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Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:23pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr: bro, your home was already broken/destroyed the minute you were cheating on your wife, duh! you are just wasting time by fooling yourself thinking you can fix this. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Speakdatruth: 8:25pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr:No way! The baby must answer your name. You will never heal from the torment if you agree to that. Be careful this is not about now but the future. There's nothing wrong in coparenting. Just be ready to do your part in your little way and the child must bear your name. If it's too early for your wife to know and if you've observed your wife's nature and you think she can't handle it for now, hold it. But make sure she's aware soon. Because whether now or not, she will still know. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Deckline(m): 8:25pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Tales my grandmother told me. This is purely a make-up story. Believe at your own peril. Btw- If you are asking for advice,nairaland is definately not a forum you'd get one. We only have savages! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Fuadeiza(m): 8:25pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Lol... You read too much and as such "between the lines" ... Kaaaiii. I didn't take note. Now to the topic . The best way to make everything better for yourself and everyone in my opinion is to. Tell your wife about it(The way you put it down would mAtter alot ) Don't abort the baby,( as doing such can create another problem, things can get complicated ,she could die, you'd become an accomplice to murder of a foetus) When you've done all this, your conscience would be free, and you'd have to deal with the situation that would arise from it as a man..... Amicably... Your marriage might be in jeopardy, but if you'll love yourselves that much... It should pass... 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Speakdatruth: 8:26pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:Broken I agree, but why thinking fixing isn't possible. He's not fooling himself. Shit happens and he's got to carry the cross. These things aren't new. There's diplomacy for every marital ish and don't make it worse than it looks bruh. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by highqueen(f): 8:30pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
this is how your pricks will be moving from one skirt to another. no shame atall. married man for that,carry your cross abeg. I just pity the innocent wife you left at home,only for you to be misbehaving on social media. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Sunkyphil(m): 8:30pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr:how much is cd in the market U should av tot of it b4 going all the way.responsibility calling 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by AngelicBeing: 8:31pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
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Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Andracarles: 8:34pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr: Yo your home was "breaking" when you decided to ask another lady out even though you had a wife. This is medicine after death. Bro, may karma give you your payment full time. You dont deserve sympathy 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:36pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Speakdatruth: the only thing that needs fixing is HIMSELF/HIS HEAD, because thats the only thing that is broken here. sadly, this man instead of acting RIGHT is coming to NL asking for ways to trick his way around this pregnancy, instead of finally DOING WHATS RIGHT to solve a very simple issue (aka confess to your wife and find a way together as a family). its men that want to make a mockery out of marriage, thinking they can continue cheating LIFE (and everyone in it), that are the problem here. if you cant control the tiger in your pant, then be HONEST with the person you seemingly love and let your wife know from the get go about it so that SHE can decide if she wants to be with a cheating demon in her life... and if she does, then let them both work together on this issue. then when he infects his unknowing wife of whatever deadly diseases he is spreading, we will come here and blame poverty or what else. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by eddyghali(m): 8:38pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
please how much is the N50 naira condom again |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:39pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Speakdatruth:Thanks for your time, #respect |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
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Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:42pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Deckline:Not a make up story, you can check my previous post when I asked on how I can break up with her |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by otherway: 8:45pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr: New wife loading. Congrats
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Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by princeakinola1(m): 8:47pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
;Dguy you are to be blame for this big mess you put your self into,friend with lady thus not mean you should have sex with her,I have many girls and lady's as friends,am happily married, please you have no options than to take her as second wife,your useless play cause you life mess,congratulations bro tell me the naming venue so that I can join you in celebrating ;Dguy you are to be blame for this big mess you put your self into,friend with lady thus not mean you should have sex with her,I have many girls and lady's as friends,am happily married, please you have no options than to take her as second wife,your useless play cause you life mess,congratulations bro tell me the naming venue so that I can join you in celebrating 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Riele(f): 8:49pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr:Without having a breaking home? Haaa.. Oga I pity you 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Omotaday(m): 8:52pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
You better convince her to abort it. I am not even sure you are the owner of the pregnancy. |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:52pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
A guy |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by mattonnairaland: 9:13pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr:The child should answer your name and you should let your wife know |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Skengman: 9:24pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Guyo!! Like my guy would say, u surely have fast swimmers . Congratulations!! Anyway whatever advice u get here today be sure to juxtapose it with the disposition of your wife and the side chic. Easy je je, we all make mistakes. |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Joystark(f): 9:24pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by nairaman66(m): 9:33pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Any girl who tells you she was raped at a tender age, just pack your bags and leave immediately!! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by IamPlato(m): 9:34pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
highqueen:... Nairaland Girls No Get Respect For Man Dick Again o... Even Preshy Sef de Shout "Prick" |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Ladydelight: 9:37pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
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Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Ladydelight: 9:43pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Hahahahahaha as in ehn sounds like all these rubbish pretending attention seeking whores |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Ladydelight: 9:50pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
[quote author=AngelicBeing post=70280204] >: Hahahahaha 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Seunkings02(m): 10:26pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Heavyjew:Did you just say Nairalanders? not even some? Why are you so daft to think you can just say whatever you like here to who you know and who you don't know? Why can't just give you shit_ of advice. Beautiful Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 10:36pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr: oh I love this, I hate cheats, if you abort that child, even God will be super angry at You. ACCEPT UR RESPONSIBILITIES. P.S congratulations on the new baby In fact I hope you get twins or triplets that one go sweet me die, pls update us woh |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by TonyBankz(m): 11:42pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
SIMPLE... JUST MAKE UR SECOND WIFE.. CHIKINAH |
Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by highqueen(f): 12:30am On Aug 15, 2018 |
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