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Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Eziachi: 10:38pm On Apr 20, 2010
Why are you wearing your ring on the last finger of your hand?

This is not a wedding ring; it's a ring which was bought for me by one of the Saudi Arabian princesses and this was for all my goals, my matches H400 to 500 appearances, 150 goals and she bought me a signet ring and presented it to me when we were in Saudi Arabia. People have often asked me, Are you married? Are you not married? They bring out this story and that story. I've always said, 'Your private life is your private life and the only thing in life that you can protect is your private life'. All I can say is I have a private life and I have children.

Why are you not wearing your wedding ring?

I've never worn a wedding ring. In my life I've never had one. I've never worn one. You find out that most black Europeans don't wear wedding rings. And as a footballer, always I would have problem with my wedding ring. When I first got married, always I would put on my wedding ring and I would have to take it off again because I'm playing football. You are not allowed to wear a ring and because my knuckle is big, it will always be a problem trying to get it off. So after getting married for like six years ago, I never wore one anymore. You will never see any footballers wear wedding rings.

Doesn't your wife have a problem with it?

Nobody has a problem with it.

I didn't mean anybody; I said does your wife not have a problem with it?

You said that, but I said nobody. I know what you meant (laugh) but I tried to soften the line there. I don't think she has a problem with it. I'm sure after this period of time I would have known.

You seem to like to wearing African print. Who makes them for you?

All my clothes are African and they are all designed by one man. His name is Mudi. Mudi is a wonderful Nigerian designer who cut his cloth to suit a tall black man and his colours are unique. I met him three, four years ago. He had nothing then and he came in and he gave me some suits. In the picture you're holding, the suits I'm wearing is Mudi, the shirt also is his. I saw he had an exceptional talent and decided then that if I rise, I must try and make him rise. And he has risen, because from all my shows, deal or no deal, the football challenge, it has always been Mudi; even this I'm wearing now is Mudi.

Do you have a fragrance that is known with you?

I wear a lot of Arab scents because I'm very influenced by the North. I spend so much of my time in the North. I have families in Jos, Kano, and Kaduna, a lot of Fashanus there, many of them. I've always gone to the Arab countries a lot and I like their perfumes, they're very strong and it stays there, in your skin. This is a country you sweat all the time; you bathe all the time. In England they will teach that you will try out your skin when you keep having baths and showers but here you have no choice, you have to. And I always like to stay fresh, so I wear a lot of Arabic perfumes.

Tell us why you never got to play for Nigeria?

No, I don't have any regrets not playing for Nigeria because in my heart of hearts I know I tried and tried and tried. That was a very controversial issue because people got it all mixed up and people were saying, Fashanu, he turned down his country. It took me four years to explain to those people who cared to listen, that it was actually me trying to come home. I was invited three times to come back home. Each time I came back home, first time under a coach called Otto Gloria, a Brazilian. I stayed at a place called Games Village in Surulere.
Segun Odegbami, the late Muda Lawal, Henry Nwosu, I played with them all. The football I played was totally different; even the coach said, 'afterwards, you might be a star in your own country but over here you're not Playing too well'. In Europe, we play the football in the air, up high. In Nigeria, Africa, South America, the ball is played on the floor, totally different styles. So as much as I wanted to play I didn't fit in for that style. The truth is, for that style, I wasn't good enough.
I came the second time, I was benched.
I came the third time and I wasn't even benched, they didn't even invite me. My guys in London said, 'John, why are you going back home? Each time you go back to Nigeria you stay for one month, you don't get any salary, you don't get anything at all and when you come back to England, it takes you at least one month to get back in the team again, who loses? You lose!'

But in spite of that I still wrote a letter to Westerhoff begging him to put me in the team. I told him I'm one of the top strikers in England which I was at that time, I didn't get a reply. Nine years elapsed, I didn't hear from Nigeria. Then suddenly, Ericsson, the England Manager, saw my team, that day, that year, I was the leading goal scorer, 2nd leading goal scorer in the Premiership with 23goals, an Arsenal player just beat me to it. He said, 'You're are good enough to play for England, and now I'm going to give you an England shirt', It's the highest honour anybody around the world can achieve because you're playing for your adopted country and there it was and as you can see there on the wall, some of the most illustrious England players from Paul Gascoigne to Peter Shilton, the world famous players. That was the biggest day of my life because I played for England. International football standard and domestic standard is a different ball game. Once I put on the white shirt, the uproar started in Nigeria. 'Oh! He turned down his country; he doesn't want to play for Nigeria. It was complete rubbish! It took me time to let everybody understand that, but the whole world now knows that I never turned down my country, I came three times.

How will you describe your style?

I would say that I was fast, aggressive, and direct. A lot of my goals were scored by my sheer strength and speed. I wasn't a JJ and a JJ is not me. I wasn't a Kanu and Kanu is not me. I remember playing many games with Kanu, Aston Villa and Arsenal and he always used to confuse me because as he comes on I will always greet him as a Nigerian, and he always looked so gangling and so awkward, everything a footballer doesn't look like and five minutes to go, he scores the winning goal. He always used to do it. It actually used to sink my heart when I see him warming up, Arsenal and Aston Villa 2-2, 1-0, he comes on, and he has this funny walk ways, walking gangling like that, and five minutes to go Kanu scores the goal. He always used to do it and we always used to tell each other that if this guy comes on, be careful of him and that's the love and the respect that we've got for ourselves.

What outfit do you think you look best in?

I think when I stroll down my road with no clothes on, naked, that seems to get a lot of compliments (laughs). I often hear a lot of compliments, they're not nice but it's a lot of compliments (laughs). But if you're saying in clothes-wise seriously, one of the most beautiful ones is a white shirt with Chinese dragon, three dragons on it and Mudi designed that shirt because I'm also a Martial artist. For 16 years, I travelled round the world studying the Martial art and I realised it was better to heal than to destroy and so Mudi did a beautiful shirt for me and that's my favourite shirt.

How do you maintain your physique?

Let me lie and say, that everyday I run by 6'oclock 5'oclock and I never eat nor drink anything. The truth is born very lucky. God gave me a very good physique and because of my hard work during the years of Martial art, my stretching regimes, my exercises, I came up with, 'Focus on fitness with Fash', a CD tape for women for doing exercises in their houses. A lot of women who are not the right shapes, should we say diplomatically, don't want to go to the gym. Most Nigerian women don't want to go to the gym because most of our African women don't have the time, busy schedules. They've got children and they've got work load. So I say, 'You don't need to go to the gym, just watch the CD and pick three or four that you like. Most women want to get rid of the gut, arm, buttocks, and firm up the breast that's it. Remember, men have a tummy full stop, women have the tummy and they've the gut; so most women want to get rid of the guts and tighten up the tummy, waking up the bum. I'm a physiotherapist; I'm an exercise man; that's what I've done all my life. I'm not saying on the CD, 'Try and look like Fash'. I'm saying that because God has given me that. All I'm saying is, 'These are the ways that you as a woman can change your life. You can change your eating habit, sleeping habits, all other things by going through my fitness tape.'

What do you love doing in your free time?

Working! My work is my free time. I'm a workaholic. I also travel a lot. In Africa I think there're 53 countries, I have travelled to 48 and in 48, I think have met 27 heads of state. Since I've been back home, I can't even imagine, there is no state that I haven't travelled to. I'm always in Kano, Jos, and Port-Harcourt; tomorrow Saturday I'm going to Abuja.

What phrase or adjective describes you?

An enigma. I'm somebody who likes to diversify. From football to television, banking, tyre protector, oil business, construction, you have to be able to change; you have to be able to go into other businesses. I enjoy that and I take the example of people like Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola, Dr Mike Adenuga, they're the real pioneers, I'm just pretending. They're the ones who are going out there and are making it but you know, we are all learning and I'm somebody, I like to learn from people who, should we say my peers? Who would have thought when I came back to Nigeria three years ago, within three years I would now be involved with the bank, not in my wildest dreams in England could I ever own a bank however? Much money you've got, Couldn't happen! Here now, for the first time and I'm enjoying it, my name was cleared by the CBN. I'm a director of a bank and I have equity shares in the bank. Micro financing is the way forward in this country; it's not the big banks. We've got to appreciate it's for the people. I've been very lucky.

What's your typical day like?

Today Friday, I'm on my way to see some friends in Apapa where I'm going to talk to some of the young prisoners in Kirikiri. My days are crazy; I got in late last night from Port-Harcourt. I'm now in Lagos, and tomorrow Saturday morning, I would go back to Abuja. Then, from there to Kano, Kaduna, Jos and back to Lagos again. It's never ending.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Eziachi: 10:42pm On Apr 20, 2010
Whenever Fashanu plays his new found patriotism act, it makes me laugh so much and how foolish he thinks many are to be fooled by his sudden love of Africa and Nigeria. All this sudden African consciousness started after his match fixing debacle in England and no one over there, especially in the media and business will touch him with a badge pole. He suddenly realised he is a proud black African what a load nonsense. Tell your rubbish to little kids my friend and not adult like me.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by violent(m): 10:50pm On Apr 20, 2010
I ain't bothered!
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Ibime(m): 10:54pm On Apr 20, 2010
Eziachi:

Whenever Fashanu plays his new found patriotism act, it makes me laugh so much and how foolish he thinks many are to be fooled by his sudden love of Africa and Nigeria. All this sudden African consciousness started after his match fixing debacle in England and no one over there, especially in the media and business will touch him with a badge pole. He suddenly realised he is a proud black African what a load nonsense. Tell your rubbish to little kids my friend and not adult like me.



LAWL. . . . no mind the idiot. . . . anywhere there is scandal, Fash must be involved. . . hustler!. . . . shebi you remember this story about Fash threatening to pour acid on one of his church members a while back. . . . http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/northamptonshire/2975848.stm
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by tayoast(m): 10:58pm On Apr 20, 2010
in politics?
There's nothin political abt d story
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by mamagee3(f): 11:56pm On Apr 20, 2010
Good to know they're intimidated whenever Kanu comes into the field. grin
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by adconline(m): 12:56am On Apr 21, 2010
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Eziachi: 11:53pm On Apr 21, 2010
John Fashanu will always be a fraud. How can he had played with Kanu Nwankwo? Fashanu has retired from Football even before Kanu arrived in England from Inter Milan. Fashanu/Justin his brother never came close to playing for Nigeria despite many invitations to both and all those stories are just figment of his own imagination. How is English football style so different from the rest of the world that Fshanu find it unbelivable difficult to play for Nigeria? At that particular period an Igbo guy raised in England just like Fashanu was also invited to the Eagles camp and his name is called John Chiedozie and he cheerfully came and played for Nigeria several times from his English Club-Tottenham Hotspur without any pay.

What a load of rubbish this fraud is yanning. He can only tell this fibbs to only kids born yesterday. When Fashanu was invited to play for Nigeria he refused and his excuse was- It will benefit Nigeria if he plays for England and now he wants to rewrite his history. Then came 1994 after the Super Eagle has qualified for the world cup for the first time, Fashanu started scheming, warming himself to gate crash the world cup team to the U.S '94 and Westerhoff and the players said no way.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Ibime(m): 12:06am On Apr 22, 2010
Eziachi:

John Fashanu will always be a fraud. How can he had played with Kanu Nwankwo? Fashanu has retired from Football even before Kanu arrived in England from Inter Milan.

shocked shocked shocked

How can he play with Kanu when he retired in 1994? grin grin grin

He even said Kanu scored against him when he was at Aston Villa?
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Sagamite(m): 1:00am On Apr 22, 2010
Is this politics or governmental? undecided
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by adconline(m): 2:15am On Apr 22, 2010
How can he play with Kanu when he retired in 1994?

He even said Kanu scored against him when he was at Aston Villa?


I had searched all websites to corroborate Fashanu's side of the stories, but did not find any link to support his version.Naija journalists are amazing, it seems that they are happy to get an interview with a celebrity so that they could have their one minute fame. The interviewer did not even do a simple search on his marital status, cos he/she could have found out that he divorced his wife a few years ago .He/she could have asked him when he played Kanu. These journalists should take fact-checking as a course.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Afam(m): 8:41am On Apr 22, 2010
All these Kanu/Fashanu abi na Arsenal/Aston Villa gist na wah.

I thought people would be very careful making statements that could be easily verified online.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Katsumoto: 9:40am On Apr 22, 2010
Eziachi:


But in spite of that I still wrote a letter to Westerhoff begging him to put me in the team. I told him I'm one of the top strikers in England which I was at that time, I didn't get a reply. Nine years elapsed, I didn't hear from Nigeria. Then suddenly, Ericsson, the England Manager, saw my team, that day, that year, I was the leading goal scorer, 2nd leading goal scorer in the Premiership with 23goals, an Arsenal player just beat me to it. He said, 'You're are good enough to play for England, and now I'm going to give you an England shirt', It's the highest honour anybody around the world can achieve because you're playing for your adopted country and there it was and as you can see there on the wall, some of the most illustrious England players from Paul Gascoigne to Peter Shilton, the world famous players. That was the biggest day of my life because I played for England. International football standard and domestic standard is a different ball game. Once I put on the white shirt, the uproar started in Nigeria. 'Oh! He turned down his country; he doesn't want to play for Nigeria. It was complete rubbish! It took me time to let everybody understand that, but the whole world now knows that I never turned down my country, I came three times.


Are we certain that Fashanu gave this interview or a lazy journalist spoke to him briefly and made most of the story up? Fashanu may be a fraud (I am not saying he is) but I doubt that he would be daft enough to state that Ericsson gave him his debut. Bobby Robson gave Fashanu his debut in the 80s. Ericsson was not the England coach until 2000.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Godslover: 10:04am On Apr 22, 2010
this guy john fashanu, na wa o. he and bankole are 2 of a kind, hustlers but why are most nigerians born and breed in these developed countries turn out to be terrible hustlers, they hear stories of stealing in nigeria and come back determine to out steal there fathers. john fashanu you a sad story
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by lovenifest: 11:03am On Apr 22, 2010
Fashanu sincerely loves Nigeria. He made an effort to trace his parents many years ago. Most of you were too young then.

A few Nigerians abroad will bother coming home and I doubt if thousands of their children being born abroad will ever want to come home either.

So stop the criticism and praise him for his love for his country.
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by formunt(m): 11:38am On Apr 22, 2010
fashanu is a Gay. The truth is better
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Afam(m): 2:26pm On Apr 22, 2010
lovenifest:

Fashanu sincerely loves Nigeria. He made an effort to trace his parents many years ago. Most of you were too young then.

A few Nigerians abroad will bother coming home and I doubt if thousands of their children being born abroad will ever want to come home either.

So stop the criticism and praise him for his love for his country.

We should praise him for making an effort to trace his parents?

Why not praise me for asking you the question?
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 22, 2010
formunt:

fashanu is a Gay. The truth is better

since you're also gay, what's the problem?
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by texazzpete(m): 4:26pm On Apr 22, 2010
Gents, can we PLEASE post only topics related to Politics in this section?
Re: Why I’ve Never Worn A Wedding Ring —john Fashanu by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 22, 2010
moved to the celebrity section

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