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Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by Wallie(m): 9:37pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Different occasion calls for different types of restaurant. There are times that you want to be pampered or enjoy the good life, and there are other times that you just want to throw down and only a buka will do. On a first date, you guys are still trying to impress each other and such a restaurant shows that your suitor has good taste, albeit an expensive one. More than likely, subsequent dates will be at a more regular restaurant except on special occasions. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by barryj1: 9:38pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by mickey339(m): 9:42pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Okija_juju: Omo!! |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by muffins99(f): 9:42pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Interesting topic...I've actually had a similar experience and I can honestly say it wasn't the best date I've ever been on. It was difficult to relax as I desperately tried to remember the relevant etiquette rules ( the right cutlery to use per course if you've got a set of 3 fork, spoon and knife; 2 wineglasses, etc). I don't eat much so portion size wasn't an issue... Anyway, as etiquette demanded, I offered to pay for my half of the bill but he refused so I said, the next one's on me -if you still want to ''hang out''. Obviously during the meal, we'd discussed what type of food we like and where we go to eat out. I slyly told him I prefered a few cheap(er) restaurants. So ofcourse when I offered to pay next time, I knew very well that it'll be in a place that I could afford(student no get plenty money). This is exactly what happened and by the end of the second date, I was no worse off than if I'd paid half on a cheaper first date and half again at the second date. And now we've more or less settled into a 'routine' if you take me out, you pay; if I take him out, I pay (though he usually ends up paying- because, as he says, 'he's the man and should be the provider'. @Ilekeidi-Good luck to your 'friend' 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by inspirenet: 9:48pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
2buff: Y'all know this ish is actually MORE expensive than normal food right? |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by PhysicsQED(m): 9:48pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
denzel2009: boom chicka wow wow |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by StellaBella(f): 9:49pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
~Royal~:Chai papi royal, Howabout kandi U e romance, e kiss and even e do am Now you are moving on Or it is a game on kandi Just poke nosing |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by barryj1: 9:53pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by vodkat: 9:55pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Hungry girl! |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
LOL @ Naija men vexing. . . . as if dem get money to take chics to 5***** restaurants |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by andyanders: 10:03pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
if a man take me go, I go chop ya money |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by tpia5: 10:07pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
if i had the money (i dont), i could visit those kinds of restaurants once in a while sha. Doesnt matter if its alone or with someone. if you watch the food channel on tv, its obvious many of these chefs put a lot of effort and thought into preparing the dishes. though some of the tastes are acquired ones however. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by AK481(m): 10:08pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Where is my post? Where is my post? |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:08pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
^^Iya na date op talk na! Go alone ke? |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by AK481(m): 10:08pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Where is my earlier post? Where is my post? |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by ddippset(m): 10:12pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
if he takes you to a five star restaurant , he prolly take you to a five star hotel afterwards. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:13pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
ddippset: if he takes you to a five star restaurant , he prolly take you to a five star hotel afterwards.Really? |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by kinkie(f): 10:23pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
2buff: Y'all know this ish is actually MORE expensive than normal food right?kai! u're not man enough... |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by tpia5: 10:37pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
muffins99: Interesting topic...I've actually had a similar experience and I can honestly say it wasn't the best date I've ever been on. It was difficult to relax as I desperately tried to remember the relevant etiquette rules ( the right cutlery to use per course if you've got a set of 3 fork, spoon and knife; 2 wineglasses, etc). I don't eat much so portion size wasn't an issue... Anyway, as etiquette demanded, I offered to pay for my half of the bill but he refused so I said, the next one's on me -if you still want to ''hang out''. Obviously during the meal, we'd discussed what type of food we like and where we go to eat out. I slyly told him I prefered a few cheap(er) restaurants. So ofcourse when I offered to pay next time, I knew very well that it'll be in a place that I could afford(student no get plenty money). This is exactly what happened and by the end of the second date, I was no worse off than if I'd paid half on a cheaper first date and half again at the second date. And now we've more or less settled into a 'routine' if you take me out, you pay; if I take him out, I pay (though he usually ends up paying- because, as he says, 'he's the man and should be the provider'. i guess things might be awkward if one or both of you is uncomfortable and ill at ease. as per money issues, of course if the budget doesnt permit, no need to stretch the limits. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by Abbey2sam(m): 10:37pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:must the guy order for you? Or wat you tryin to tell us is they dont serve real food in 5star resturantz...not in naija i guess... |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by tpia5: 10:38pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
will only go to a place like that only if the girl WANTS to go there and SHE is ready to pay for both of us. hmm, that's another consideration. some women wont mind sha- depends on individual situations and people. also if the lady is rolling in money perhaps. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by muffins99(f): 10:48pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
tpia@: You're quite right... and the problem occurs when his budget and yours do not match cos you know how Nijas like one-upmanship and showing off even when we can't afford it! |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by tpia5: 11:06pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
^true that, for the most part. but a lot of naijas are very frugal though, and some wouldnt spend at all even if they could afford to. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by fankasibe: 11:32pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
I will collect d money from him and go eat cheap and good food in 'iya yusuf' resturant. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by antitpiah: 11:41pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
tpia@: Tpia, we dont care about your inner thoughts and rumination. Please keep them to yourself. They are ugly, disgusting and widely tangential to the topic on this thread. This thread is about Ileke and her fantasies. If we wanted to entertain your ramblings, we will let you know. Cant you be selfless for a second? Why you trying to take the shine off our Young and restless Ileke? why? |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by antitpiah: 11:43pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
ddippset: if he takes you to a five star restaurant , he prolly take you to a five star hotel afterwards. Maybe a super 8. Super 8 beats 5 star anyday anytime PS: Who needs a five star restaurant when you can go here: www.backpage.com. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by antitpiah: 11:46pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
muffins99: You think Naijas like to one-up each other? Wait till you see our slave masters try to outdo each other . . . |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by kandiikane(m): 11:53pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Stella_Bella: We are having issues. @Ileke, so I asked mr yoruba if he can take me to a posh restaurant where they decorate ýour food(you inspired me), see what he said. "I can take you but you won't know what to do. " 0______o see the cheek! mudafurerr. It's true sha, I was taught to eat with my hands in a big bowl on a mat together with my family members not fork and knife or which fork should be for which meal. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by peruso: 11:58pm On Aug 01, 2012 |
Okija_juju: Omo!! |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by armyofone(m): 12:12am On Aug 02, 2012 |
phew, where is the dom perignon? any caviar please show me your wallet and i'd pick the best place to dine now cheapstakes and couponers guys, move Omoge is coming |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by armyofone(m): 12:14am On Aug 02, 2012 |
looking at the menu and asking if they have discount looking at the menu and already sweating ask for nice fine wine not sweet tea Nig guys take you to 5stars? nkan be . ya bottom go suffer as you both sit long waiting for our padi to pick a meal. |
Re: Ladies, How Would You React If A Man Takes You To This Kind Of Restaurant? by kandiikane(m): 12:26am On Aug 02, 2012 |
freecocoa: Seriously who are you? I have been asking the same question. |
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