₦airaland Forum

OP, please try and look inwards, almost every woman wants peace and love in her home... And would do everything within her reach to get it... But it gets to a point she feels the mab doesn't appreciate those things (maybe judging from his attitude) she reaches her elastic limit!

Now, you don't have kids yet? Is there any underlying medical issue with you which she feels you knew about but his from her before marriage?
Do you have sex regularly with her?

Have you been cheating in her despite the fact that you are not as bouyant now?

What restrictions have you given her which you feel could she isn't comfortable with and is causing her pain??

I know most times a lot of men use this 'gra gra' attitude to cover what they know deep within then that is the truth... Pls drop any ego, search yourself!

And as for your wife, I hope she realises that words are like eggs... Once said, you can't take then back, and there's obviously going to be a negative effect even after things calm down.. she should learn to control her tongue!

My dear, I feel you.... I've been thru a whole lot in my marriage both emotionally and spiritually. Mine didn't show traits before marriage. I won't say I'm separated as such but I found a reason to stay far far away from his own city. I hardly ever think about him. I can't talk much on my experience.. But, cos of what I've been thru, I understand the plight of women in situations as this. How I wish men would put in as much effort as women do into making marriages work, it would be a very lovely place to be!

Personally, I don't buy the idea of a second d marriage. The world is getting worse by the day! Before you do that, consider your kids o! Especially if you've got girls like I do. I won't ever trade their security for my selfish emotional reasons! Never!

I pray God WL be with you at this trying moment. Even if you made a mistake in the past, which we all do at one point or the other, God WL show you mercy and favour... I wish I could give you a hug now.... It is well dearie.

yoged: Hey peeps, pls if u are been posted to schools. How are u coping with those stubborn student. Started taking them yesterday, mennnnnn, really frustrating. Took jss3 B and D Basic tech yesterday. It was hell

Lol, I haven't taught yet, till next week monday. I'm to take only one arm of SS1, I'm told they r abt 60 or more. We had a meeting of teachers on tuesday and the teachers r complaining they can't handle them anymore. I'm just wondering what it'll be like

I did my clearance yesterday as well. But pls o, I seem to have a little problem somewhere, on my posting letter, the LG written is Egbeda, but all d corpers in my school are for Ibadan North East. I was registered @ Egbeda without complaint. I dnt know if I should call their attention to it just incase there might be any complications

Opiosko: Very true. Merry xmas to u, may d joy of the season never depart from u.

Amen Opiosko, n u too!

Happy new year to my fellow corpers! I'm glad I can see people r commenting now, let's keep it rolling!!! I haven't gotten any alert for my dec allowee, and pls for those who r @ their PPA, pls let's know how far abt d signing of PV o!!!


I need a pal from my LG, egbeda.... Pls holla

Human beings, always quick to judge! If she hadn't gotten married, na una go dey tag am, now she did, it didn't work out, wld u expect her to live in agony just to save face and please some faceless human beings For all d girls mocking her, u obviously aint married yet, get into it first and know wussup! Let's stop judging people! We don't even know their story, everyone is blaming only the woman SMH

Dannylux: Fat chicks aren't so lucky with marriage. learn to eat responsibly.

Which part of ur body do u reason from

Opiosko: Just got an unexpected credit alart this morning. Unexpected cos i'v not even given my acct no to my LGI, let alone doing December clearance. Resumption na till Jan 15 be that oh. #TeamOYOCopa#

Which bank is dat?

lewizylee: Peace untoo this house....

AMEN!!!!! Pastor!

Just got a Christmas SMS from ECOBANK *angry*

felifeli: Passed that place this afternoon and decided to investigate. I am afraid Bibire is a nasty smelly stuffy place, not conducive for eating by human beings. Will not go there again.

I agree with u absolutely!!! When I read BIBIRE, I was like 'Hian' Abeeeeeeegggggg!

Abeg, anyone using ecobank shld hint us wen allowee enters o!

Hello housemates, let's keep dis house as lively and as informative as possible. It'll help us a whole lot!...

Hello house, its been a whyl!!! Compliments of d season to everyone!

I sooo luv Martha's kitchen..... Along Jericho road

Opiosko: Dry house would be more apt. Btw, u guys fall person hand no be small, i guess we gat some urgly peeps here dt's y they dnt wanna show dia faces.

HahahahahahaaaaA!!! I hia u! Abeg people shld tell us their PPAs ooooooooooo

Hello house! Hope everyone is enjoying camp? Very soon we'll all get to know our PPAs..... Let's believe it 'werks' in our favour!

Imanuelle: the major fun on camp is hooking up


peeps in bayelsa camp seem not so interested in pairing up except maybe a few


a married lady was around the studio yesterday seeking for redeployment procedures.

I went to have dinner at night and what I saw her doing at the mami broke my heart.


if being promiscuous is it, then count me out.

at least, the studio is fun enough.

U sound like a good guy! I'm surprised!!! *eyesrolling*

I hope to arrive @ d camp on thursday morning! I hope dat won't be too late

MissIndependent: Finally through with registration. Parade things

Congrats Winnie! Were u able to calculate the number of photocopies n passport photographs u used?? What's d queue like?

Let info and pictures start rolling in oooo! Especially those in Oyo camp. Wld thursday morning be late to arrive @ d camp? Pls I need and urgent answer, cos behind d call-up letter, it says 2days, but peeps r saying registration is for 3days

MumChristbel,,,, I sight u oooo! Are u on bbm or whatsapp?

Gd morning fellow corpers! Pls wen is d last day of registration? Cos I'll want to enter camp on the last day biko

En route ogbomosho now!!! Journey mercies to me!

lauraaa: Brodad nd sisters I workd 2013296818 nd my no is 2013296819. I jux went 2 skol nd I found out d mixture. I got zamfara, d prsn got my abj. Wen I found out all I could do is brkdown nd cry. So sad nw

Wow!!! Dis culd be really painful ooooo!

Wow! Lovely!!! Nice to meet my fellow 'otondos'.... I'm also #team OYO...

mumChristbel: Osun all the way. You?

Oyo state

Okay..... Good morning house! Dnt let's get too carried away dat we forget to greet each other as usual!!! *winks**

Williamso: Pls what are my odds of redeploying to Lagos from Oyo state as I do not have any health papers? Mods (yokiti, ogbeche77 & crazyman) pls I need ur help here...

Guy! Don't tell me u culdnt sleep cos of this? Abeg no make I laff jor! Relax urself!

mumChristbel: Any nursing mother in the house?

Yep! MumChristabel..... Where were u posted to?

Williamso: U seem ecstatic that you're posted there. Never been there, pls how's the place?

Its simply okay! No stress! Less expensive n all.... Saw u tried to send a pm? R u on whatsapp or bbm?