Ebukawaylaid:


Dear Poco,
I have been following your thread, and I must commend you for your good cooking knowledge. I have learnt a lot from you, and I try to practice once in a while following your methods step by step. Thank you a lot.

However, I find your submission about Anambra men very disturbing, infact I got irritated at some point, and wondered what Anambra men must have done to you....I know you are very intelligent and understand the danger of reckless generalisation. How can you even say majority of Anambra men are supremacist? I'm from Anambra and I'm not! I have relatives and they are not!
Again, I think you have problem with Igbo Men in general....not just Anambra men..

Poco, I'm sorry to say this, you hate Igbo men!!!
Just see the way you described Abiribia and Ngwa men...

Nne, I still love your threads a lot. But, then I will advice you stop making derogatory comments about Anambra men and other Igbo men... It is disgusting.... Ebonyi people are also talking thrash about Anambra men.... I schooled in Ebonyi State University Abakaliki.... The discrimination I experienced there was way too much, so it's just everywhere.

She doesn't only hate Igbo men. She's a vile woman, so she naturally hates anything that is not under her control.

Theconglomerate:
Na you want tell me wetin I don big pass or not?
Shey you know say before you go dey for this circle,you suppose belong to that circle.
Abi na with your bank work you want take catch all those things you wrote?
Na wetin you talk since 2 years ago yet you still dey for your papa one room weh e give you for his house dey drag kitchen with your mama.
Someone that has class but spends all her useful/productive time dragging with riff-raffs online and has suddenly turned to a cook that keep lobbying mods to push whatever she puts up on fp just for a man to see.
Elizabeth Elohor,Idia Aisien and co....no be so them do am oo.
They built their careers and class came along,no be self acclaimed class.
Delusions delusions..
Cc before them lobby mods to delete this,better see this piece.

Don't mind Poco. She can only deceive people who don't know her and her abracadabra. For a record, she has never worked in a bank before, that was part of her usual lies.

DeckXavier:
no wonder she's ignoring you, you're just being irrational.
Just kindly note that anambra state isn't in your league.

Nonsense. I am an Anambarian myself. Keep off, thug.

DeckXavier:
in as much as there's no correlation between bravery and thuggishness, I expect you to own up to your assertion because they are your conclusions and hers.

Shut up if you can't read and understand. You are obviously one of the thugs.

DeckXavier:
for a second I thought I had quoted a sensible person earlier. Smh

The statement was from the person I quoted, or didn't you see where I said "according to her."

kalufelix:
How much are we talking about here.... Pay excess money enter my account and be waiting for integrity...integrity bawo... Because she is a woman... She even used the mofo as her next of kin... I need to marry that babe. Hypocrites everywhere!

Stop supporting nonsense. Anyway, she must be your type because bird of a feather folks together.

Drfernandez:
It is very bad that most Igbo women are not only aggressive online, like a forum like this, but also offline.

Check all the vile and aggressive female monikers on this forum, 7 out of 10 are Igbo women.

Just say pocohan tas and her gang.

Drfernandez:


Imp. I don't expect harlots to understand me.

You are funny. You indirectly called Rozz and Hathor5 harlots.

Most men are like you, unfortunately your kind of sickness does not have a cure.

ghettokid1:
Mind your biz

It is unfortunate that people like you do not seem to understand how f00lish you sound whenever you make a statement like this in this kind of matter.

@OP

Advise your sister properly.

A public display like this is reason enough to know that she is disturbed.

Nagging has no gender.

Klass99:


I saw that thread and how it deteriorated into another "let us destroy Coco & Poco fiasco" it's funny how you didn't say anything at all about the bullies who started the smear campaign against both ladies and who delight in insulting/humiliating them without provocation, from thread to thread.

If someone or a group of people constantly insult you, what would you do? Any sane/normal human being will retaliate sooner or later, which is what these women do. Don't make it sound like they always throw the first punch and insult men unprovoked.

I have been on NL long enough to see how both women are attacked without justification. All it takes is a post/comment from them and the haters appear as if a battle cry was sounded.

Don't be unfairly biased in your assessment of these monikers. Judging by their posts, both past & present on different threads, I see very sensible & decent human beings behind those monikers. I am not shocked that one is hitched and the other is about to get hitched too. Decent/sensible men will see what I do too.

By their posts/comments you can reasonably tell apart, good personas from bad ones, shitty people from decent ones. It's really not that hard.

Stop supporting evil or what you do not know.

yanabasee1:



And you think you've never acted nice to some people and otherwise to other people??


My online, (especially nairaland) life is far from the life I live out here....


And I am worth it....

The way I act towards anyone in this forum is the same way I will act towards them offilne.

MummyIMadeIt:
Dear Op,

Have you ever considered why this is called an online forum?

Do you know 90% of the character displayed online isn't real, let's put as an alternate lifestyle is what most persons display here.

So those monickers mentioned might and can be so different in the real life out there, and Prolly using the cyberspace as a means to vent out their underlying voices.

As per the topic of discussion, good character comes first in both parties.

Anyone whose online character is different from their offline character isn't a sincere person. Over here, I have seen the unimaginable havoc a woman with poor character can cause a man.

Ariza:
Madam calm down! I get your drift .

But here's the deal, it's not everyone you will "say your mind to" if we are to say "our minds" all the time , believe me a lot will go wrong. Sometimes it's better to act! . Just act, that way any sensible being will get the gist and move on. You see sometimes"words" do more damage than we intend . Some people twist, misunderstand, misquote words,they spread around and before you know it,it becomes something else.
Look at this:

If op says his "mind" or "act" like I suggested which will be easier to quote or reframed? Which is easier to spread? Which is easier to report? Dealing with people like Op's friend is very tacky and sometimes it's best not to say a word them. If he ends up being a vengeful type, people will justify op and his job will be safe.

As for smiling, Jeeeeezzzz that's after settling the whole issues with everyone coming out fine. Please learn to read with open mind.

Poor damage control. Pretension is not wisdom as Heiterkeit said. You in particular, stop being a pretender.

I hope Arthur Eze will rise and defend his people, this should be the right avenue to flex his muscles.