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Business / Re: CBN Withdraws Skye Bank’s License To Operate by zubinike(m): 9:35pm On Sep 21, 2018
ElNero:
What is gonna happen to those that bank with them? :'

Polaris Bank has been established to assume ownership of the assets and liabilities of Skye Bank.
haha their cash has been adopted by a new owner, their cash are save. The cash didn't liquidate so no cause for alarm

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Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 7:56pm On Sep 19, 2018
gloria34:
my father is very responsible and cannot do such, those who have crazy parents should visit d proper channels

you are probably not married, i can bet on that. God help you when you get to that stage. Learn lessons to make you grow my dear
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 10:27am On Sep 19, 2018
Adadioranma79:
Can't happen. I am well brought up, I know wen and how to let people punish themselves, mother in law inclusive.


you seem to understand the phrase way better.
"what will you do, if you got slapped by your husbands mother" a straight forward answer is required to this if it occurs. We know it may not occur at all because u were well brought up dadadada....or you and the mother in law may be too good dadadada....it happened. She slapped you, what will be your reaction ?

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Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 10:12am On Sep 19, 2018
Born2Breed:



What sensible mother inlaw would slap her daughter inlaw.

I wouldn't dare slap my daughter in-law.


it has happened it has happened. You as the wife, what will you do shikena...why all this in-surbordinate replies. Take it that it happened, what will you do?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:59am On Sep 19, 2018
Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house


you deserve a dinner someday...if single anyway

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Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:56am On Sep 19, 2018
[quote author=gloria34 post=71325398]u deserve a permanent space in heaven[/quote

Gloria if i beat up your father for slapping me
i hope you, your brothers and even your villagers will buy me a space in heaven for treating the matter politely.
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:52am On Sep 19, 2018
freeze001:
The point is getting physical. At some point there may be some friction and misunderstanding. The question is, why would ur calm n soft mother attempt slapping another human being? How about reining herself in and resolving the issues with maturity? Same applies to the wife, no adult should slap or hit another adult in the name of anger because it is absolutely wrong!


We all know it is wrong for the mum hitting his daughter inlaw, the facts remains. If it occurs, what will you do?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:49am On Sep 19, 2018
Adadioranma79:
If your mum is truly all that you just described her to be, then I don't think she ll raise her hand to slap your wife its simple. Slapping your wife no matter how vexed she felt is same as slapping you, not minding your age and status as a married man. She is expected to leave the punishment to you to dish out. Shikena



do people realise the IF" to the cause. Ada in honesty, what will you do if the said subject occurs. ?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:43am On Sep 19, 2018
Greyworld:

God bless you. I hope they receive it in good fate and say "Thank you sir"

are u expecting to fight back? Greyworld...!!!
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:41am On Sep 19, 2018
Themandator:




I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever.





As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen.

My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone

oga!!! Why nah...its an imaginary question. With the word "If". All this long comprehension no matter. If it happens what will you do? Simple answer shows who u are and not all this lectures that one wont learn anything from
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:40am On Sep 19, 2018
Themandator:




I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever.


oga!!! Why nah...its an imaginary question. With the word "If". All this long comprehension no matter. If it happens what will you do? Simple answer shows who u are and not all this lectures that one wont learn anything from


As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen.

My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:28am On Sep 19, 2018
ola12:
Depends on a 1st strike or subsequent strike basis.
1st strike, my mom slaps my wife for the first time-Instant family meeting between 3 of us when I come back, words would fly and a consensus would be made. The person at fault would be cautioned and apology tendered to the other person. Shikena

Subsequent strike - Haba, doesnt matter if my wife was at fault or not, my mum cant just go slapping my wife like that (ps. I love my mom more than most things, but still). If she is living in my house with us, new apartment straight, cant tolerate anybody who would give me issues with my wife (this is a woman I would spend possibly next 50yrs with).
Too many people on this thread getting emotional for no reason, besides its just a hypothetical question.


Now if my wife slap my mum back, that wan go hard, cos I go definitely get issues with my wife for not handling it the right way. The right way is to backoff right there and then report to me, and she should definitely trust me to handle the situation properly


if you reside around festac, i owe u a bottle of wine or bottles of beer. You spoke well
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 9:13am On Sep 19, 2018
missjane:
Hmm..lol..well as long as it's not a habit..if not I can get my dad to return the slap to my husband..till we both start wearing helmet around our in-laws


lol, wear helmets like okada riders.

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Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:59am On Sep 19, 2018
Vickygarl:
Why on earth would the woman slap her daughter-in-law? If such was done to her own daughter, would it sit well with her?? It is called physical abuse and it is wrong. She deserves whatever she gets afterwards cos they didn't send the wife to their house to be beaten.
For those men that would allow that to be done to their wives, it's better u don't marry at all and stay tied to ur mama's clothe. That kind of behaviour is unjustifiable.


Vicky no hard feelings, the question remained un-answered. What will you do if your husband mum slapped u?

i got married to you, i had a rift with your father and he slapped me. Are u expecting me to beat him up?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:53am On Sep 19, 2018
LordBabs:
Emotions aside, we all have the equal right to keep our hands to ourselves (except in act of self-defence). If your mom slaps first, she already passes her boundary and should be dealt with accordingly.


lordbabs..so what will you do"? Let me learn from you. The word Dealt with....am waiting to hear the punishment
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:46am On Sep 19, 2018
HazzanTazzan:


The question didn't say "if she crossed her boudaries"...
Crossing her boundaries that was said by airforce1 means that the mother wouldn't do something to warrant a disrespect from the wife which will lead to the slap...

Now listen... Whether my mum is gentle or not, my wife must have disrespected her to deserve a slap and a man isn't supposed to question his mum for that action...

I'd simply apologize to my mum without asking any questions and when I'm alone with my wife, I will ask her what happened, talk to her, correct her, calm her and make her apologize to my mum even if she doesn't feel she has done a thing to deserve the slap...

wagbayi brother, may u live to see your children children's. May your days not be cut short. Haha, mama nah mama oh. No matter the wrongs, no matter the slaps. If your father inlaw slaps you and you beat him up, are you expecting her to throw u a party for standing up to the Man? Oga she go simply poison you self. Let self respect come to play. You be man, may u live to enjoy your wife once again and if u ain't married oga may u be blessed with a better woman jare.
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:40am On Sep 19, 2018
anitank:


You sound so dumb and stupid.

Did you even read the question or do you lack comprehension skills?


lol.....anitank, please how will you react to this if it occurs?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:38am On Sep 19, 2018
1Sharon:


Why don't you marry and fvck her too?

that's harsh sweedie. Sharon you killed the beat.this shit happens. Just imagine your mum got beating by your brothers wife all because mum slapped her? Will u fold hands and let it slide.
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:28am On Sep 19, 2018
xendra:
chai, see you here again. I talk am say this boy no go get sense, the question is not if you have a simple mother that doesn't cross boundary, the question is if she already crossed boundary and slaps your wife.

If your own no dey cross boundary then the post is not for you.


xendra..boundaries no boundaries. What will you do ? Possibly poison everybody in the house for slapping you. Hmmm. I wonder if your mum got beating by your brothers wife because your mum slapped her. How u will handle this issue? Maybe possibly thank your brothers wife because your mum crossed her boundary
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:20am On Sep 19, 2018
[quote author=chiommy123 post=71295728]No need slapping anybody the same way you want her to wait till her husband comes back to complain or report whatever was done to her why not do same.[/quote

hmmm chiom. Ahnhan, haba.. Will u beat up your mum because she slapped u?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:15am On Sep 19, 2018
Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house


you go make better wife oh, are you married ?
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:14am On Sep 19, 2018
Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house


talk more sense to them. First reasonable quote am seeing. How many of those dude beatup their mum because she did wrong? None. So the wife has no right in retaliating. All they should do is report the woman to their husband, fold hands and allow the man take a decision on who should remain in the house.
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:11am On Sep 19, 2018
ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??


Did u at any stage, lift up your hands against your mum because she did wrong? Where is the wife coming from....or who is she to stand the woman who gave birth to the hubby she cherish. If she respects u, she waits for me to return to report my mum. And see what i will do. Not engage my mum in some physical combat
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:06am On Sep 19, 2018
ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

u simply walk away. If you think otherwise negatively, remember u will someday become a father
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:03am On Sep 19, 2018
ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??


man, if u get dished by your wife's father? You definitely know the best for u is to walk away. So what's all this rant around they are talking about.
Romance / Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 7:58am On Sep 19, 2018
folake4u:
Nigerian men love imagining the impossible too much.

what's your view to life? How can the subject matter be an impossible mission. Common shit happens.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Linkedin For Real? by zubinike(m): 11:32pm On Sep 18, 2018
Sylver247:
People do not know the purpose of LinkedIn. LinkedIn is not a job platform, it is a platform where professionals connect and share ideas, discuss career and business issues and generally learn from each other.

If your goal is to secure a job via LinkedIn, then you must have your own strategy for achieving that goal. You don't just fold your hands and wait for recruiters to come offer you a job. You have to deliberately let them know that you are there.

And that is by sharing content REGULARLY. If you don't post on LinkedIn, then you're not on LinkedIn.

a counter trend, don't mislead. One can actually get a job via Linkedin. Am a testimony to it. Most companies publicise their vacancies there too, other HR's and like mind professionals do throw adverts of job vacancies on its platform...Although not many Nigerians subscribe to its premium program so their chances are limited
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Career Assistance by zubinike(m): 11:27pm On Sep 18, 2018
Do they run a direct entry program? If they do, then yes ur degree will be valid Or better still go to the school of your choice to ask for their requirement
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Driver Urgently Needed by zubinike(m): 11:19pm On Sep 18, 2018
Am interested in this role. Cv sent to your email.
Crime / Re: 'Mad Man' Caught With 2 Iphone 8 And Lots Of Cash In Lekki, Lagos (Photos) by zubinike(m): 11:03pm On Sep 17, 2018
elpj:
Na SSS


the police will never leave him out on the street if truly he is an SSS..there is more to it
Travel / Re: 2 Jets Stolen At Lagos Airport: Nigerians React by zubinike(m): 10:57pm On Sep 17, 2018
foyeks2001:
Give way and let me faint for here

anti mi no faint oh, you may end waking up in sambisa close to shekau oh and Osama bin la din in a close door neeting. In Nigeria all things are possible ministry, 9ja i hail thee.
Travel / Re: Man Rides Bicycle From Morocco To Nigeria, Set To Visit Abuja. Photos by zubinike(m): 10:45pm On Sep 17, 2018
PrettyCrystal:
A man is reportedly riding a bicycle to Abuja after arriving the country from Morroco. According to an eyewitness who met and spoke with him, the man who revealed he's a Muslim - says he wants to tour Nigeria and take pictures after hearing so much about the country. 

The eyewitness identified as Sani Musa Saminaka disclosed that he saw the Moroccan man today at Shanga local government area
in Kebbi State as the man took pictures with the excited villagers who supported him for his journey. 

Earlier this year (in February), a Chinese female cyclist, Huang Shuang, rode from Morocco to Lagos, Nigeria, within five months. Huang, also known as CICI, said that she was inspired to embark on “cycling around the world’’ after riding around her country.

The cyclist said that her experience in China motivated her to begin global cycling in America where she covered about 5,500 km in two months.

“I am glad that I have also been able to ride from Morocco to Lagos, Nigeria. This is an indication that irrespective of our sex, we can achieve anything we set out to do. “The whole idea about my cycling started when, one day, I decided to embark on a cycling trip around my country, China.

“After the trip around China, I was motivated to take my first cycling around the world to America, where I covered about 5,500km in two months.

“Now, I am in Lagos from Morocco, after I flew from America to France, where I cycled around Europe for four months, before taking a ferry from Spain to Morocco,’’ she said.

The cyclist, who left Morocco for Lagos on September 6, 2017, said her trip was fascinating though she experienced tiredness, robbery, accidents and had had to sleep under bridges and in gas stations. She said that she always travels with money, noodles, tent, sleeping bag, clothes and bicycle repair accessories.

See more ; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/09/man-rides-bicycle-from-morocco-to-nigeria-set-to-visit-abuja.html


i hope when i drive my own bicycle past your hoary borders through rabat, taking pictures etc. I will receive warm welcome like u are getting right now in my country. Silly people, i hope u get valid papers coming here.

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