Y'all know the drill. Once we are room mates, we share everything. She can wear my shoes, and i can use her pad. Girls... bunch of weirdos. I'm a girl, but i don't really buy the Idea of me and my friends sharing stuffs. I have no room mates.. but i don't think i'll share my stuff with her if i happen to get into uni and get a room mate. I don't know tho, it depends.

I think the topic is clear enough, Would you share your outfits/shoes/glasses or any of those stuffs with your roomate/friend?

Guys are welcome to answer this, because i heard that guys normally share each other's "black pants". Is it true that, There's no diff if Mr.A wears it, and then Mr.B wears it?

NO hell No, share stuff, nuh uh, i cant even share sum stuff with my own blood, room mate? {i neva had one} but if i do, nope.
i heard it is dangerous to share makeup stuff like mascara, eye shadow with people so i dont, pads? are u kidding me not gon happen
i heard summin about this girl who lent shoes from her friends and wore it and her legs was paralysed, dont know if its true and if it isnt, i cant share clothing things with my friends.
even if u beg me with money, i'l stand on my ground, u cant share my glasses {its recommended, so u end up getting myopia }

maybe if i get to uni, it might be different, but i stil cant share my wears
my answer is NO..go and buy your own {if u desperate for a pad, and i mean really desperate i can give u, but before i do, i gata see blood dripping first}

me share my prized possessions with my friends?Hell,no!!!

It depends on the kind of school you go to. In my former school, there is no way you can do without it. I mean, even if you don't wear other people's clothes, some people will wear your own! You just can't say No in a room of about 12 girls! Especially when there is a show to go to, see girls rushing for something sexy to wear here and there, some girls will even come from another room to ask if you have a blue top to go with the blue sandals which they got from yet another room!!! Well, in my new school, I'm the only one in my room...so no ruglem!

I used to do that with my roomate when i was in naija.....but nah!I cant do it anymore.

it depends....am da kind of person dat letz ppl feel fee when they r around me and i love giving things but in terms of room mate(s)..i din't have one but supposing i do and if someone i know 4rom b4 like familyfriends, i don't mind if not, i have 2 know how ur body works 2st and have 2 study u 2 know da kind of human being da person is as in if the person is dat kind dat is clean, have her bath atleast 2wice a day etcccccccccc..........like here in north-america, it might be inpossible 2 share ma clothes atleast with a stranger..shoes i don't mind....

my clothes and footwears are not just anything, id rather share my car than my clothings _{for real}

I and my room mates do share our clothes, shoes, slippers etc.(but no underwears hot-angel). The only condition we give ourselves is that we must be clean to use another mates property.

i'll rather give them out to friends rather that share with them. i dont like using or wearing someone's apparel neither do i enjoy it if anybody else tries to wear my clothes, shoes, etc

To me it depends on the friend, l remember in boarding house, my girlfriends used to wear my shirt, borrow my comb, cuttlery and everything  personal. it didn't matter then to me then because we were so so close . then people used to call us arometer cos we shared everything we had, did everything together and it was really cool. Then even when we had nothing, you think we had so so much cos na share now , u grab.

i share my clothes with my close friends, when they come's to my house i let them pick what they like, something they even forget to return them. i don't have any problem in sharing my clothes, but my shoes hell o no. and i don't wear someone else clothes

No o! nothing like that _{not even shoes}

i cannot share clothes o! i will make sure that i'm roomates with over and under sized girls so that i will not have to worry about that

but i will share biro and pencil sha

i don't think it is a good practice from the health's point of view. also, it shows lack of contentment for those involved. be happy with what u v as no one, fbi, cia, naija police, will arrest u for having a few things. remember greed is a killer. it shows bad manners.

but u could share with ur bf/gf as u guys r one anyway.

i don't wear/share other people's stuff (guess its the way i was raised up) but i do allow others to use my stuff as long as its for a genuine purpose and its not a normal continuum. A family friend of mine stayed late on 31st night and had to come with me to church. He asked to use one of my shirts and i said ok, even though it was one of my real expensive stuff but men there is more to life.

First let me point out the following to Hot-angel about guys:
(i) we don't normally wear pants(especially black pants).Reason; we don,t leak monthly, most guys wear boxers.
(ii) even if we wear one (which mostly is not black) we don't share it.
But to talk of sharing things like shoes, please let us be honest with ourself can anyone in the house swear to god that he never wear a shoe that does not belong to him/her? the truth of the matter is that we know whom to share with or not. Can somebody in the house help me with the definition of a FRIEND.

hell no
i don't share my clothings, towel deodorant or any thing that touches my skin with anybody
if u like it then its a good reason to go get ur own

i think i would with ma special friends, am used to given and given. am not sure i would wear ma friends outfits tho. but MY SHOES......HELL NO. i can only share with one special friend of mine and that not all of ma shoes. it's just like asking me to share ma man with sum gal.

men...no o, i used to with ma favourite cuz now am bigger dan she is so ma things wnt fit her anyways guess errthing happens 4 a reason

oh no i cant share my things with any other person apart 4rm mii close friend i cant even share my personal things like undies,deodorant towel,sponge name it only my clothes not even all my clothes the ones i know i dont really like or is no longer in vogue dagara asked a questiuon dat every body refused to reply even me dont worry i will reply...........................................................................................................i feel you hotangel

dagaro:

But to talk of sharing things like shoes, please let us be honest with ourself can anyone in the house swear to god that he never wear a shoe that does not belong to him/her? the truth of the matter is that we know whom to share with or not. Can somebody in the house help me with the definition of a FRIEND.

Well that's one question me thinks we should all answer.

Well, i won't lie and say i have never worn anything that belongs to my friend. I have one time or the other worn something that belongs to my friend. I just don't do it like alot or like something that's part of me. I only wear what belongs to my friends when im in their house, and don't have my own thing with me. But what im asking is that, do U share everything with friends.

nope, not at all.

I'd probablly share my clothes with you guys.

sure why not, that is the fun of staying together. But i am not saying i will share everything, there are some things i won't be able to share with her.

Well, it all depends on who the friend is and how close to the person, even your siblings.....and how open you are when growing up.

I have shared before, but only with my only brother, and my closest pal..if anybody else wears my stuff, then bye to that apparel.

I share with those two cuz they are more like me..if u'all get the jist.

sharing stuff is the most wrong thing you could ever do with anyone. for example clothes, say you have this skanky dress and your room mate wants to borrow it for clubbin, okay, your room mate is a size bigger than you. you say yes she brings it back after clubbin. a week later she want's to borrow your most expensive shoes you've ever had and it goes missin. now think about it, it would be your fault by letting her borrow it in the first place. by letting her your dress she thinks she can take anything from you without permission. . next thing you know you don't have anything left.

jen, it all depends on the friend not just any kind friend . you know what am saying.

@hot-angel
...But what im asking is that, do U share everything with friends.
Are u trying to chage the topic?

yeah, if we wear the same size.

dagaro:

@hot-angel
...But what im asking is that, do U share everything with friends.
Are u trying to chage the topic?

I made the topic hunnie.. why would i change it?

Listen, we r all guilty at one point or the other, as in when we wear our friend's stuff because of some 'conditions'. I'm not going to say i haven't worn anything that belongs to my friend before..cos that'll just be a big fat lie.

It's a bad idea to be sharing things like that with someone, buy you own and you will be free

@hot-angel
Chapter closed.
Thanks.

I could share stuffs like my shoes if they fit, i don't mind....but as for clothes, i don't even think abt sharing cos amongst all my friends, i'm d smallest(as in size)..but i don't have any problem with them sharing(if they can fit ). as per makeup n stuff, i can't share it just cos it's expensive n i would luv you to get ur own( ), face powder(white one), i can n all dat simple stuff. Underwears are a major no-no, i don't care if u're my blood sister.....jewelries, it depends..i could share that too.