 Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Frank Uduak-Akpan Wore 'The Mudder Squad' T-Shirt While Being Paraded By Police by zubinike(m): 11:28am On May 15, 2021 |
Omihanifa:
His T-shirt says it all 
He belongs to a killer squad and the choice of cloth is deliberate. His gang members (politicians and elites ) he's working for will get the message and the case won't see the light of day
To even show you that he's already enjoying preferential treatment, look at how neat, fresh and calm he looks. (after spending 2weeks in police custody o)
Am sure orders don come from above telling the police to be easy on him. To know that this idiot lied he had protected sex with the deceased consent made me loose hope in the case, he said she used a stablizer on him when he removed his condom and blood was gushing out of his head. My people this bastard is still fresh, no manhandling of any kind. Abeg who change police system of judgement or are the NPF now excorts ? |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Six Things You Need To Present For Your NPOWER Physical Screening. by zubinike(m): 10:31am On May 15, 2021 |
Alexgman1:
Once you have been shortlisted as an NPOWER beneficiary, that is an email has been sent to you as one of those successful in the NPOWER test who passed the cut off-mark (60% maybe).
The following are what you need to present for physical verification:
1) Original & photocopies of your SSCE or BSC certificate & NYSC dispatch letter
2) Valid National I.D card
3) BVN print out.
4) Recent passport photographs
5) Local government identification.
6) Age declaration.
I wish everyone success & best of luck! He clear say this guy nah working class. |
| Education / Re: Teacher Injures Student For Failing To Submit Assignment In Rivers (Graphic Pics by zubinike(m): 3:26pm On Feb 17, 2021 |
illicit:
As a teacher I don't support corporal punishment but sometimes it is handy as we are Nigerians and we know who we are....
I resort to cane as the very last option but I still wont flog bare skin....
You have to be diplomatic when it comes to girls especially the ones in senior classes.
They can knowingly infuriate u.
The boys are mostly predictable.
I don't support child labour as well, making students to cut the grass and sweep floors.... But it's the norm here
If I told my proprietor, I will probably get sacked As a teacher, concur with me that modern day student lack morals than your days in school. I don't support you canning a student to this manner, some parents would come to school to congratulate you it got this bad, why other parents brings their child to you to discipline them but not to kill them. IMO, the teacher was angry that the learning zeal in students drastically has gone down the drain. Teachers needs to be extremely patient. |
| Romance / Re: Man Gifts Lover N30 Million Tesla Car For Valentine's Day Celebration (Photos) by zubinike(m): 10:43am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Bola146:
God please bless my future husband financially and abundantly  its one thing for him to have the money, its another thing for him to spend the money. don't just pray for wealth only. |
| Sports / Re: Fincen Files: Roman Abramovich Had Secret Stakes In Rival Players by zubinike(m): 2:05pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
ogbiwa:
Chelsea owner Roman Abramovich held secret investments in footballers not owned by his club, an investigation has discovered.
The players included the Peruvian winger Andre Carrillo, who turned out against Chelsea in Champions League matches in 2014.
He held rights in the players through a company based in the British Virgin Islands.
Mr Abramovich's spokeswoman stressed no rules or regulations were broken.
But former Football Association chairman Lord Triesman has questioned whether it was "proper" for the owner of a football club to have an interest in players in other teams.
Twelve players on the pitch
A leak of documents - banks' "suspicious activity reports" - that have been called the FinCEN Files and seen by BBC Panorama has revealed that Mr Abramovich is behind an offshore company called Leiston Holdings.
Leiston was taking stakes in footballers overseas through third-party ownership (TPO).
This is where investors buy a share of a footballer's future transfer value from cash-strapped clubs.
The practice was banned in the English Premier League in 2008 but not internationally until 2015.
Chelsea faced Sporting Lisbon in the Champions League group stage in 2014.
And Carrillo lined up for Sporting in both matches.
So in Lisbon in September and Stamford Bridge in December, Mr Abramovich had an interest in 12 players on the pitch.
Lord Triesman told Panorama: "I don't think it can possibly be proper for the owner of a football club to own players in other football clubs. That is precisely why third-party ownership is banned."
"It casts suspicion and a shadow right across football. On the documents I've seen, I would've wanted, as chairman of the FA, to investigate them."
It comes as Mr Abramovich appears to be making heavy investments in Chelsea again this year.
What links Roman Abramovich to the offshore company?
In December 2016, a suspicious activity report (SAR) was filed by a bank about Mr Abramovich.
It identified more than $1bn of "suspicious payments involving offshore shell companies" - firms functioning only to manage the money put in them.
The SAR said many of the shell companies were "owned by Roman Abramovich… one of Russia's most powerful oligarchs with close ties to Moscow & Vladimir Putin".
The money seemed to be going around in circles between the companies.
Among the transactions were a series of nine payments from a Cypriot company. This money was split between four other companies before $156m ended up in Leiston Holdings.
Leiston became the subject of public attention in 2018, when it was revealed by German website Der Spiegel as part of the Football Leaks investigation to be an investment vehicle for TPO.
Panorama discovered both the company in Cyprus and Leiston Holdings are Roman Abramovich companies.
As well as being funded with $156m of his money, Chelsea had first option of signing some of Leiston's players.
Was there a conflict of interest?
In 2011, Leiston Holdings secured 50% of Andre Carrillo's "economic rights" when it loaned Sporting €1m (about £850,000) to help them purchase the player from Alianza Lima.
The financial deal contained a number of clauses, as was common in TPO agreements.
It said that if a transfer offer of more than €6m was made for Carrillo and Sporting Lisbon did not accept it, they would have to pay Leiston 45% of the value of the offer.
And Sporting agreed to pay Leiston a "risk fee" of more than €127,000 for each season Carrillo played for the club.
The Portuguese club's accounts showed it owed Leiston €2.6m in 2014-15.
Leiston also owned stakes in two other Sporting players - Gael Etock, who played for the club between 2012 and 2013, and Valentim Viola who was in the squad between 2012 and 2016.
'No wrongdoing'
Former England and Liverpool striker John Barnes told Panorama that while third-party ownership could not really influence what happens on the pitch, it was important players had an identity and loyalty to the club they played for and their supporters.
"From a moral point of view, and from an integrity of the sport point of view - when you sign for a club, your integrity and your loyalty should be to that club 100%."
Mr Abramovich's spokeswoman said: "The fact that transactions may have been confidential, does not mean that they were unlawful or otherwise in breach of then applicable rules or regulations."
She said they "relate to the period before Fifa changed their rules".
The spokeswoman added that suspicious activity reports do not mean laws or rules have been broken, saying: "The fact that we are not aware of this issue, confirms that there has been no wrongdoing as no action was taken."
Who is Roman Abramovich?
>One of Russia's richest people, with Forbes putting his net worth in 2019 at $12.9bn
>Reportedly sold dolls before making his fortune in oil and gas after the collapse of the former Soviet Union
>One-time business partner of the late tycoon Boris Berezovky, an associate of ex-Russian President Boris Yeltsin
>Served as governor of Russia's Chukotka region
>Believed to be close to Russian President Vladimir Putin
>Became owner of the companies that control Chelsea in 2003
>Reportedly withdrew application to extend his UK investor visa - which allowed him to reside in Britain - in 2018
>Now has Israeli citizenship
The FinCen Files is a leak of secret documents. They have revealed how major banks have allowed dirty money to be moved around the world.
They also show how the UK is often the weak link in the financial system and how London is awash with Russian cash.
The files were obtained by BuzzFeed News which shared them with the International Consortium of Investigative Journalists (ICIJ) and 400 journalists around the world. Panorama has led research for the BBC.
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-54229269
Quite obvious, only british media would be the source of this news. Trying to paint him. |
| Culture / Re: Tinuade Babalola Not Allowed To Have Boyfriend; Must Be Celibate In Her Reign by zubinike(m): 9:13am On Sep 09, 2020 |
MelesZenawi:
Story
Come let me take u on virginity test.
I don't need a doctor. I will handle it personally. She never said she is a Virgin. She would stay without sex is celibacy |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Multipro Consumer Product Limited - Any Feedback From Them by zubinike(m): 12:48pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
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| Family / Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by zubinike(m): 11:31pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.
So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...
On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.
Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice. Its simple, you are not regarded. Was your mum married to your dad? And what tribe if I may ask.? My candid opinion, sit a meeting with the elders if you have got the time and clear your doubts. But please, saying be careful is not my thing. Be a Though breed and be more conscious spiritually because wetin kill your papa fit start to hunt you if your uncle has an ulterior motive.... 1. Play a fool, why u gather all Intel's necessary 2. Gather all the elders and Air your view 3. Before your dad's demise, was your uncle playing any vital responsibility for your family....? 4. May God give u the heart to bear his loss 5. Seek wisdom, nah self them take dey follow village people before the sand when go cover your dad go cover all of una |
| Family / Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by zubinike(m): 11:26pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
donbachi:
Go and transfer ur late father's corpse to another mortuary or u go back to that very mortuary u deposited his body,and warn them not to release his corpse to anybody,unless u come in person.as for the shop,buy another key and lock it.while u plan for his burial..do not give room to anger and exchange of words. So if you lock the shop, you go sitdown for The front dey play ludo? 1 Like |
| Music/Radio / Re: The Legend Of The Rainmaker – Majek Fashek by zubinike(m): 3:35pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
omat20:
And it still rained heavily on Tuesday June 2nd. The rain was pouring for more than 7hours with thunder too.
Majek had a supernatural power but sadly he never knew it. May his soul RIP. The spirituality sprung deep into his Albums not just the "rain maker " alone. Do we listen to lyrics at all? Listen to "so long" Little patience Holy spirit (this is my favorite of them all) Majek was a prophet(I met him twice, once in Phil. and the other at ikeja) he speaks above the realm of Earth. His level of spirituality is far too deep. He was to be used by God, but he kept distancing himself with irregularities, and I think he has finally paid the price. Live On Majekodumi Fasheke (Your reward shall be on that day, Those who say all kinda bad things against you, their reward shall be .......on that day, where they will be no more sorrow, no more weeping and no more pain..... Holy Spirit........### live on Legend 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| TV/Movies / Re: Aroma Ufodike Of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire: Who Remembers This Man? by zubinike(m): 10:24pm On May 29, 2020 |
Amanee:
Who remembers this man?
Aroma Ufodike, from Nnewi, Anambra State, who appeared on the popular TV Show “Who Wants to Be a Millionaire in Nigeria” on September 11, 2009, and won 10 million naira. He was the first and only person to win the top prize in Nigeria, I think.
He got all the questions without using any life line.
When he was on the last question, he said “I want to use my 'phone a friend' option to call my family at home that I’m about to win 10million Naira.”
My thoughts also go to the intellectually balanced Frank Edoho 
Where is Gulder Ultimate Search? �
These are the type of programs we need to see on air not the extremely immoral Big Brother Nigeria.
This is worth celebrating indeed, but I'm not trying to shame BBNaija either.. I'm just saying..
I wish these intellectually stimulating TV programmes could return back to our homes. #GodBlessNigeria Please please. He used the phone a friend option at the last question. "I quote: he picked the answer but wanted to be really sure of the answer. Then a call was placed to his friend and not the family. Please pass useful info |
| Autos / Re: How Much Should I Pay Someone To Drive My Car From Lagos To Abuja? by zubinike(m): 7:08pm On May 25, 2020 |
9jaHustler:
I have a tokumbo can in Lagos that I want to bring to Abuja. What is the going rate to have someone drive it from Lagos to Abuja?
Are there any conditions usually given?
Any thing that I need to know please. Just make sure the car is registered. If not custom go use una play. And every check point him must settle. I usually cross cars to abuja. If its someone I know. Its 40grand, if I don't know you. Its 50k. My tfair and fuel, with police check point is included in this bill |
| Romance / Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by zubinike(m): 4:50pm On May 11, 2020 |
goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm  sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!! She is one of them. I swear, it was like that with her....and am not complaining , Am I? |
| Crime / Re: Woman Who Slapped Policeman 13 Times Arrested In Oyo by zubinike(m): 1:37pm On May 06, 2020 |
femo86:
My brother... She was caught in the act...
I really pity the woman cos naija police no go gree free am... But I believed the policeman did sometin to her before recording. We all don't know what happened before then. Nah only God know wetin happen
This is a big lesson to everyone
Watch the video, she said never in the life of the police man will he hit anybody again. That the police slapped her first.
So what's the fuse, its a fair trial. The woman can't be mad by just jumping on the asp with slaps like that. The police bought bog-off offer by hitting her once or twice and getting 13 extra, free.
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| Crime / Re: Woman Who Slapped Policeman 13 Times Arrested In Oyo by zubinike(m): 1:35pm On May 06, 2020 |
NextD18:
I feel no pity for the woman because Nigerians would have roasted the man if reversed was the case.
Truth is; 99.543% of single mothers are always angry, aggressive and bitter towards men.
I suspected she's a single mother the first day I watched that video. You'll hardly see a happily married woman curse, fight and attack men.
I can imagine the behavior and character the kids of such wayward woman will be possessing. Please watch the video again, did the woman lie about the police man slapping her at first? She said it in Yoruba. It was the slap that provoked the woman. I think both the police and the woman needs to be condemn in the court of law 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by zubinike(m): 2:14pm On May 01, 2020 |
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!
Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.
I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.
So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......
It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...
Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.
I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...
But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....
She screenshoted everything to me herself.....
Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...
Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys? Brother brother brother, please concentrate on your studies and being a better man, leave woman matter for now, you seem not ready for marriage, don't waste that girls youthful age, allow her enjoy life. If she comes back, accept her but if she don't. Please wish her well. Do your best to attain your dreams and not leave a manipulative life asking questions here and there when no concern you. Be warned |
| Music/Radio / Re: Tony Allen Is Dead! by zubinike(m): 2:05pm On May 01, 2020 |
AfroKnight:
He set the standard for afrobeat drumming.
RIP to the maestro.
Does anyone know Fela’s bassist in Africa 70? Dede mabiaku |
| Romance / Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by zubinike(m): 12:49pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101:
Please I'm new here on this platform and I just want some advice to clear my mind.
Let me just go straight to the point. My girl that we've been dating for a year plus now just told me a week ago that she lived a couple's life with her ex back in school right from when she entered 300l (4yrs course) and the guy 400l (5yrs course) and I've not been able to get over it.
It happened a week ago, we were together and she saw a post of her ex engagement to his current girlfriend and she started feeling bad, so I asked her what happened and a little bit angry with her thinking maybe she was not over her ex yet. She told me she has gotten over him but she just remembered her past so I try to console her to let go and if there's something she hasn't told me yet about her past that is still eating her up she can tell me because before now we've talked about a lot of things about our past and we've try to forgive each other and let the past be in the past.
She had told me it was this only guy she had dated and it was the same guy that disvirgined her. I was not bothered about that because I was not a virgin either. She told me she has moved on even before I came and she stayed for close to a year to heal up and all through this time I was asking her out but she never said yes and never told me she was going through heart break.
Now, it's a year and few months into our relationship, she's been a very good girl, supportive and hard working. And now she just told me this, coupled with some lies she has used to cover it up in some of our previous conversations about her school life.
I'm not perfect either and I've had my past which I have told her. I never lived a couples life back in school and it was only a girl I've also had anything sexual relationship to do with.
Why am emotionally down now is because I know what it is like to live a couples life in school. I never lived as one but I know of people that lived as such in school and I know what happens.
Now I don't know if I can forget about this and we move on. I love this girl so much and she has shown to also love me as much and I've tried to forget about what happened but most times when I see her now I tend to always remember and it eats me up.
Do you guys think I can forget about this? Brother brother brother, you be Jesus? Please if you are in love with her and she replicates the same feelings, please don't go looking for what is not calling you. Please put a ring on her finger and forever remain silent. Delay is dangerous. If there be anyone without sin, he should cast the first stone. 5 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by zubinike(m): 9:55am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Kingrexyl:
You are a dumbass to think all girls have brains to offer, or don't you see the rate of broke and useless girls called slay queen in this country perhaps, you are too dumb to notice. My brother the only dumb person I see is you bro, I quoted "some girls have got brains" and you stand there generalizing that "all girls" It shows how fixated and degenerating your brain works. #pussyronario |
| Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by zubinike(m): 6:18pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Beverlyjean:
Most of all don't marry someone that has an unforgiving spirit.. this one is even against man and God Experience baby, experience. |
| Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by zubinike(m): 6:12pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Kingrexyl:
Stay away from broke girls, they never have nothing to offer a man if not their viginas Don't think with your Anal cavity, some have got Brains to offer, you probably think of S*x as the only good thing u see in her. Puss romario |
| Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by zubinike(m): 6:08pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Jubilancy:
The last is my condition now..... although not marriage....but 3 relationships in a row.... AS isnt funny on me now.... even now... I feel so stressed with all the pain Come feel my warm embrace. Proud AA 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by zubinike(m): 6:06pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Allsingles:
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/04/dont-marry-anyone-in-this-category-of.html?m=1 Don't marry anyone who makes all this check list a priority, ask them who calls the shot? Who made this rules relevant? Some points are valid, some points needs to be checkmated. When you get married, your new family matters more than your extended. Argue wisely. Having male besties, oga you are feeling unsecured, please tell yourself the truth. Psychologically, we Nigerians dont appreciate counseling before marriage. There is more to your list 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Should I Lend My Boyfriend Money? by zubinike(m): 3:18pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,
I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.
In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.
When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.
Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him? A legend once taught me never to lend money to anybody, Give what you know won't kill you. My advice, buy food stuff for him if you can. |
| Religion / Re: Pator Adeboye: Pray Against Flood And Fire Incidents, A Big One Is Coming by zubinike(m): 9:29pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
SyberKate:
They should go and relax joor.
As big as Covid one nine is yet non of them saw it coming.
As many people have been infected yet not one has been miraculously healed by them.
Tired of these our MoGs
 Obob see peopke don loose faith finish, just one Covid 19, men are faithless. When other illness returns at once nko? We all turn to pegan be that. Where him pikin prophesy the bishop? He can say, he sees happiness by June, people celebrating. Mtcheeeeew abegi, religion for naija nah scam. Ask Adax he knows better. Remember to pay your tithe. 1 Like |
| Family / Re: All You Need To Know About Court Marriage In Nigeria -Barr. Enwongo Cleopas. by zubinike(m): 1:56pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
So Educative.
My dad got married to my mum over 40years ago traditionally, but in 2017 their marriage became obsolete by mutual agreement of the both family, so dowry was returned and everyone went separate ways.
In 2018, my dad remarried and this time he had a statutory wedding with his new wife.
1. This new wife tend to sit powers over everything saying she married in court so she is entitled to every details running at home, e.g my dad has chains of businesses and houses around Lagos and Delta.
Me being the senior son, I tried to be close to her so she could be loved by my younger ones, but her attitude and pompous ego centric behavior is making her feel untop the world that she is the boss because she got married in court and legally she controls what the husband has with equal power. Example, in one of my fathers compound, the wife is currently building a house on it without my knowledge, and she is bragging about it that so long she did the statutory marriage is her legal right to build on it because she owns what the husband own, this are properties she met just less than two years now, this are lands I myself had plans of building on to generate income.
Please OP, after reading most comments here I understand now that I too have a right, and her statutory marriage gives her support not to be chased away without legal divorce or compensation and child support if she had a baby for my dad (although no issue yet between them)
2. How can I cut her power, because this whole thing is tiring, I can't go to tenants to collect rents because them say madam don come collect am. I don't have to fight her, because the husband(my dad) is hypertensive.
3. I need more insights as to what we the kids stand to achieve or legally claim if a Will is not written in her favor after death or even if the will goes in her favor after death.
Am grateful, and hope to hear from you asap |
| Food / Re: A Nairalander Shares Her Easter Food. Share Yours by zubinike(m): 6:24pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
Juliearth:
This is the first festivity that I would mark away from home. Thus, in a bid to make it quite homely, I resolved to give myself and a few of my neighbours a treat.
Pictures loading soon
Julie nwenem, abeg give me control. You can't eat all those by yourself please 2 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by zubinike(m): 11:26pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.
I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.
Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.
Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.
I personally feel attacked   I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me
What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear
If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.
Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.
Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.
White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department 
In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.
Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.
All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.
Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.
There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.
A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.
I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today
Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely I seriously took my time reading this epistle word for word and line for line. Am in no position to pass a judgement. But I believe by now, the dude on the receiving end knows better and would up his game with someone who knows her spices better. Anyway, I would love to ask for a favor? Can I mail you please? |
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| Romance / Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by zubinike(m): 9:22pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.
He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.
I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.
Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me
Photo for illustration If I curse you now, you go swell like bread when them soak for water. All I will say is don't be scared of a small beginning. If you can't cope with peer inferences. Then let the guy be. Carry your wahala go. Your parents definitely met in a duplex I guess? Give that man the happiness and support he deserves. Work hard with him and build the empire you crave for. And please do not remind me of the story of a Gold digger |
| Travel / Re: Nigerians Abroad, How Do You Cope With The Coronavirus Issue? by zubinike(m): 1:22am On Mar 24, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar:
We are coping just fine. I work from home. It gets annoying not moving around much but it is what it is.
Its comforting to know that at least there are measures put in place in case we fall sick.
Functioning hospitals
Functioning drugs
Ambulances
Health workers who know what they are doing
Bros which country you dey? How true is the news we are hearing that in China, government sends food to the houses of its masses for free, then in u.s, 1000$ is been paid to individuals, what have the government in your current country done for you guys since the pandemic started? |
