sexybash:
Been a mistress is far more interesting than been a wife I tell ya
And when the wife dies you step into her shoes in a grand style that time baba no go get power for too much jigigigy again

Papa die you continue to enjoy ya life

Dey dia make 'paent' dey wear you

Sophyrocks:


Dnt worry. Your type is the kind men infect with HIV, chlamydia and other rotten stds. Continue petting him and if possible apologise for catching him in the act. Tell him you are sorry , you dnt mean to disturb his fun and that he should continue with his escapades. Inshort, go and make your matrimonial bed so that your hubby can bring all the wh0res home. Cook for his mistresses whenever they come around. Dnt ever disturb them while they are busy in the bedroom, If not, your husband will send you out and throw your things in the streets. Wwhen they are done in the bedroom, ask the mistresses if your hubby satisfied them well. ask them if they need money for brazilian hair and other needs. Fast and pray. Pray pray pray. SUFFER INIQUITIES so that Your husband will see you as a lovely wife material and before you know it like magic, BOOM, he will change. I know your type.

Hahahahahahahaha....my belle don almost burst oooo Hian!

Confronting the mistress is not the best option. Or if the relationship is really getting out of hand, you can decide to call or meet the mistress personally. In this case, you won't confront, abuse or rain insult on her. Just make sure you sit tete-a-tete about this is affecting your marriage and children.


Before meeting the mistress, try all your possible best to know what has gone wrong. Ask your husband what you are not doing right. Try and find out what he admire in the mistress that's not in you. Improve your dressing and package. Most importantly, work on yourself.

Don't nag. Call him, rain praises on him, pet him,make him fall in love with you all over again.

a man who would cheat would CHEAT! Even after doing all these, he probably would change, or be more discreet! Women should channel their energy into other more beneficial things than fighting around cos of men... It doesn't put food on the table! IMHO

prayers ke?
Ewwwww.My husband go dey fuuuuck and I deyyyyy prayyyyyyyy?prayyyyyKneel and prayyyy?Abeg I no be MUMU.Prayer won't be my only solution.The mistresss no dey pray after she fuccck my husband?She go still pray make the yeye man give her better money abi.I go enter bush hare.If I pray finish,I go still go consult elders.I no enter marriage to sit down pray.

ROTFL...... Cray cray

darisgod:
I remember one incident dat happened when I was in skool


Dir was did student who was dating a married man,didn't know how the man's wife got to know

So call her husby dat she hear n she already got d girl's address dat she's on her way to show her pepper

I think d man quickly call d girl to inform her n told her to just kip quiet n pretend as if she doesn't know wat she's talking about


D girl already told us in d house wat d man said cos we know d man very well (e dey drop for us well well especially weekend) the girl told us she already know wat to do (she b kolo girl o)

D woman got to our house around 7pm n started calling her to come outside since she doesn't know her main room just d compound

Our friend didn't come out o,I think she went to ask one alhaja dat sells tinz outside d compound

She came inside n went straight to her room as she just knock like diz vooooooooooooom na so my friend pour her urine ooo no b small some tin she just left no comment no story from d woman








Like 2 yrs ago I heard d man married d girl she don born self






Walahi God knws I can NEVER fight any girl cos my husby dey bleep am

Na me n him get case not me n d Oloriburuku girl o

Ur so-called friend is a greedy girl! If you still communicate, ask her, I'm sure she's getting a taste of her own soup by now. What goes around comes around.

Hi family.... Happy new month to you all. I pray this month bring good tidings to us in all ramifications...
Odunharry, all the best in your exams

hephzi1991:
Hello family, I missed you guys. So sorry I have been away, I should try to come online more often. I'm excited! I spoke with obinascopy n xcelsia today! thanks for the love! I love u guys right back.

Zikkie, Christine01, Osyxcel, Odunharry, Tolu hope you guys r doing great? I miSsed you all.

Was thinking of starting up a diary on nairaland, but 'm a lazy writer so am still thinking. Obinascopy I got you mail, and I'd reply once I get off nairaland. Ok lemme now go back and read the thread from where I stopped so I can get updated on what I have missed

Hephzi dear, its good to have you back. Pls don't be far away from us... We are here as a family to share our highs and lows! Hoping with faith that we wl testify at the end of the day. Luv u darling

Osyxcel:
Hi Fam

Candygosh, so glad you feeling strong and active... God is your strength. I'm also glad Hephzi1991 is doing good. Tell her we love her and we miss her.

Zikkie.... I'm also glad things are getting better over there, It'll always get better by God's Grace.

Christine, I wish you best of luck in all your academic endeavours. I pray God bestow upon you the power to succeed. It is well sis.

Tollu, You don't know how happy I am to see you on this thread again. Welcome back to the blessed e-family

Oga mi Odunharry, I wish you success in your final papers. May God anoint you with the spirit of excellence. You shall excel by God's Special Grace. Success is yours.

**clears throat**

Obinoscopy + Xcelsia (Obinosia) . You guys are wonderful $ you have been a strong pillar of support on this thread. May God showers his blessings upon you. May your wishes come true by God's grace...

To Every other contributors on this thread: It shall be well with us all.

May this week bring us unexpected blessings, favour, joy and happiness by God's Grace.


Be of good cheers Fam because it is well with our Soul.

Have a great week guys.

Osyxcel Baba!!! Owo meji loke o!!
Omo mehn! U merged those names wella... From now on, I guess rather than typing two names, OBINOSIA should do! Hehehehehee! Love wantintin

xcelsia:
Good morning my loves, my heart leaps a thousand times seeing everyone so happy and relating well, tollu our beloved welcome

Please let's keep our ladies in prayers, candy, hephzi and zikkie. The battle is not over, let our prayers be relentless as God perfects His work

Odunharry is about to write his final exams, let's pray for him as well, success is yours darling

Osyxcel love, victory and success is yours, you are dearly beloved

Christine01 my baby, success is yours as well, love you

These trying times may seem like many individual battles but let it be known far and wide that we are prepared for war, we will win!! Blessings everyone

Enyim, thanks sweerie, blessings to you too. #hugs

Obinoscopy:
Hello family ,

I'm so so happy right now. Spoke with Hephzi1991. She's such a lovely lady. She put smile on my face. Xcelsia and I were so happy with her.

Also spoke with Candy and Zikkie. I'm so happy that everyone is fine. My prayers are with with them.

Love you all dear family. You guys are the best.

Thanks Obinoscopy, u guys are doing a great job in here. Unu jisike o! Chukwu gozie unu n'aha Jisos!

Waliyllahi:

well done evryone...ds is inspirin...may we all live to narrate d best of stories...@ zikkie..i also stay in ibadan too here in uch...seen so many pple battling with ds scourge...it is well wt us all. well done for takin gud care of ur parents

Thanks o. U stay in uch?? We stayed in uch for some years too before we relocated to our place, the building before ABH. Amen to your prayers. I hope you'll keep in touch with the family?

tollu:
Oh, I am so ashamed of myself for keeping away for so so long. Got so many logs in the fire, I am so sorry guys. I really love y'all and Lord knows I remember us all in my prayers.
Zikkie, Candy and Hephzie, the Lord is oiur strength ooo

Now lemme go back and start reading from the last time I checked in. Muah muah muah

Runaway soldier don't be far from the family again o u hia? Amen.. The Lord is our strength dear

Christine01:
Hi Fam,

Pa Obinoscopy, Mum Xcelsia, Osyxcel, Odunharry, Candygosh, Hephzi1991, Zikkie...

How is everyone? I trust everybody is doing great.

Candy, keep on keeping on. The Lord is your strength.
Zikkie, how is Dad doing?
Hephzi, it is well with you dear.

Osy, I've been very busy. School work no let me see road.

Thanks Christine, we are all doing well.

HFOG:

Do you have more than one diary? Did you delete any?

Hahahahahahaa.... Do you know I also went to check! Maybe he deleted it....

Olufemiolaolu:
Naa u sabi, gown naa gown now. what matters most is love in their union.

Exactly!!!! Its buying the wedding day, its about the marriage itself!

Timothy3113:
. I am talking from experience mylady, it happen's here sometime's in ilorin and ogbomosho.

I experienced a robbery case in my hostel in ogbomosho, usually I sleep unclad but fortunately for me, a guy who had always been a pest insisted he wanted to pass the night since his friend whom he was squatting with was away.... As a result, I put on my jeans trousers and a top.... I keep thanking God for that day...I wonder what would have happened...huh??

Timothy3113:
Make i tell you, if robba's break into ur ous, u don becom dere meeat be dat.

Haa! The thought of this alone is so scary! God forbid

musicwriter:
This's why marriage remains a scary thing to me. What's the essence of marrying and getting divorced in few years?.

Marriage shouldn't scare you! If both parties put in their best to make it work and pray, it could be bliss!!!! Problem nowadays is that a lot of people want to eat their cake and have it! It doesn't work that way....

Meanwhile, if INI is happy, so be it! Its her life...we all have our issues we could get busy with!

GoodFaith:

You look horrible

Oh no! She doesn't!!!! Be truthful enough

Daresh:
Please keep quiet woman. Who made you judge of Israel?

You are calling her a bad woman because he has told you his version of the story.

Let her come and tell her own side, you will see cheating is even small sef.

If he is right why is he still in the marriage?

It's wives like you that make men feel all women are fools and they can cheat and be forgiven. You see now he will NEVER cheat on her again. Because he has seen how it hurts.

What's up with all the grammatical errors? Spell check is your friend o!

ROTFL..... She deserves this jare! Madam virtuous ishhhhhh

Great write-up op! I couldn't agree less!!! But most marriages are hard for the first five years! It is well..

Odunharry:

thank God 4 ur mum o....
That gal self no wan admit fault...

Hope evryone at home is good?

Yes ooo... We are fine. How are you doing as well? TGIF sheh ?

candygosh:

wow...we thank God. I have never had reactions to blood. I knew i was given an injection before d transfusion intravenous. It was fusimed and i quickly asked my mom wht it does since shes medical too and she explained tht its antidiuretic. It helps free my heart. And 30 mins after setting blood i didnt get rxn. She started explaining rxns she had seen while at work :pple saying rubbish and cursing, high temp, convulsion, vomitting etc.
Im glad ur dad was saved. Some pple could just be careless. My mom is with me at al times if anytn gets administered she questns and those nurses begin to wonder. No time i hv been on admissn the nurses r often api to hv my mom around cos their work reduces.

All the same its thanksgivn day and we r greatful for this family and everyone of us. We are thankful for life

Yes ooo! We are grateful... Some doctors sef! This girl was trying to use 'ogboju' for mumsie instead of admitting her fault.... Not until the senior doctors called her aside to let her know who Mumsie was... This happened in UCH o!

It is well jare. God would not allow us to see shame

Osyxcel:


Jeez! Thank God. May He continually keep him and may His presence continue to abide with Him.

Thanks ore....Amen to your prayers.

xcelsia:
He shall live long to enjoy the fruits of his labor, God can't ignore our prayers. Please hang in there for your parents, we called to wish you a happy thanksgiving day. Love you lots

Amen... Thanks dearie. Luv u too #hugs

Good day family... Sure we are all doing well. Xcelsia, I just got your text. My phone was switched off. obinoscopy, I saw your mail, wl reply soonest.
Candygosh, Im glad you are stronger this time. The Lord wl continue to strengthen you.
Thank God for my dad, I had to leave him at the hospital yesterday evening to take care of other things at home. Mun just told me he almost passed on. He started reacting to the blood and the house officer on duty gave him 50mg of phenegan instead of 25mg. Thank God mum is also a retired medical personnel, she noticed daddy was just talking rubbish and his speech was slurred! Immediately she checked what was on the ample and called the attention of the girl, they had to use lasix and Infusion. He slept for a long time and woke up not knowing what happened! I'm grateful to God and the family here for your prayers.
It is well with us.

Congrats to him... But I was hoping to read HOW he got cured of the cancer, where he was treated and types of treatment he underwent....

So what is the minimum PCV one should have before undergoing a chemo or radio session? Did you go through radiotherapy at any point? @Candygosh?

candygosh:


Wow my doctor says three but I'm getting two pints. One is still in progress.

He should undergo one of them or even both to eliminate traces of the cancer. Maybe they r not talking bout it cos he isn't stable yet. Chemo might obviously kill him with pcv of 19.
You better ask why they r not talking bout it and ask them ur questions. Seek 2nd opinion too, it doesn't kill. Let another oncologist in another place see him.

Hmmmm.... O ga!

candygosh:



Sorry about ur dad I couldn't get chemo today cos pcv was low 20. So I'm getting blood transfusion instead, first pint in progress.

Thanks babez. How many pints are you to get? Dad's consultant says three! His PCV is 19.... Hmmm....God help us.

There's something I'm a bit disturbed about. Since dad had that surgery, nobody has talked of a radiotherapy or chemotherapy. I cant understand why... I hope and really hope they are doing the right thing o! Cos I honestly wouldn't tolerate silly stories later on.

2sexi, pls do you have any details of your friend's treatment and what it entailed? I'm curious!

Hello family..... Just popping in briefly to say hello. Hope we are all great? Candygosh, how are you doing? Gotten the second chemo already? The Lord us your strength. Hephzi, hope u are good too?

Dad might still have the transfusion in a private clinic. He is fine but weak....

In all, we still bless God!

@OP, are you a learner [b][/b]