Reno is a fool..... He should be praising Enugu state government for trusting sujimotor.... A man from a region that wears ethnic sentiment like gown, with such heavy contracts...... Still, he proves he is from land of dusty and rusty zinc.... shame.....shame shame....
ACTUALLY NO, YOUR CRIMINAL RAPIST AND PEDOPHILE CONVICT PRESIDENT TRUMP, CANNOT REMOVE TINUBU FROM OFFICE WITHOUT LOSING THOUSANDS OF AMERICAN SOLDIERS IN WAR ON NIGERIAN SOIL.
IN VENEZUELA, THE ARMY SOLD OUT MADURO WITHOUT RESISTANCE.
breadtoaster: Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?
I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.
My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.
So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.
Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.
Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics? How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?
Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.
For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.
We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.
He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.
At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.
After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.
I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.
It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.
He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.
I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.
I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.
I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.
Did I hear you say grateful,....? Didn't you hear Thier pm resigned.....or didn't you also hear they dragged their finance minister on the bare floor...... You should tell Tinubu to have a rethink before it will be too late him and this greedy demonic government...
CoronaVirusPro: Nigerians still won’t be grateful to the administration of His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR).
Look at what politicians are doing to citizens of Nepal causing a revolt.
Here, we have a steadfast and dedicated leader putting things together bit by bit and still won’t demand applauses from us.
Nigerians need to rethink and know that all His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) is demanding from us is our support and patriotism.
God bless His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR)
Well, to the best of my knowledge, Uche Jumbo is still the honourable speaker house of assembly rivers state...... And remember, the case of the 26 defected members is still here in rivers state high court not supreme whatever.
TimeManager: Shakara don end.. I only pity the ignorant ones dancing behind him. He says he's still awaiting the CTC of judgement of SC yet he hurriedly ordered the LG Chairmen to hand over but foot dragging on presenting the budget to Amaewhule. Do you think you're smart?
And if I may ask, is Jumbo not also right honourable speaker house of assembly....He re refer the letter to honourable speaker not amaehule or whatever you people call it....[quote author=TimeManager post=134405592][/quote]
And the winners will definitely emerge..... whether election or no election..... protest all you want app candidates I all the 23 LGA.... Will collect their cert of return......cry me a river you little foolish coward.
Confirmedzombie: Wike has said No election, his decision is final.
If them born ipob and obedients well, come out on Saturday.
Wotowoto all rounds dey ground. Fubara will learn by fire by force.
As stupid as you are......you mean, no more right to speak when being maltreated.....or violate some sections in the constitution...... So, his new crime is speaking about the injustice and illegalities in Nigeria court of law.....
noleflendum: he will forever regret his outburst against Justice Binta Nyako
You know one thing about stupidity..... The stupid and senseless ones barely know or recognize that they are a disgrace to their generation...... someone is here speaking for you...All that come to your evil mind na this silly comments..... Devil equal indeed.......you will suffer finally....that ugly state of road will be your portion and probably the accident as well.....idiot.
Who is playing that theme song for her......some people dey mad for this country....... imagine playing championship song for mamiwater wey dey receive deliverance.
People like you are not meant to be in same category with humans...are you stupid,?...like you drive joy seeing others in pain and misery.... Silly thing.
DeLaRue: What is the point of Mr Obi issuing irrelevant and meaningless statements.
As you choose not to have voice of your own....everyman must be coward as you.... Your kind is one the reason this country government is messing around without iota of accountability ....silly.
FreeStuffsNG: Jolted by the judge’s pronouncement, Kanu began to shout from the dock and protested that he would not stand trial before any court in Nigeria.
You have nothing on him and the entire igbos.......begger, you will always remain....he, alone is bigger than your entire tribes men; coward.
UncleAyo: This guy doesn't value his freedom when he was a free man and now he has no one to help him.
Just like Simon Ekpa and Ojukwu, his actions has resulted into murder of many of his tribesmen and security officers with a lot of properties destroyed. He commanded this murders and property destruction. And the funny thing is that few gullible people from the SE still see these three men as their heroes.
He is a chest beater and delusional with some touches of schizophrenia.
If he is a leader as some people refer to him (out of their ignorance), then they should tell us one positive thing he has contributed to the people of SE rather than hatred, death and destruction of properties.
The leaders that we know create free education for all (just like Awolowo), they create viable business environments for the prosperity of their people, they seek for protection of life and properties of their people. They believe in sanctity of life and just like the good shepherd, they will keep the other 99 sheep in safe hands, and go hundred miles to ensure the safety of any one missing sheep. They have large heart and think prosperity and peace always.
Good leaders don't try to dominate their people through terror and fear, destruction of businesses and properties, they don't arm gullible youths and send them to their early graves, they don't incite violence and hatred against their own people.
.... Well, even if cup of garri is sold for #5000.... I will afford it ..... It applies to every Igbo sons and daughters....... No Igbo man will ever beg food from either Yorubas or Hausa no matter the condition.... The cry and protest has started from the north down to west...... Just wait.... Or have you seen any body protests in any of the eastern region because of hunger?..... Ekiti, Niger, Ogun etc are crying already.
They don't think like you, that's the reason why they are recognized as number one country in the world...... They study everything thing and figure out answers from them, which in return remedy your endless problems here in Africa.so, concentrate in collecting imaginary palliative from your corrupt leaders...... since to study nature don turn rubbish for your eye.
smudge2079: This na rubbish abeg. As dem dey talk to demselves now, weytin we wan use am do? these people have a way of wasting funds.
Politics › Re: Amaechi Joins Protesters At National Assembly Over Electoral Act (Video) by Zivaharry(m): 1:04pm On Feb 10
