The difference between the wealthy Nigerian man and the wealthy South African man is that ,the SA man will use his position and influence to uplift the women in his life ; make sure there is a significant female representation in his company, department, institution etc. Those women will forever be grateful to him because he has given them an opportunity to do for themselves without bending a knee everytime they want a new car .
There are reasons why the most independent , women leaders in Africa are mostly found in ; South Africa, Rwanda, Botswana and Kenya. Men in these countries don't see women as liabilities,burden or* little kids to be dashed pocket money*. Women are partners not subjects.
SA has the highest number of black dollar millionaires after USA, and females make up a significant number of those,and no ....they were not given those riches by their men,they were given equal opportunity in education, funding etc both at home and by the government. When you can feed yourself ,someone else's money comes as an extra , a SA woman from birth is groomed to know this. That's why we don't have women chased out of their " husband's houses" ....because there is no such here....a woman and a man are co-owners of the home.
The wealthy Nigerian man uses his position to feed the hungry an ofcourse lord over them ,reminding them anytime he can that he *takes care of them *
There are reasons why you'll never hear men from any other place beating his chest over *taking care of women * the way Nigerian men do . Listen to British ,USA, Japanese men etc none will tell you how they are the centre of their women's world. But look at countries like Pakistan,Nigeria, Somalia etc the men there cannot wait to tell anyone who can hear how their women depend on them even for toothpaste . Even when they set up that mini-business for them ....the men will announce this gesture to the world .
With that being said; there is no country in the world where men* don't take care*of their women's * spend more on relationships than women*......common sense should tell you. Men earn more and are also more likely to be self sufficient than women. But normal men don't make noise about this because it comes naturally to them.
There are only about 86 000 SA married to foreign nationals out of a population of about 60 million . And most of the females are married to Zim, German,India British, Mozambique, Pakistan, ( I won't count Lesotho, Swaziland &,Botswana). Nigeria is not even in the top 10. So I'm wondering where all this * SA women love Nigerian men* nonsense comes from if not from Nigerian men themselves . Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know . Inferiority complex Masked with hot bravado . There is a certain type of SA woman who would be willing to date a Nigerian man and even make it public in SA ,and her family don't want her around...her friends are all dating Nigerians ,she has no job ,business, education etc. Basically has nothing to lose and everything to gain ...she is actually the winner as she comes with nothing but baggage ( two or three kids mostly) . And the relationships and marriages usually don't last ...the Nigerian man can't lord over her in her country(if she ain't stupid) as she has the police and courts in her favor. And she would never move to Nigeria where she will be like most Nigerian women ( powerless ) . Once he comes into financial distress...she leaves because he nolonger has what she came for, why be with a Nigerian if you're not going to be heavily compensated for it ?
And yes,we know you pay women to give birth to.your kids ...you even rent their love . A SA broke man can sleep with the same SA woman you're* taking care of *without giving her dime ,just his personality ....no SA woman would ever date a Nigerian who has no paper to offer her.
And lastly, know between outliers vs norm. SA women dating Nigerian men are not a norm but outliers in SA. Nigerian men mostly recycle the same women. She dates Chike in Durban, moves to Cape Town to marry Tunde .
zhike: Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow pedi's
zhike: Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow pedis
BendedPrick: On Kpiiii my bended prick, the very first of its name, I can swear that,
This Samanatha lady is the only sensible SAn I've come accross on this forum. At least she doesn't attempt the nonsense her countrymen do here.
Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow of your pedis
Samantha125: Good day nairalanders, when I logged out of this forum a couple of days ago, I had no intentions of coming back online until later on in the year, I even deleted my nairaland app.
But when I came across this YouTube channel during the week, I had to wait until it's the weekend so that I can redownload my nairaland app since I didn't delete my nairaland account, because this requires the options of the jollof nation... ... For me it's quite shocking because I've never came across a black SA guy who's not only dating a Nigerian lady, but married to one because it's quite rare seeing black SA guys dating foreign African ladies the same way it's rare seeing Nigerian ladies dating SA guys.
In my opinion, this guy has made history for not only black SA guys, but for Pedi guys because he's Pedi and not Zulu, so don't come for Zulus...😅😅😅... And I like the fact that he's been teaching her Sepedi and she understands the language, she probably speaks it as well.
South African enca TV last week reported that Nigeria deported 832 illegal immigrants from countries such as Niger, Burkina Faso, Ghana, Benin, etc. How do they verify if you are Nigerian because not all Nigerians has IDs. Again how do you deport Africans in Africa.
Nigeria is starting to have South African tendencies.
IGBOPROMISE1: I think part of the reason trans-atlantic slave trade was rife more in west africa than south or east africa was due to geography...the proximity of west africa to europe and the new world! Conversely, east africa and parts of south africa suffered more from slave trade controlled by the arabs!
Slave trading in black africans still continues to this day, only that it's mode is a bit different. There is still the traditional slave trading of black africans going on....controlled by wicked black africans selling their own race into slavery, as well as those controlled by north africans and the arabs! But the larger incidence of modern day slavery is due to desperate, naive and ignorant black africans throwing themselves at the evil african, north african and arab slave traders who only need to sit back and relax as hordes of black africans come to them! I watched a news report on tv that talked of mass graves of black africans being found in Libya, and i just shook my head in despair! Probably the mothers and loved ones of those victims are still expecting them to call from europe, not knowing that the bodies of their loved ones lay buried in a shallow mass grave somewhere in Libya and that they will never hear from them again in this life!
When i show a less forgiving attitude than most towards the largely thieving and wicked Nigerian political elite, it's partly because of all these poor and desperate youth who're either being abused and treated worse than animals in their own country...in north africa...in the middle east...and in europe, or it's because of those poor and desperate youth who have met a far worse fate as typified by those thrown into mass graves in Libya and forgotten!
The modern day slavery unlike the old one is by choice, people leave their home and go to look for green pastures in Europe. In that case you intentionally went to slavery.
People should settle in their homes in africa and build their economies.
Basicend: If the Whites had not stayed, SA would have been close to Zimbabwe by now in decline rate.
They (the blacks) will still mess up the whole place with corruption, it's only a matter of time.
Kindly go to YouTube, and check the richest politicians in Africa, After Nigerian politicians, you will that SA politicians are already climbing up the ladder after us.
Blacks are by default greedy, selfish and non-innovative.
NothingDoMe: Has the economy of SA become so bad that you'll seize land without compensation? Even Nigeria that is going through economic challenges has not sunk so low.
Just a few retards that tauted seizing properties owned by people from another region that were quickly called to order.
During the end of Apartheid, whites registered most of their land under their names.
The plan was to make money when government buys the land.
Selling of slaves was a big business in west Africa in the past centuries. As per research, certain tribe in west Africa was responsible for selling their fellow Africans.
Kindly why was slavery big in west Africa than other part of Africa?
Why was Africans selling other Africans?
For your information, south Africa never experienced much slavery because king shaka Zulu was advised by his traditional healer that a big enemy will come from the direction of the ocean. Shaka Zulu never met white people but he passed message to his followers to be careful of the people that will come from the direction of the ocean.
kedeojo: don't mind the foolish and racist trump. I like what the south africa president said. America aid to them is just 17 percent of the total they spent for HIV patients and he said there is no other one. Trump should know that many nations don't longer fear America unlike before.
I think this thing of African countries depending on American grants or donations has to stop.
South African must lead by example and survive without donations.
The challenge that South Africans are afraid of, is that there is high chance for rand to loose value.
kedeojo: don't mind the foolish and racist trump. I like what the south africa president said. America aid to them is just 17 percent of the total they spent for HIV patients and he said there is no other one. Trump should know that many nations don't longer fear America unlike before.
Trump accused South Africa of ill treating white people by taking their land.
President Ramaphosa signed a law that allows government to take empty land freely in South Africa. South Africa government was struggling to utilize most of the vacant land because most of the vacant land due to apartheid is owned by white people and white people want to sell the land to government with high rate.
Trump said he will stop the funds aid to South Africa, he won't attend G20 in South Africa.
Marco Rubio said he also won't come to South Africa for G20 summit.
Ramaphosa said he is not going to be bullied by America.
BigIyanga: Talk to us when you have built a country from the scratch?? Talk to to us when you own 50% of SA gdp. Nigerians own 95 of their country . Isnt it shameful that 5 % of whie folks own 70% of publicly traded companies Asians/colored peeps own 20% while black folks own 10%? There is no black-owned publicly traded company on JSE while Naija companies are listed?
Worry about yourself😂😂
FYI, whites can not own 50% shares of any jse listed company. Which jse listed company is owned by asians?
Example of black owned companies is Mtn, dstv, shoprite, etc.
Nigeria was also developed by whites and Nigerians destroyed it.
BigIyanga: South Africans havent really built a country. They’re running down a country built by white folks for white minority. Your biggest ISP is owned by white.the. Phone you’re using to type now, was sold to by white or owned by white and you’re making payment on it. The car you’re driving is owned by white and you’re make payment. The house you live is owned by white.. you’re a tenant and making payment. Your hotels, resorts, banks, airlines,malls,companies and lands are owned by 5% white people
Does Nigeria have good tourism destination?
Because most people visit Nigerians to consult which doctors or to attend churches.
Gajagojo: Well you need to know the meaning of the word DISCUSS
If you make claims back them up with proof
Spouting ridiculous ideas and telling me to
GO AND CHECK is idiotic
I am not your friend
The Zulu is not the peer of the Igbo which is the group you are more likely to encounter in South Africa. The Zulu accept being second class to the Boer
The Nigerian does not believe anyone is his equal that is the difference between Nigerians and Zulus
By the way I am Yoruba and the Igbos are our subordinate brothers just louder and more cantankerous
The idea that Boers are South Africans and own land they exclude black people from can only be accepted as normal by a Zulu mind
Firstly, what do loose if someone says my friend to you. I think you need to have a little bit of humor in you. Or maybe arrogance is part of your daily lives. If so, you need some form of deliverance so that you can be the kind of persons God created.
Diff BTW Zulus and Nigerians. Nigerians will abandon their places, go and stay in orania with white people. Cry racism every day, fight with whites for racism on daily basis. Zulus will observe orania , go back and build a place better than orania and stay there in peace. That is why is rare to find Zulus staying permanently in Europe or America, they mostly go there to study, learn, research, etc. Zulus always believe that they can do better than white people. Nigerians always believe that they are entitled to white people achievement.
Gajagojo: I do not need to check You provide evidence of your silly claims
THIS White people cannot own 50% shares of company that worth more that 50m rand. Is something you just made up and is an idiotic thing to say . You must think you are talking to ignoramuses like yourself
Zulus are slaves in their own land
My friend when we discuss let's try to discuss without insulting.
Go read about south africa BBBEE and you will agree with what I said.
Is just that some people give too much credit to white people.
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by zhike: 7:31am On Feb 17, 2025
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. Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know 
