Keep my husband out of this... You're a one big fat lier and I've even once called you out for your lies before.
On many occasions I've seen you lying on this forum, but I chose to ignore because I thought it's none of my business.
The problem with you, you think we are acting. You need to be realistic, and stop your dramas. You are the only south African who is pulling to the wrong direction.
Samantha125: If your entire life has only revolved around a small village in Limpopo, then of course you'll reason like this... You only know about Vendas and Tsongas because they're also based in Limpopo.
I've seen a lot of Bapedi people getting married to other tribes outside of Limpopo and also other nationalities... And don't forget that Bapedi tribe also extends to Gauteng and Mpumalanga.
I think you are quoting me out of context , I am not saying that is not possible for Pedi's to marry other tribes, I am saying is rare. I hope you understand, same as Pedi marrying foreigners is extremely rare.
TUANKU: Xenophobia rest. Trump is taking away your AV drugs money...with South Africa number 2 in rape cases in the world you lot are in for a ride, a long HIV/AIDS ride.
This kind of mentality is what makes Nigeria poor.
Samantha125: How are Bapedi people tribalists? And please don't lie.
Bapedi are very tribalistic, in general they prefer to be married by fellow pedi's or One of Limpopo tribes such as venda or Tsonga. Is rare or a tabou for a pedi to marry a foreigner.
Sonnobax15: He's definitely the luckiest and happiest south African man alive
Can't you see how he's busy shinning his teeth and smiling joyously like he has won a lottery, unlike the regular South African guys who are naturally hate-filled towards their fellow blacks? . That's because he's been so lucky to have one of our sisters in his life..
I don't understand this guy, I doubt if he is fully South African?
The difference between the wealthy Nigerian man and the wealthy South African man is that ,the SA man will use his position and influence to uplift the women in his life ; make sure there is a significant female representation in his company, department, institution etc. Those women will forever be grateful to him because he has given them an opportunity to do for themselves without bending a knee everytime they want a new car .
There are reasons why the most independent , women leaders in Africa are mostly found in ; South Africa, Rwanda, Botswana and Kenya. Men in these countries don't see women as liabilities,burden or* little kids to be dashed pocket money*. Women are partners not subjects.
SA has the highest number of black dollar millionaires after USA, and females make up a significant number of those,and no ....they were not given those riches by their men,they were given equal opportunity in education, funding etc both at home and by the government. When you can feed yourself ,someone else's money comes as an extra , a SA woman from birth is groomed to know this. That's why we don't have women chased out of their " husband's houses" ....because there is no such here....a woman and a man are co-owners of the home.
The wealthy Nigerian man uses his position to feed the hungry an ofcourse lord over them ,reminding them anytime he can that he *takes care of them *
There are reasons why you'll never hear men from any other place beating his chest over *taking care of women * the way Nigerian men do . Listen to British ,USA, Japanese men etc none will tell you how they are the centre of their women's world. But look at countries like Pakistan,Nigeria, Somalia etc the men there cannot wait to tell anyone who can hear how their women depend on them even for toothpaste . Even when they set up that mini-business for them ....the men will announce this gesture to the world .
With that being said; there is no country in the world where men* don't take care*of their women's * spend more on relationships than women*......common sense should tell you. Men earn more and are also more likely to be self sufficient than women. But normal men don't make noise about this because it comes naturally to them.
There are only about 86 000 SA married to foreign nationals out of a population of about 60 million . And most of the females are married to Zim, German,India British, Mozambique, Pakistan, ( I won't count Lesotho, Swaziland &,Botswana). Nigeria is not even in the top 10. So I'm wondering where all this * SA women love Nigerian men* nonsense comes from if not from Nigerian men themselves . Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know . Inferiority complex Masked with hot bravado . There is a certain type of SA woman who would be willing to date a Nigerian man and even make it public in SA ,and her family don't want her around...her friends are all dating Nigerians ,she has no job ,business, education etc. Basically has nothing to lose and everything to gain ...she is actually the winner as she comes with nothing but baggage ( two or three kids mostly) . And the relationships and marriages usually don't last ...the Nigerian man can't lord over her in her country(if she ain't stupid) as she has the police and courts in her favor. And she would never move to Nigeria where she will be like most Nigerian women ( powerless ) . Once he comes into financial distress...she leaves because he nolonger has what she came for, why be with a Nigerian if you're not going to be heavily compensated for it ?
And yes,we know you pay women to give birth to.your kids ...you even rent their love . A SA broke man can sleep with the same SA woman you're* taking care of *without giving her dime ,just his personality ....no SA woman would ever date a Nigerian who has no paper to offer her.
And lastly, know between outliers vs norm. SA women dating Nigerian men are not a norm but outliers in SA. Nigerian men mostly recycle the same women. She dates Chike in Durban, moves to Cape Town to marry Tunde .
zhike: Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow pedi's
zhike: Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow pedis
BendedPrick: On Kpiiii my bended prick, the very first of its name, I can swear that,
This Samanatha lady is the only sensible SAn I've come accross on this forum. At least she doesn't attempt the nonsense her countrymen do here.
Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow of your pedis
Samantha125: Good day nairalanders, when I logged out of this forum a couple of days ago, I had no intentions of coming back online until later on in the year, I even deleted my nairaland app.
But when I came across this YouTube channel during the week, I had to wait until it's the weekend so that I can redownload my nairaland app since I didn't delete my nairaland account, because this requires the options of the jollof nation... ... For me it's quite shocking because I've never came across a black SA guy who's not only dating a Nigerian lady, but married to one because it's quite rare seeing black SA guys dating foreign African ladies the same way it's rare seeing Nigerian ladies dating SA guys.
In my opinion, this guy has made history for not only black SA guys, but for Pedi guys because he's Pedi and not Zulu, so don't come for Zulus...😅😅😅... And I like the fact that he's been teaching her Sepedi and she understands the language, she probably speaks it as well.
South African enca TV last week reported that Nigeria deported 832 illegal immigrants from countries such as Niger, Burkina Faso, Ghana, Benin, etc. How do they verify if you are Nigerian because not all Nigerians has IDs. Again how do you deport Africans in Africa.
Nigeria is starting to have South African tendencies.
IGBOPROMISE1: I think part of the reason trans-atlantic slave trade was rife more in west africa than south or east africa was due to geography...the proximity of west africa to europe and the new world! Conversely, east africa and parts of south africa suffered more from slave trade controlled by the arabs!
Slave trading in black africans still continues to this day, only that it's mode is a bit different. There is still the traditional slave trading of black africans going on....controlled by wicked black africans selling their own race into slavery, as well as those controlled by north africans and the arabs! But the larger incidence of modern day slavery is due to desperate, naive and ignorant black africans throwing themselves at the evil african, north african and arab slave traders who only need to sit back and relax as hordes of black africans come to them! I watched a news report on tv that talked of mass graves of black africans being found in Libya, and i just shook my head in despair! Probably the mothers and loved ones of those victims are still expecting them to call from europe, not knowing that the bodies of their loved ones lay buried in a shallow mass grave somewhere in Libya and that they will never hear from them again in this life!
When i show a less forgiving attitude than most towards the largely thieving and wicked Nigerian political elite, it's partly because of all these poor and desperate youth who're either being abused and treated worse than animals in their own country...in north africa...in the middle east...and in europe, or it's because of those poor and desperate youth who have met a far worse fate as typified by those thrown into mass graves in Libya and forgotten!
The modern day slavery unlike the old one is by choice, people leave their home and go to look for green pastures in Europe. In that case you intentionally went to slavery.
People should settle in their homes in africa and build their economies.
Crime › Re: Why Is Rape Not Big Case In Nigeria by zhike(op): 6:31pm On Apr 16, 2025
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