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Re: Hello by Nobody: 11:30am On Dec 30, 2015 |
kweenkong:On point thanks for the advice |
Re: Hello by byvan03: 11:33am On Dec 30, 2015 |
ClassicQueen: OK, it's easy to ignore this woman nah,you hardly meet her. Enjoy what you have now till the meeting time comes, it's too early to worry ones head over one woman jare. 1 Like |
Re: Hello by freshvine(f): 11:37am On Dec 30, 2015 |
ClassicQueen: You're getting too involved with this lady to the detriment of your fiance. Everyone gossip at one point or the other with slanderous motive. She's trying to impress on the family and wouldn't want to have you take off the shine. Get use to it or beat her at her game 1 Like |
Re: Hello by bennyrazz: 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Mindfulness: |
Re: Hello by damiso(f): 1:10pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
byvan03: Chikena OP. As long you will not live in the same house, just chill. By the time life, work, kids etc come in the interactions will be minimal. With people like that a polite distance is the best strategy and sometimes it wont even be deliberate just no time. 1 Like |
Re: Hello by Chidoks(f): 1:25pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Babes,babes,babes... Try and distance your self from the man's family as far as possible until he marries you. Courtship is not marriage. You are not permitted to pick quarrels at this stage. Quit if any issue makes you uncomfortable.over visitation is not good in courtship o. Make dem no see you finish! 3 Likes |
Re: Hello by cococandy(f): 2:41pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
byvan03: Beev! 2 Likes |
Re: Hello by babygirlfl: 5:25pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
byvan03: Exactly. 1 Like |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 6:09pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Is there anything special you are supposed to do for her? Or is it family house yall will live after marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Hello by ivyT(f): 11:11pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
byvan03: Exactly.every family has pple that behave that way.. 1 Like |
Re: Hello by tpiar: 12:53am On Dec 31, 2015 |
modaru ti de. she wont rest until she completes her mission of destroying whatever she met in that family. |
Re: Hello by tpiar: 12:54am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Re: Hello by tpiar: 12:54am On Dec 31, 2015 |
freshvine: dem send am. |
Re: Hello by tpiar: 12:55am On Dec 31, 2015 |
ClassicQueen: is it mandatory folks must marry Yoruba? |
Re: Hello by tpiar: 12:56am On Dec 31, 2015 |
ClassicQueen: and who told you that? |
Re: Hello by tpiar: 12:58am On Dec 31, 2015 |
op so when you visit your boyfriend's place, you just lounge around like the queen of the jungle? typically, a new wife or girlfriend is supposed to do chores and help out around the house. who is this your boyfriend sef? |
Re: Hello by zemaye: 12:13pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
ClassicQueen:ha human beings and eye service! kneel kor kneel ni! abeg Op stay your lane and be the best you can be at all times allow the silly thing! her space and enjoy your life never start what you cannot see through sha! meaning politely keep her for here hell hole they are a million and one ways to finish person without even saying a word sef! 1 Like |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 7:48am On Jan 04, 2016 |
zemaye:Thanks |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 8:04am On Jan 04, 2016 |
tpiar:What is the Thread saying and what are you talking about? you look confused 2 Likes |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 21, 2016 |
Funny |
Re: Hello by dangotesmummy: 11:43am On Nov 21, 2016 |
bennyrazz:I taya o |
Re: Hello by dangotesmummy: 11:48am On Nov 21, 2016 |
Op face your front and stay ON your lane. If she bring it hot give her hot and ig she brings IT cold give her cold.never ever respect hypocrites gossipers OR backbiters regardless of their age.they're capable of creating unnecessary divisions bad blood and tension in a family and can even destroy your relationship If you're not watchful 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Hello by sisisioge: 12:04pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Just ignore her. After the greetings no let anything bring you together. Smile when it's required, invest in a dark sunglasses and wear it the rest of the time. What the heck does she want from you...just face front. If she has any of her "corrections" to dish out, so long as she didn't mete it out to you directly, no acknowledge. Life is really too short to have so much sorrows. Good luck with your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 2:03pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
sisisioge:Thanks |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 2:04pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
dangotesmummy:You are so right. Thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Wedding is almost a year and this woman have refused to stay on her lane o. Helllpppppp |
Re: Hello by thotianna: 5:17pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
I hate it when some in laws just take it upon themselves to be troublesome just to show power. Continue to distance yourself. I know people like her, she wants to break you. She wants to turn you into a fearful coward whenever you stand in front of her. Position of first wife is shacking her that's why she isn't happy you have not started kneeling down to beg her from fear like the other wife. It's left to you to understand her and deal with her how best you can. I have an in law like like that and the truth is that your case is even slightly better because the one am dealing with is like a year younger than me but wants to flex muscle cos she is my husband sister. If she visits she completely ignores me for God knows what reason, if I speak up among her family she just starts contradicting and opposing me with such hostility for God knows what reason. I truly have no idea what I did to her, no warmth or friendliness at all. Before I married her brother I did everything to get close to her, even gave her money although we are almost age mates. The one that pained me the most was how she snubbed me at my wedding. I went to her to greet her warmly but she just nodded briefly and walked away from me quickly. I have started giving her chance abeg. I have enough issues to deal with in my life and I can't add an emotionally unstable in law. I would also advice you to distance yourself from that woman. Don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you break and act fearful of her. 2 Likes |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 23, 2017 |
thotianna:Don't mind the idiot people like that r always in a family dunno y. U can imagine that ur silly sister inlaw. Whew so much 4 being calld a Mrs! I think that distance and silent treatment works perfectly. Thanks |
Re: Hello by Nobody: 7:57pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
Update. I gave her silent treatment for a whole year I press my ignore button and she almost died... thank God she finally realized her mistakes I have forgiven her sha but will keep my distance let it remain hi hi tins...I dey enjoy my marriage with my bobo no time. Dem no fit stop my shine na dem go die if dem wish me same. ...first to do no dey pain o I should start a diary soon sha of course with another moniker stay tuned 4 Likes |
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