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Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by dammywapes(m): 3:49pm On Jun 24, 2015
Did you know that the original word for wife in Yoruba language is AYA and not IYAWO? Thought the latter is quite commonly used nowadays than the former.

I will take you through the mythical narration of how the term Iyawo came about:



Wura who was at the phase of choosing a spouse was faced with the task of selecting the most suitable one for herself. She was the first child and daughter of the King of Iwo (A Yoruba town). Yoruba deities like Sango, Ogun, and other known male deities went to Iwo to seek her hand in marriage. Wura mistreated them all. She was very rude and uncouth. She meted the worst behaviour one can think of unto all her suitors. Everyone of them failed to accomplish the prospect of marrying her because they could not withstand her behaviour, so they abandoned their mission on their very first day. That was how repulsive Wura was to them, regardless of her remarkable ad unique beauty!


However, when it was Orunmila’s turn, he sought wisdom from Olodumare (Almighty God) through Ifa divination before he set out for Iwo. He was duly informed that no matter

the treatment that Wura might subject him to, he must not react accordingly, he should have patience, perseverance and lots of endurance. He was highly warned to expect humiliation from Wura but must not be provoked.


When Orunmila got to Iwo, Wura looked at him scornfully, she did not welcome him, but hissed at him, and called Orunmila all sorts of names. She did not even offer Orunmila any food or entertained him as was the customary ethics to a visitor, but Orunmila ignored her attitudes throughout the first day, the second day etc, until about the seventh day.

To worsen the indignation, Wura took Orunmila’s Opon-Ifa [divination board] and used it as firewood, she also took Orunmila’s Pouch [Apo Ominijekun] from him. This angered Orunmila greatly but he still succeeded to conduct himself aright. He refused to react to her humiliations haven been warned of the consequences of not heeding advice.


At last the King intervened, haven noticed that Orunmila was humble and thoroughly well behaved despite all the odds.

Orunmila’s behaviour gave him the assurance that he would take good care of his daughter Wura if she were to become his wife. Meanwhile unknowingly, Wura’s repugnant behaviour had been a test for all the prospective suitors.

The King summoned Orunmila and handed Wura over to him as his wife. He also divided his property into two and gave Orunmila one half. Orunmila thus became rich and had Wura for his wife.

Upon Orunmila’s arrival back home, his people welcomed him enthusiastically for his accomplished task, they asked for details of how his new wife was so beautiful, and yet perfectly behaved. His answer was direct: “Iya-ti-mo-je-ni-Iwo ni un” (she is the result of my indignation at Iwo town).

These words in syllables “Iya-ti-mo-je-ni Iwo” became known as Iya-Iwo, which is now corrupted to ‘Iyawo’.


Is this post out of place?

No, not at all!


It is narrated as a synergy of history and literature, forged to educate and inspire philosophically – It is simply an expression of ENDURANCE!

It also projects an inadvertent reward, from PATIENCE and HUMILITY!

Morals: In all situations, be at your best self! Do not be ruffled, but resist being made to act or respond out of character, no matter the odds. Just be yourself with coolness and calmness (easier said than done).

Do these, and you’re CLARIFIED, as a Spiritual being
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Doughyeenbae(f): 3:52pm On Jun 24, 2015
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Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Doughyeenbae(f): 3:53pm On Jun 24, 2015
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Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jun 24, 2015
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Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jun 24, 2015
If this is not plagiarism, buttress your epistle with direct source.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jun 24, 2015
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Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by dammywapes(m): 4:10pm On Jun 24, 2015
tunnamania11:
If this is not plagiarism, buttress your epistle with direct source.
I never claim it's mine. found it meaningful and wish to share it.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 4:16pm On Jun 24, 2015
AYA .... WIFE
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 4:18pm On Jun 24, 2015
This is a repeat topic and I addressed this issue in the other thread.

Iyawo refers to new wife, or bride and also means wife in a general context.




Iyawo and aya are the same context as bride and wife in english, you are not saying anything new, @ op.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 4:23pm On Jun 24, 2015
tpiadotcom:
This is a repeat topic and I addressed this issue in the other thread.

Iyawo refers to new wife, or bride and also means wife in a general context.
Iyawo and aya are the same context as bride and wife in english, you are not saying anything new, @ op.

I think AYA should be more original, while Iyawo should be a more recent innovation from the Oyos..
I say this because if you take a look at the North Eastern & South Eastern (Older) Yoruba dialects, as well as Igala and Itsekiri, Wife is known only by that one word (AYA).
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by pass111(m): 4:24pm On Jun 24, 2015
am sticking with IYAWO
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by princefunmmy(m): 4:26pm On Jun 24, 2015
Hmmmmm. Se looto ni?
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 4:36pm On Jun 24, 2015
scholes0:


I think AYA should be more original, while Iyawo should be a more recent innovation from the Oyos..
I say this because if you take a look at the North Eastern & South Eastern (Older) Yoruba dialects, as well as Igala and Itsekiri, Wife is known only by that one word (AYA).

Aya is the familiar term while Iyawo is more formal since the bride is still relatively new. It ( iyawo) is also used to distinguish a newly married wife.

Iyawo is used in all Yoruba dialects, its not uncommon.

Aya and Iyawo are not that unsimilar. Iya means mother and is also a female usage.

Some aspects of traditional religion refer to a priest initiate as iyawo, this may also have led to further clarifications or alternate words for the term.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by jossey94(m): 4:38pm On Jun 24, 2015
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Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 4:41pm On Jun 24, 2015
tpiadotcom:


Aya is the familiar term while Iyawo is more formal since the bride is still relatively new. Its also used to distinguish a newly married wife.

Iyawo is used in all Yoruba dialects, its not uncommon.

Aya and Iyawo are not that unsimilar. Iya means mother and is also a female term.

Some aspects of traditional religion refer to a priest initiate as iyawo, this may also have led to further clarifications or alternate words for the term.

Do you know not every Yoruba dialect even uses Iya? (Some say: Eye, Yeye, Uya etc)
In some Yoruba dialects, particularly the Easterly ones, it is not uncommon for U to replace I at the beginning of words..... ULE, USE, ULU, UJO etc...... This would mean the "Iyawo" hypothesis is still not very strong.... not when you are taking all Yorubas in their entirity into consideration.
The Iyawo word in priesthood may be the contraption of two different words "IYA" and "AWO" mother of divination, which due to the "aranmo and Isunki- contraction of words ending in a vowel with another begining in another vowel) becomes IYAWO
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 24, 2015
dammywapes:
I never claim it's mine. found it meaningful and wish to share it.

Okay sir, but don't u think that's mythical?
I have watched hundreds of Yoruba(village/ historical) movies and one thing I learnt is that wife has always been called AYA not iyawo.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jun 24, 2015
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Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 4:48pm On Jun 24, 2015
scholes0:


Do you know not every Yoruba dialect even uses Iya? (Some say: Eye, Yeye, Uya etc)
In some Yoruba dialects, particularly the Easterly ones, it is not uncommon for U to replace I at the beginning of words..... ULE, USE, ULU, UJO etc...... This would mean the "Iyawo" hypothesis is still not very strong.... not when you are taking all Yorubas in their entirity into consideration.
The Iyawo word in priesthood may be the contraption of two different words "IYA" and "AWO" mother of divination, which due to the "aranmo and Isunki- contraction of words ending in a vowel with another begining in another vowel) becomes IYAWO



Every language has more than one word for various phenomena.

Iya has several derivatives, likewise iyawo/aya.

Besides, yoruba is a tonal language and one word can commonly mean several things.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 4:52pm On Jun 24, 2015
tpiadotcom:

Every language has more than one word for various phenomena.
Iya has several derivatives, likewise iyawo/aya.
Besides, yoruba is a tonal language and one word an commonly mean several things.
Iya for example, can also mean poverty, split, draw, etc.

Bro, I am telling You that AYA is much older term than Iyawo..... Iyawo is a recent dialectal innovation for Wife, that is now popular.
I gave you the proof, which you still haven't discussed.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 4:55pm On Jun 24, 2015
scholes0:


Bro, I am telling You that AYA is much older term than Iyawo..... Iyawo is a recent dialectal innovation for Wife, that is now popular.
I gave you the proof, which you still haven't discussed.


You wish aya to be the older term is what you mean.

How can iyawo be a recent term if its used in traditional religion to mean priest initiate?

Its also used to refer to wife in edoid languages as well
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by ksbusari(m): 5:03pm On Jun 24, 2015
I stick with IYAWO 'cos i once heard dat d Use of 'AYA' should nt be encouraged cos' 'AYA' as d name sounds in Yoruba language finds her way out of d marriage when marriage is nt favourable better said in Yoruba (AYA ma n ya ni igba Isoro). Another meanin of IYAWO is in Yoruba language( E ya wa wo) in English (branch and come take a look).
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 5:06pm On Jun 24, 2015
tpiadotcom:

You wish aya to be the older term is what you mean.
How can iyawo be a recent term if its used in traditional religion to mean priest initiate?

So, in short you are confirming my assertions?
Alright, before Ogun from Ire Ekiti, or Sango, son of the Nupe woman, King of Oyo, Or Esu from Western Ekiti, all died.... You mean the Iyawo term didn't exist?
let me tell You, Yoruba traditional religion is old, but some of it's concepts are newer, and aren't even half as old as the divergence of the different Yoruba dialects, and the various Yoruboid languages.... AYA exists in Igala and Itsekiri as well as Yoruba Central, Iyawo does not. IYAWO exists only in certain Yoruba lects, and not some others... And you are telling me Iyawo is older than Aya because of traditional Yoruba religion, which adds new elements every time....... Okay Continuuu
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 5:18pm On Jun 24, 2015
ksbusari:
I stick with IYAWO 'cos i once heard dat d Use of 'AYA' should nt be encouraged cos' 'AYA' as d name sounds in Yoruba language finds her way out of d marriage when marriage is nt favourable better said in Yoruba (AYA ma n ya ni igba Isoro). Another meanin of IYAWO is in Yoruba language( E ya wa wo) in English (branch and come take a look).

Okay you know that in Yoruba customs, the Younger wife is called Iyawo, while the Elder one is called Iyale, right? Both were formulated by contracting two words together.
Say for example, If you were discussing with your best friend about your two wives, at home- pls, how do you describe both ur wives to your friend? NOTE: The younger wife is already Iyawo.

Of course you would call them AYA mi. .... not Iyawo mi.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by dammywapes(m): 5:24pm On Jun 24, 2015
tunnamania11:


Okay sir, but don't u think that's mythical?
I have watched hundreds of Yoruba(village/ historical) movies and one thing I learnt is that wife has always been called AYA not iyawo.
To me , it's just used to educate like tortoise stories.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 5:35pm On Jun 24, 2015
scholes0:


So, in short you are confirming my assertions?
Alright, before Ogun from Ire Ekiti, or Sango, son of the Nupe woman, King of Oyo, Or Esu from Western Ekiti, all died.... You mean the Iyawo term didn't exist?
let me tell You, Yoruba traditional religion is old, but some of it's concepts are newer, and aren't even half as old as the divergence of the different Yoruba dialects, and the various Yoruboid languages.... AYA exists in Igala and Itsekiri as well as Yoruba Central, Iyawo does not. IYAWO exists only in certain Yoruba lects, and not some others... And you are telling me Iyawo is older than Aya because of traditional Yoruba religion, which adds new elements every time....... Okay Continuuu

Are you Igala or Itsekiri? Not sure why you keep mentioning them.


Iyawo is used in Edoid languages and also Igbo (i think) to refer to new wife.


Aya and Iyawo are two terms for the same phenomenon, namely a wife.

One is wife, the other means bride, can you find out which of the English terms preceded the other and then get back to us here?

Igala has some yoruboid words, that is a well known fact.

And, your assertions are wrong, that's what I'm trying to tell you.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 5:40pm On Jun 24, 2015
Other meanings of iya include to draw, to be amazed, deliverance ( iyanu), etc.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 5:42pm On Jun 24, 2015
tpiadotcom:


Are you Igala or Itsekiri? Not sure why you keep mentioning them.
Iyawo is used in Edoid languages and also Igbo (i think) to refer to new wife.
Aya and Iyawo are two terms for the same phenomenon, namely a wife.
One is wife, the other means bride, can you find out which one preceded the other and then get back to us here?
Igala has some yoruboid words, that is a well known fact.
And, your assertions are wrong, that's what I'm trying to tell you.

I am mentioning them because They are languages with heavy elements of the Old Proto-Yoruba language.... They therefore help shed more light on which of the two terms (Aya & Iyawo) is more Original / Older... If you don't understand that, then maybe you aren't as versed as you sound.
Now, you say one is Wife and the other one is Bride lol, when we are just discussing Wife here...... Please, which one is wife and which one is Bride?
This matter seems to be drawing to a close already.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by tpiadotcom: 5:45pm On Jun 24, 2015
Find out which of these is an older word: bride, wife.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 8:03pm On Jun 24, 2015
tpiadotcom:
Find out which of these is an older word: bride, wife.

Wife and Bride are NOT exactly mean the same thing....
maybe you should get that right first.

This topic is talking about WIFE, not a newly wed (Bride)
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by ksbusari(m): 9:41pm On Jun 24, 2015
scholes0:


Okay you know that in Yoruba customs, the Younger wife is called Iyawo, while the Elder one is called Iyale, right? Both were formulated by contracting two words together.
Say for example, If you were discussing with your best friend about your two wives, at home- pls, how do you describe both ur wives to your friend? NOTE: The younger wife is already Iyawo.

Of course you would call them AYA mi. .... not Iyawo mi.
by sayin AYA mi, it could mean One a wife. Referin to more than one wife is simply AWON AYA mi or AWON IYAWO mi. I agree to ur fact that yoruba refer to new wife as IYAWO and d old as IYALE. Yoruba language is Ambiguous bt is d easiest to understand.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by scholes0(m): 10:17pm On Jun 24, 2015
ksbusari:
by sayin AYA mi, it could mean One a wife. Referin to more than one wife is simply AWON AYA mi or AWON IYAWO mi. I agree to ur fact that yoruba refer to new wife as IYAWO and d old as IYALE. Yoruba language is Ambiguous bt is d easiest to understand.

OKO kan ati AYA kan, titi iku yoo fi ya won.
A o ki n wipe, Oko kan ati Iyawo kan, titi iku yoo ya won.

Ayaba (Aya Oba) tabi Olori ni a maa n pe eni ti Oba ba fe si afin re.
Re: Do You Know The Original Word For Wife In Yoruba Language ? by ksbusari(m): 7:06am On Jun 25, 2015
scholes0:


OKO kan ati AYA kan, titi iku yoo fi ya won.
A o ki n wipe, Oko kan ati Iyawo kan, titi iku yoo ya won.

Ayaba (Aya Oba) tabi Olori ni a maa n pe eni ti Oba ba fe si afin re.
i guess u studied Yoruba in Schl

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