naijababe: I would take the BQ of a face me I face over living with my/his parents, my sanity is too expensive to be toyed with abeg.

Hmm, awon aunti to n nawo deeee. I feel you.

Some people here are just annoying me greatly with their post. How do u think that a couple ll be happy staying with their parents That u are futunate to have better roof over ur head does not mean the other man is not trying, that u ve a better job fetching u good money doesnot mean the man is not trying. Yes most @ times, poverty is a thing of the mind but ve u ask urself WHAT WAS THE OFFENCE OF ESAU THAT GOD LOVED JACOB RIGHT FROM THEIR MOTHER'S WOMB( GEN 25:22) No one wants to remain poor even if u were born as one pls u guys should ve this on ur minds. Do u think that a graduate is happy riding an okada( just to make ends meet) that lastma, agbero, police would not him be Do u thinking the woman hawking sechet water on the streets is happy doing it Do u think that those guys selling and risking their lifes on highway(in the name of selling in hold ups) are happy doing it Let us be realistic here and say things the way they are. Ask anybody, he or she will love to be RICH.

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GOOD POINT

AnyibestDede: Some people here are just annoying me greatly with their post. How do u think that a couple ll be happy staying with their parents That u are futunate to have better roof over ur head does not mean the other man is not trying, that u ve a better job fetching u good money doesnot mean the man is not trying. Yes most @ times, poverty is a thing of the mind but ve u ask urself WHAT WAS THE OFFENCE OF ESAU THAT GOD LOVED JACOB RIGHT FROM THEIR MOTHER'S WOMB( GEN 25:22) No one wants to remain poor even if u were born as one pls u guys should ve this on ur minds. Do u think that a graduate is happy riding an okada( just to make ends meet) that lastma, agbero, police would not him be Do u thinking the woman hawking sechet water on the streets is happy doing it Do u think that those guys selling and risking their lifes on highway(in the name of selling in hold ups) are happy doing it Let us be realistic here and say things the way they are. Ask anybody, he or she will love to be RICH.

And your point is?

If there is an option, it is better to stay away from your parents so that you two can plan your life together. It is better to suffer together, get experience and be wise than continue as babies under your parents and all the intrusions

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You are so right but how many ladies out there who are ready to suffer with a man.

It depends on what u mean by squatting.

Is it sharing the same apartment? or Sharing the same building/compound (but living in a different apartment, like BQ)? or Living in the same estate that belongs to either or the couple's parents (but living in an apartment which some blocks of flats away from the parents)?


For me, I'm against sharing any of the above with the bride's parents. But don't mind living in the same compound/estate/blocks of flats with my (groom's parents)parents with the plan to BUILD and move into MY OWN apartment as soon as possible. It all depends on understanding and respect of space & boundaries by all parties involved.

e316: It depends on what u mean by squatting.

Is it sharing the same apartment? or Sharing the same building/compound (but living in a different apartment, like BQ)? or Living in the same estate that belongs to either or the couple's parents (but living in an apartment which some blocks of flats away from the parents)?


For me, I'm against sharing any of the above with the bride's parents. But don't mind living in the same compound/estate/blocks of flats with my (groom's parents)parents with the plan to BUILD and move into MY OWN apartment as soon as possible. It all depends on understanding and respect of space & boundaries by all parties involved.

Which ever one it is, I doubt if the couples will still have their 100% privacy.

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Which ever one it is, I doubt if the couples will still have their 100% privacy.

If sacrificing some amount of the "100% privacy" would enable me to build and move into my personal house in a few months or years, then I don't mind doing just that, but within reasonable limits - with SPACE & BOUNDARY clearly defined and understood by parties involved.

e316:

If sacrificing some amount of the "100% privacy" would enable me to build and move into my personal house in a few months or years, then I don't mind doing just that, but within reasonable limits - with SPACE & BOUNDARY clearly defined and understood by parties involved.

Some people could makethose few months or years so miserable, it will feel like an endless century or eve millenniums