Only Virgins Deserve White Weddings?

While going through that very intersting thread: What Women Want,i was drawn to a statement by Damsal: "if I am to remain a virgin, I deserve a white wedding".

So the big question is, is it right to have a white wedding when you know too well that you are not a virgin?  What are  your views on this?

lol technically, if you aint a virgin you shouldnt wear white, because the white has come to signify that the 'goods' are untried and untested lol.

but in this day and age, who really cares or who wants to know. thats why you see two time divorcees wearing white. what gives?

visibly pregnant women usually do not wear white tho.

[i]yes i agree.white weddings are meant for virgins alone.because white stands for purity.[[/i]i][/i]

Any woman deserves white wedding whether she's a virgin or not. If she wishes to have one it aint nobody's business. And yeah how about if she was raped or she choose to have kids before marriage cause of some problem.

I really want to say yes. Because remaining a virgin till wedding day is not an easy task ojere. I mean we deserve some sort of respect. *uses pa-kasumu's voice* Do you really think it is easy for a woman to remain a virgin? The white dress she wear on her wedding should be a sign telling the world that she stayed a virgin up till her wedding day.

*uses my voice*.  Okay seriously tho, It's no big deal. Even pregnant women now wear white gown, instead of 'pink or beige'.

Infact some people ar enow wearing different colors to their weddings. Kelis had a gorgeous Green dress on for her wedding.

LOL
DIDNT KNOW THAT

it's a free world!you want a white wedding, you can!

By their fruits posts, you shall know them (virgins and non virgins)

lol SAY WHATTTTTT hahahaha lol   *screaming*

Ohh heyyyy me and kellorah passed the exam o

WORD GURL!! White dress is whats up i feel you!!

hey! wats that suppose to mean _{nice pic on ur profile by the way}

if u're a virgin or not i think

It's very easy to decipher from the tone with ehich your posts are composed that some people are:

proud to be ;
non-chalant about not being ;
wishing they could still be ;

Get the picutre?

@rhea
u havent answered my question and no i don't get the picture yet please elaborate

The Webster online dictionary defined virgin as 'a person who has not had sexual intercourse'.  Now, my question is,
if you are a girl and you mastubate or use dildo/vibrator without doing the real thing with a guy (or even girl), are you still considered a virgin??? Do they deserve the so called white wedding too???