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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Wore A Skin-tight Catsuit At The African Unplugged Concert. by goshap(m): 7:24pm On Sep 16
tuneriolo:

Multiple award winning singer-songwriter, recording artist, performer, and actress, Tiwatope Savage-Balogun, known by her stage name as Tiwa Savage stunned onlookers yesterday when she performed in a skin double outfit.

The beautiful 34 year old entertainer headlined the African Unplugged concert which held yesterday Sunday September 14th at the O2 Brixton Academy in London alongside Davido.

The recently married performer was spotted in Lagos on Saturday night at Mo Abudu’s 50th birthday party which boasts of various high and mighty in Nigeria and abroad. She was said to have flown out of the country immediately she finished performing at the Mo’ Abudu’s party so as to make it in time for this show in London on Sunday night.
What do u think?






SOURCE: http://tundeoloyede.blogspot.com/2014/09/photos-check-out-tiwa-savages.html
she's hot hot hot, wish ma wife could posses that charisma.
Education / Re: 6 Reasons Not To Attend A Public University by goshap(m): 6:57pm On Sep 11
DrankFonga:

com slap lecturer for FUT mx. U go hear am
Romance / Re: Trauma Of A Nigerian Young Lad. Pls, Help!! by goshap(m): 6:52pm On Sep 11
Forsaken: No bashing please. I don't know whether i should post it on romance or religion section, but anyone of it is better.

I am a 17years old boy who can described himself as Bisexual/curious because I am still confused.

Growing up, I never knew what is gay and i have always been attracted to females. I always get an Attention whenever i see female intimate organ like bosom and bottom. I came from a staunch christian background and was never really a bad boy. I never had a girl friend.

My trauma all started at the age of thirteen, i started getting an Attention whenever i see handsome men or well built one. I never really understood what was happening because i don't know anything about gay sex. It all became clear to me at fifteen years when i noticed that my attraction to men is more stronger to female(though i'm still attracted to them).

To cut story short, i havent had sex with male or female or kissed anyone. But, i get more intimate urge to do men than women.

The traumatise part of it is bible opinion about homosexuality and my question is if God really destroyed sodom and gomorrah because of it, why did he still allow satan to replant the seed in his imperfect creation and still want to punish them.

address this maturely. No bashing please
U'VE ALREADY ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTIONS BY YOURSELF, looks to me like ur just looking for confirmation .# abeg let me sleep in peace on nl o#

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Celebrities / Re: Queen Latifah Photographed Kissing Her Girlfriend During Vacation (PHOTOS) by goshap(m): 5:09pm On Aug 23
beryl04:

Hey guy, how r you.
I'm still very much around just keeping low for now.
How's up north na?
you back in that group thingy yet.
Celebrities / Re: Queen Latifah Photographed Kissing Her Girlfriend During Vacation (PHOTOS) by goshap(m): 2:28pm On Aug 23
beryl04:


Lol! I'd known she s gay since late 90's
She's never hidden the fact and it's always there in her works.
Homophobes ur sick,period.
where av u been!, been chasing you round the universe. them no tell u

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Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 7:04pm On Aug 14
pickabeau1:

Lol..
I also agree that narcissism to an extent is inherent in every human..basic survival


yea like everything you need it to an extent, a total lack of it might lead to poor self image n feeling of self worth.

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Romance / Re: What If You Find Out Your Girl Friend / Boy Friend Is a Lesbian/ Gay? by goshap(m): 7:00pm On Aug 14
Omomehn: what would you do if u discover the one you love is bisexual? as for me, if am not yet married to her i will call it quits.
as for me i would smile n say,welcome to the team.
Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:58pm On Aug 14
pickabeau1:


true...cool points...
yea,i for one cannot date someone as perfect as i am.
Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:52pm On Aug 14
pickabeau1:

I think so too..

A true narcissist will not even bother himself with a dedicated relationship

true n not true ,it literally depends on the degree and spectrum of the narcissist in question.
lets face we r all abit narcissist but it doesn't stop us from going n commitn fully in a r/ship.

n yes a chronic narcissist has no accommodation or attention for someone else in his life.if they do happen to find the need to accomodate some its more under the need for self evaluation n reflected self appraisal. here the other partner functions as a mirror self to prove or compare how awesome,merciful or perfect they are . but this cause does not necessarily lead to an abusive relationship.
duo one partner tends to put pressure on the other,in this case the narcissist is guilty.

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Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:35pm On Aug 14
u did a good job @ op. love the article

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Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:30pm On Aug 14
IfyAngela: You just described my ex
MA DEAR SHE JUST DESCRIBED ALL ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS. THIS R ALL PATTERNS PRESENT N PROGRESSIVE IN ANY ABUSIVE RELATION, THE HALLMARK OF SUCH RELATIONSHIPS IS THE PHYSICAL ABUSE.

-hardly does any abusive r/ship skip one of those pattern bt it happens.

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Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:26pm On Aug 14
IfyAngela: You just described my ex
MA DEAR SHE JUST DESCRIBED ALL ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS. THIS R ALL PATTERNS PRESENT N PROGRESSIVE IN ANY ABUSIVE RELATION, THE HALLMARK OF SUCH RELATIONSHIPS IS THE PHYSICAL ABUSE.
Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:22pm On Aug 14
MizMyColi:

^^^ It's mentioned in the Original Post.
u miss placing tthe theme here. are you talking about narcissism in relationships ,where one partner focuses on him/herself entirely while ignoring the emotional n psychological needs of the other partner.

- your refering to narcissism as a personality disorder in relationships.

both themes are similar but mean different things
to me what youve clearly state a character traits of an abusivee relationship,with respect to the abuser operating under the term narcissist
Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:14pm On Aug 14
pickabeau1:

A narcissist is obsessed with self cue the original Narcissus who fell in love with his reflection
He has little or no time to groom someone to love him, then spend hours emotionally torturing the person

As you rightly noted, an abuser may be a narcissist but all narcissists may not be abusers


What is written in your post is a quality of an abuser who may or may not be narcissistic

Just wanted to clear that as the whole theme of your post(referred..yes) is about abuse

now somes talking. you rily got da theme rit
Romance / Re: Relationship Talk: Ways Abusive Narcissists and Their Likes Get Inside Your Head by goshap(m): 6:12pm On Aug 14
pickabeau1: You are equating narcissism to emtional and physical abuse?
ma thoughts xactly.

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Family / Re: 13 Things Every Young Person Should Know by goshap(m): 7:12pm On Aug 11
DEGREE2466: Op a quick summary of your post

1. Some of the things you wrote there we are all aware.

2. You saying nobody owes you anything is a fallacy. How can you justify the fact that a child is born in this hostile world and left with little or nothing to survive on Dawn it, your parents owe you their parental responsibility both financially, emotionally, spiritually etc. So i disagree with you on that.

3. Couples who do lovey-dovey as you put it could be nausetting if they choose to do it in the public and in an inapproriate way so it can never be a reason someone is single.

4. Social network as far as i am concern has been overemphasized. Before the introduction on internet and social media there has been many jobless lazy people even during the era of St. Paul so?
way to stick it.
Fashion / Re: Check Out This Body Types And See Which One Is Yours! by goshap(m): 6:36am On Aug 02
dhensity: i dnt even know..but here is a pic of me..help me choos my body type.. i knw m fine ..m ghessing 4 anywayz
no 2, the trick is noticing the waist lenght an gettn an imaginary "v"
Fashion / Re: Check Out This Body Types And See Which One Is Yours! by goshap(m): 6:33am On Aug 02
softsparkyy: I love 3 and 4.

No need for pillows
huh!

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