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HazzanTazzan:
Kikikiki...

You slap your mother Inlaw cos she slapped you... Where are you from abeg ? jupiter ?

Bimzybae:
Good evening here and happy Friday.

I am student of one of the University here at ilorin and i am into fabric business to help myself

Yesterday, as i was coming back from school; a customer ordered for a fabric and i went to delivered it to her so on my way back home, it's already like 6pm.



in all fairness, all advice i have read seems the best.
-return the cash
-go to the station with it
- give the needy
-add to your biz etc....omoge. The truth is
before this cash, u were u. And after the cash u remain you for now.....
u return it, may be foolish. You spend it, you still don't get richer than u were. U give to the needy or the church may be proper or improper. Your state of mind is all that matters. Just do one thing for me. " do what makes you happy and comfortable" with peace of mind.

if returning it to the police, to the spot u took it from or anywhere will make u happy.please do so, without regret. Otherwise spend the money with same peace of mind and be happy. Its a privilege. Don't forget that

Flexherbal:
Ideas bring wealth !

ElNero:
What is gonna happen to those that bank with them? :'

gloria34:
my father is very responsible and cannot do such, those who have crazy parents should visit d proper channels

Adadioranma79:
Can't happen. I am well brought up, I know wen and how to let people punish themselves, mother in law inclusive.

Born2Breed:
What sensible mother inlaw would slap her daughter inlaw.

I wouldn't dare slap my daughter in-law.

Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

freeze001:
The point is getting physical. At some point there may be some friction and misunderstanding. The question is, why would ur calm n soft mother attempt slapping another human being? How about reining herself in and resolving the issues with maturity? Same applies to the wife, no adult should slap or hit another adult in the name of anger because it is absolutely wrong!

Adadioranma79:
If your mum is truly all that you just described her to be, then I don't think she ll raise her hand to slap your wife its simple. Slapping your wife no matter how vexed she felt is same as slapping you, not minding your age and status as a married man. She is expected to leave the punishment to you to dish out. Shikena

Greyworld:
God bless you. I hope they receive it in good fate and say "Thank you sir"

Themandator:
I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever.





As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen.

My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone

Themandator:
I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever.


oga!!! Why nah...its an imaginary question. With the word "If". All this long comprehension no matter. If it happens what will you do? Simple answer shows who u are and not all this lectures that one wont learn anything from


As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen.

My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone

ola12:
Depends on a 1st strike or subsequent strike basis.
1st strike, my mom slaps my wife for the first time-Instant family meeting between 3 of us when I come back, words would fly and a consensus would be made. The person at fault would be cautioned and apology tendered to the other person. Shikena

Subsequent strike - Haba, doesnt matter if my wife was at fault or not, my mum cant just go slapping my wife like that (ps. I love my mom more than most things, but still). If she is living in my house with us, new apartment straight, cant tolerate anybody who would give me issues with my wife (this is a woman I would spend possibly next 50yrs with).
Too many people on this thread getting emotional for no reason, besides its just a hypothetical question.


Now if my wife slap my mum back, that wan go hard, cos I go definitely get issues with my wife for not handling it the right way. The right way is to backoff right there and then report to me, and she should definitely trust me to handle the situation properly

missjane:
Hmm..lol..well as long as it's not a habit..if not I can get my dad to return the slap to my husband..till we both start wearing helmet around our in-laws

Vickygarl:
Why on earth would the woman slap her daughter-in-law? If such was done to her own daughter, would it sit well with her?? It is called physical abuse and it is wrong. She deserves whatever she gets afterwards cos they didn't send the wife to their house to be beaten.
For those men that would allow that to be done to their wives, it's better u don't marry at all and stay tied to ur mama's clothe. That kind of behaviour is unjustifiable.

LordBabs:
Emotions aside, we all have the equal right to keep our hands to ourselves (except in act of self-defence). If your mom slaps first, she already passes her boundary and should be dealt with accordingly.

HazzanTazzan:
The question didn't say "if she crossed her boudaries"...
Crossing her boundaries that was said by airforce1 means that the mother wouldn't do something to warrant a disrespect from the wife which will lead to the slap...

Now listen... Whether my mum is gentle or not, my wife must have disrespected her to deserve a slap and a man isn't supposed to question his mum for that action...

I'd simply apologize to my mum without asking any questions and when I'm alone with my wife, I will ask her what happened, talk to her, correct her, calm her and make her apologize to my mum even if she doesn't feel she has done a thing to deserve the slap...

anitank:
You sound so dumb and stupid.

Did you even read the question or do you lack comprehension skills?

1Sharon:
Why don't you marry and fvck her too?

xendra:
chai, see you here again. I talk am say this boy no go get sense, the question is not if you have a simple mother that doesn't cross boundary, the question is if she already crossed boundary and slaps your wife.

If your own no dey cross boundary then the post is not for you.

Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

folake4u:
Nigerian men love imagining the impossible too much.

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