smiles on ma face my dear i wish u d best.may ur hrt desires b met

eleojo23:
Some guy on this thread thinks it's unlike a 'black man' to write something like this. He thinks it shows weakness. Well, that's his philosophy and a warped one at that. I intentionally wrote this to 'upset' people like him. A real man is not afraid of showing and expressing his feelings.

Someone ( Yangki Christine) wrote this somewhere and I wish to repeat them here. Every person is born with qualities of the opposite energy (masculine AND feminine) within him or her— and not simply in the biological sense, but also in the psychosexual sense of attitudes, feelings, dreams and desires.
Men because of their biological make up express more of the masculine energy and women because of their biological make up express more of their feminine energies.

If a man or woman is well adjusted and harmoniously balanced, the feminine traits and the masculine traits are both expressed. To say one is a “real” man or woman would be to say one is a “real” human being with a good balance of both masculine and feminine energies.

When a man has his masculine energy well developed he can afford to express his feminine energy without fear, timidity or feeling a threat to his masculinity — which is already strong and developed.

When a man’s masculinity is not well developed and strong, he’ll tend to suppress his feminine side (i.e. being sensitive, nurturing etc) because he is already insecure about his masculinity. He’ll tend to express a more “macho” image to try to cover up his insecurity about his masculinity.

My Man, you aren't obliged to give out detailed explanation to any one. I love you for this #no_homo...

Dear future kids, una mama dey dull me, make she comot for where she hide na, I don tire to dey find her...

Samabu07:


My Man, you aren't obliged to give out detailed explanation to any one. I love you for this #no_homo...

Dear future kids, una mama dey dull me, make she comot for where she hide na, I don tire to dey find her...

haha... U look like a comedian!

Keep searching...

This letter is long though, I hope your future wife will be patient enough to finish it.

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SWEAT TOO MUCH THESE DAYS? Then we need to talk.
sweatfree team.

Nice words from a real man aspiring to get his missing rib..keep it on dear. Make sure u fulfil all your promises when u guyz meet. Haters ll always hate dey don't ve wht it takes to be a real man, most of them ar control freak. U have a fan

Sweetheart,where have you been all this while?*draws his ears and knocks him on the head* you had me waiting all this while ehn?! Infact just put tht ring right now on my finger before I change my mind,loool!
I love this!

Lol, the only things I am very certain men dream about is: fancy cars to drive, beautiful mansion to build, and businesses to own not how their future wife will be. The last thing on a man's dream is how his future wife will be; only jobless, broke and lonely guys think about a woman they haven't met! Men even fantasize more about dating super-gorgeous ladies more than they think about marriage or wife.

Like SirShymex rightfully said, women are more inclined to romantic and unrealistic life fantasies than men; men live by reality while women live by emotional fantasies and daydream...

I repeat: the only thing all men fantasize is fancy cars and money, nothing else. Any guy telling u otherwise is a liar or he's broke and unemployed and also lonely!!

No guy that's getting enough money and female attention will have time to start daydreaming about how his future wife will be...he can only come across ladies he admire and feel like taking them home, ladies stop being deceived by imaginary write-ups and go face reality.

And which girl self are u dreaming about- the girlfriend to one bad guy or the ex to one club addict Guy pls wake up from that daydream and go out there and hustle for a better future first!!!

No be only future wife, na future concubines

Meanwhile, some of the females hailing your daydreaming write-up are typing from their boyfriend's bed o...some are even with their 5th, 10th boyfriends and hailing u the real man, kai...women wicked

Delusional poster.

couldn't read them all...may God grant you your hrt desires @op.hapi sun all

milkytea:
Honestly, I haven't yet read your letter but anyone who takes out the time to write a letter to just anyone these days - has my full respect.

It's half past midnight where I am so perhaps if I have time in the morning I will read the OP and give a comprehensive review, you certainly deserve that much.

You seem like a sweet and intelligent man, @eleojo23. Please do not allow the ignorant & emotionally bankrupt teens and man-children on this thread to muddle your perspective on love and relationships - you're on the right path.

Well said Ma'am. Some men are bitter cos they've sown poisonous fruit which they are reaping the fruit in their unfulfilled lives and relationships. We must encourage the few good men left like eleojo.

eleojo23:
This is becoming funny to me. You're so quick at making conclusions. You think I've not got my priorities right? All I see here is you trying hard to force your ideology down my throat (with little success anyway). I take pleasure in writing down my thoughts and as for the bolded part of your statement, I'm already on it.. I have a reason for posting this here. Check my other topics and you'll see that I rarely talk on things like this.

guy go find work...... All dis one wey u dey post if u no get money... Nobody go answer... I hope u know that one abi

Nice write up @OP. and dont forget to always put God first

Awwwwwh..Cute waai. Why do I tink tha tis letter is mine?? Lol #JazKidding

avuekwe:


Well said Ma'am. Some men are bitter cos they've sown poisonous fruit which they are reaping the fruit in their unfulfilled lives and relationships. We must encourage the few good men left like eleojo.

which do u prefer a broke guy writing sweet words to u, or some loaded guy that gives u all u want.... Women eh una get serious P wahali

Matthewbriggs:
Be prepared for a reality that by chance maybe different for your fantasy


As you dream and fantazize never forget to be prepared for fire.

Life ain't fare.

#MathewBriggs

I know. Life doesn't go on a straight line and things don't always work out the way we expect them to. I'm not looking forward to having a perfect woman or marriage. I'm however looking forward to a marriage that will thrive despite the odds.
Thanks for dropping by.

DailyNews:
Lol, the only things I am very certain men dream about is: fancy cars to drive, beautiful mansion to build, and businesses to own not how their future wife will be. The last thing on a man's dream is how his future wife will be; only jobless, broke and lonely guys think about a woman they haven't met! Men even fantasize more about dating super-gorgeous ladies more than they think about marriage or wife.

Like SirShymex rightfully said, women are more inclined to romantic and unrealistic life fantasies than men; men live by reality while women live by emotional fantasies and daydream...

I repeat: the only thing all men fantasize is fancy cars and money, nothing else. Any guy telling u otherwise is a liar or he's broke and unemployed and also lonely!!

No guy that's getting enough money and female attention will have time to start daydreaming about how his future wife will be...he can only come across ladies he admire and feel like taking them home, ladies stop being deceived by imaginary write-ups and go face reality.

And which girl self are u dreaming about- the girlfriend to one bad guy or the ex to one club addict Guy pls wake up from that daydream and go out there and hustle for a better future first!!!

No be only future wife, na future concubines

Meanwhile, some of the females hailing your daydreaming write-up are typing from their boyfriend's bed o...some are even with their 5th, 10th boyfriends and hailing u the real man, kai...women wicked

brodally me and God don join hand bless you for this one abeg, d guy need this kind words

OnyeEgo1:


guy go find work...... All dis one wey u dey post if u no get money... Nobody go answer... I hope u know that one abi

Coming from onye ego (person of money). You are quick to generalize. I'm broke? How did you make that deduction?

Good luck to your future wife.
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eleojo23:

Coming from onye ego (person of money). You are quick to generalize. I'm broke? How did you make that deduction?

i didn't say u are broke, all am saying is change that dream of urs its not progressive, dream more better thing like making more money if u are already in the process.... When u make more money ur imaginary wife becomes real sir, my humble submission.

OnyeEgo1:


i didn't say u are broke, all am saying is change that dream of urs its not progressive, dream more better thing like making more money if u are already in the process.... When u make more money ur imaginary wife becomes real sir, my humble submission.

This doesn't stop me from making money. Should the thought of making money stop one from thinking about other things? Our brains have enough room to multi-task and think into the future. Don't you think so, nwanne?

op i know you probably been dreaming of that day since you turned five playing wedding ceremonies with them dolls and barbies but maybe your dreams just came true.coolmoon has being doing same for you ever since her conception Ha!

edozie04:
Dy dere dy write letter while another guy is shining her congo

When guys say stuffs like "im not looking for a virgin" what they are actually saying is "i don't have any hope of finding a virgin"

Most of us have given up the hope of finding a virgin so lets manage the use and dump we see. Afterall someone else will marry your own use and dump.

I will advice men to just start praying to see a fairly used lady because many ladies have been terribly used.

The bottom line is that success will bring you your heart desires concerning marital issues. I agree with the OP on some things and disagree on couple things. Women all over the world wants their future spouse to be successful or at least have a bright future ahead of them. That's what a guy should aspire to be.

OnyeEgo1:


which do u prefer a broke guy writing sweet words to u, or some loaded guy that gives u all u want.... Women eh una get serious P wahali

That is not the subject matter on hand. The OP represents the 'few good men' who are an endangered specie. We must protect them from men who think like you so they don't go into extinction.

marriage is not a do or die affairs.

udysweet:

Sweetheart,where have you been all this while?*draws his ears and knocks him on the head* you had me waiting all this while ehn?! Infact just put tht ring right now on my finger before I change my mind,loool!
I love this!

I really need a desperado because im fed up with this wooing stufff.

A time will come when a man does not even need a date but a wife.

avuekwe:


That is not the subject matter on hand. The OP represents the 'few good men' who are an endangered specie. We must protect them from men who think like you so they don't go into extinction.

Can you do parlour wedding while you suspend the big time wedding ceremony till he is financialy ready for that?

Good essay.

In reality, you will need to work to make her be most of those wishes. You also need to pray for God to give her listening ears and the ability to accept your teaching.

If things don't happen the way you wish, please do not be frustrated with life. Get married anyway and make adjustments to still enjoy life to the fullest.

Some wishes don't come to pass especially with future partners/marriages. Sometimes there should be sacrifices on both sides to get going.

All the best. Wish your dream come to pass OP

eleojo23:
[/b]I promise that as long as I'm in my right mind[b], I shall love, cherish and respect you.

Eleojo.

Isn't that a conditional love you are professing
What qualifies as "being in your right mind" if I may ask @OP

edozie04:
Dy dere dy write letter while another guy is shining her congo

lwkmd!

Tomjazzy2:
Isn't that a conditional love you are professing
What qualifies as "being in your right mind" if I may ask @OP

When he is high on alcohol. ...then he is not in his right mind.

but seriously elejo it arnt cool writting these fantasies for a man.it doesnt mean you are an insecure male but there is a reason girls want barbies and boys love toy guns.it isnt weakness but certain strenght in the demands of their sexes.except you are baiting a dame.trust me girls there is no lenght a man wont go.we know how these things freak you.