Actress Nse Ikpe Etim who got married to her hubby, Clifford Sule in 2013, this morning shared a post on her Instagram page that centered on people respecting the privacy of women who are battling with infertility or the ones that have chosen not to have children.

Read what she wrote below:

A woman is a person. A person who can decide what she wants to do with her body or her time.
So, it is extremely ignorant to expect all women to eventually be mothers.

There are many reasons why a woman may not have children.

Infertility is more common than we know and to immediately ask a woman why she doesn't have a child is extremely insensitive.

There are also women who have chosen to not have children simply because they will not put their bodies through pregnancy. They simply do not want to have kids and this is perfectly okay.

Whatever a woman decides to do - to have babies or to not; or whether they are battling infertility is no one’s business.

Happiness is all that matters. Gratefully, it is absolutely free.

My prayer and hope is that one day we will not judge unfairly unmarried or childless women.

That being said, if children will make you happy, I pray that you have loads of them.

If you do not want or cannot have kids, remember that you can still find joy and do not allow anybody make you feel less.

Enjoy life. Breathe freely and enjoy all the beauty in the world.

For me, love and light are the truth and all I ever want is to live in happiness and pure truth.

https://zenithnaija.com/it-is-extremely-ignorant-to-expect-all-women-to-eventually-be-mothers-actress-nse-ikpe-etim/

Why are women of nowadays quick to jump on this hapiness is importanter thing and refuse to acknowledge that having kids is part of happiness?

She's a Christian, and perhaps she reads the Bible that says "Happy is the man who has his quiver fulllll of them"

Pls help break down.

I'm not saying na by force but when did this start? Is this one wisdom like this?

Asides complications, having kids is part of happiness!!

Mama in d news lately

Hmmmm

daveP:
Why are women of nowadays quick to jump on this hapiness is importanter thing and refuse to acknowledge that having kids is part of happiness?

She's a Christian, and perhaps she reads the Bible that says "Happy is the man who has his quiver fulllll of them"

Pls help break down.

I'm not saying na by force but when did this start? Is this one wisdom like this?

Asides complications, having kids is part of happiness!!

My friend shut Up

Truth ma!

But it's an intrinsic desire of any woman to be a mother.

That's why gays even adopt kids.

Why didn't you post this earlier so maybe Buhari's mom would've seen it and would've reconsidered carrying the i-diot for 9months..

Mr. Clifford Sule come and listen to your wife oo.

You are 100..% right

yeye

I am one of those who basically has no maternal instinct.
I don't want to bring a child into the world and make them suffer for my selfishness.
Children need love and care.
I am too selfish to give it.

A typical African child would likely want to have her child...

It is ognorant to expect anyone to be anything. We're in an era of people doind what they think it's best for them and not what the society wants. My problem is that people who say things like this will want to tell someone else how to live their life.

ZombieTAMER:


My friend shut Up

LMAO

That's what he deserves

See excuse!

Edithfavourite:
Actress Nse Ikpe Etim who got married to her hubby, Clifford Sule in 2013, this morning shared a post on her Instagram page that centered on people respecting the privacy of women who are battling with infertility or the ones that have chosen not to have children.

Read what she wrote below:



https://zenithnaija.com/it-is-extremely-ignorant-to-expect-all-women-to-eventually-be-mothers-actress-nse-ikpe-etim/

I love her already

A woman is this, a woman is that, a woman can be a mother, a woman can't be a mother, don't you know she's is a woman, she is a strong woman, a woman is a weaker vessel, she's a career woman, don't talk to a woman like that, don't hit a woman at all, respect her cos she's a woman..

Vagina and entitlement mentality..

Only a hoelosho will abort every baby in the womb Everytime , claiming she doesn't want to have a child ,

Or maybe she don use her early years play match finish and lost her womb .. irresponsible advice

I know some of them now in their sixties , they choose not to bear any child while they were young , or lost their womb , now they act like they can find happiness somewhere else , but deep in their heart , they're regretting it big time ..

Happiness till wen........

Shut de fvck up !

Face de reality of life !

It's also ignorance and foolishness to expect all men to be potent.

If ur womb is damaged u better open up, if ur mother did what claim, you wouldn't have been alive today.

Tell me a man that doesn't love sex and I will tell you he is manhood deficit.
Tell me a woman that doesn't baby and I will tell you she has fertility problem or maybe her womb is damaged.

daveP:
Why are women of nowadays quick to jump on this hapiness is importanter thing and refuse to acknowledge that having kids is part of happiness?

She's a Christian, and perhaps she reads the Bible that says "Happy is the man who has his quiver fulllll of them"

Pls help break down.

I'm not saying na by force but when did this start? Is this one wisdom like this?

Asides complications, having kids is part of happiness!!

having kids is part of happiness? you haven't seen those that kept suffering because of their kids and would have wished to be childless. Just understand her point and stop asking childless couple of babies, you don't know if she is suffering infertility. Only if you understand what women go through

Is it a coincidence that all such eccentric values come from single women, baby mamas, scorned women... when thoughts are diluted with bitterness of your predicaments people will always question what you say or stand for.

Some women can become fathers

Some don already dey claim Kings

Tell them!

And tell them again!

Africans and, specifically, Nigerians like to make it look like once you have kids, all your problems are over and you'll be happy forever. They don't even care whether you can take care of those kids and will have time for them. And if you can't, they won't take care of the kids either. Instead, they would call you a bad parsnt and all sorts of names.

In truth, some people's problems and unhappiness start when they have kids and never end till they die.

See, if you want kids and find happiness in kids, have them, as many as you can take care of comfortably. If not, please DO NOT!!!

daveP:
Why are women of nowadays quick to jump on this hapiness is importanter thing and refuse to acknowledge that having kids is part of happiness?

She's a Christian, and perhaps she reads the Bible that says "Happy is the man who has his quiver fulllll of them"

Pls help break down.

I'm not saying na by force but when did this start? Is this one wisdom like this?

Asides complications, having kids is part of happiness!!

So if you cannot impregnate a woman you will kill yourself or end up a wreck in life?..If life throws a lemon at you,you make a lemonade out of it is what this lovely actress called Nse meant okay?..good.