We already know what most ladies will do when they discover at the early stages that a guy is after them just for sex. But what will ladies do in a situation where the relationship is 3 years old and the guy has been nice, then she discovers that sex has been the only reason why he has been in the relationship? Will ladies walk out or carry on with the relationship?

U just have to give it to her when it has gotten to such an extent in order to keep the relationship going

How could a woman be in a relationship for three years and not know his true intentions? The only way for him to feign something of such nature is to immerse himself in an actual relationship with the woman, or at least be willing to deal with her, as in treating her, spending time, etc., just so that he could proceed to intimacy. I wouldn't catch myself in such a situation, but I'd be more than understanding of a woman who decides to remain in such a relationship. Three years no be beans. Just as he's working hard to have money to make her comfortable, she's putting in her own work to keep him satisfied, albeit her office na for bedroom lol.

ogugua88: How could a woman be in a relationship for three years and not know his true intentions? The only way for him to feign something of such nature is to immerse himself in an actual relationship with the woman, or at least be willing to deal with her, as in treating her, spending time, etc., just so that he could proceed to intimacy. I wouldn't catch myself in such a situation, but I'd be more than understanding of a woman who decides to remain in such a relationship. Three years no be beans. Just as he's working hard to have money to make her comfortable, she's putting in her own work to keep him satisfied, albeit her office na for bedroom lol.

ogugua88: How could a woman be in a relationship for three years and not know his true intentions? The only way for him to feign something of such nature is to immerse himself in an actual relationship with the woman, or at least be willing to deal with her, as in treating her, spending time, etc., just so that he could proceed to intimacy. I wouldn't catch myself in such a situation, but I'd be more than understanding of a woman who decides to remain in such a relationship. Three years no be beans. Just as he's working hard to have money to make her comfortable, she's putting in her own work to keep him satisfied, albeit her office na for bedroom lol.

What makes you think you can never fall into such a situation? How would you know his true intentions if it is well disguised? Are you a woman of God who sees into people's minds?

I wonder why a single lady dropped an opinion so far.

Blackteeth: What makes you think you can never fall into such a situation? How would you know his true intentions if it is well disguised? Are you a woman of God who sees into people's minds?

Well, looks aren't everything to me. I don't give out compliments and I don't let compliments that I have received faze me. I enjoy a person's character and love debating an array of topics. I can be deceptive myself, so whoever's trying to deceive me may jam wahala.

I don't want to say that a woman who falls into such is weak, but after a while, some things make themselves obvious. Like I said earlier, if a guy is treating her how a caring boyfriend should, or how she expects him to treat her, then she's not losing in the situation at all.

ogugua88:

Well, looks aren't everything to me. I don't give out compliments and I don't let compliments that I have received faze me. I enjoy a person's character and love debating an array of topics. I can be deceptive myself, so whoever's trying to deceive me may jam wahala.

I don't want to say that a woman who falls into such is weak, but after a while, some things make themselves obvious. Like I said earlier, if a guy is treating her how a caring boyfriend should, or how she expects him to treat her, then she's not losing in the situation at all.

You talk as if you can never fall into such but you are wrong. I didnt mention anything about looks or compliments. If you check the character, Someone can have a good outward character but may still not be sincere in his heart. But how would you know someones mind intentions well concealed? You can't.

Blackteeth: You talk as if you can never fall into such but you are wrong. I didnt mention anything about looks or compliments. If you check the character, Someone can have a good outward character but may still not be sincere in his heart. But how would you know someones mind intentions well concealed? You can't.

People who are deceived are often gullible folks who want something fast. I don't see myself as gullible or impatient. Looks and compliments have everything to do with it as they are needed to bed someone. Or are they not? If they weren't, then what would be the point of toasting?

No, you can never know what someone else is thinking, but, in all honesty, I don't know of any man that can go through a woman's hell all in the name of sex. He can get sex elsewhere for less headache. If three years into it, he's been doing all the bf things for sex, then that's an actual relationship. Watch "Pretty Woman" lol.

ogugua88:

People who are deceived are often gullible folks who want something fast. I don't see myself as gullible or impatient. Looks and compliments have everything to do with it as they are needed to bed someone. Or are they not? If they weren't, then what would be the point of toasting?

No, you can never know what someone else is thinking, but, in all honesty, I don't know of any man that can go through a woman's hell all in the name of sex. He can get sex elsewhere for less headache. If three years into it, he's been doing all the bf things for sex, then that's an actual relationship. Watch "Pretty Woman" lol.

I agree, no guy in his right mind will date a girl for 3years all in the name of sex.. If it were to be jst for sex it wldnt ve lasted past a year.

Best soln, d girl shud juz blow d guy, nd let d c hw it goes. 3yrs pass d 90days rule.

3 years and she is just discovering that all he wants is just sex?
The sex must be pretty fantastic for him to stay that long.
When a man's heart is not with a woman he would hardly stay that long just for the sex..... Except if the thing is out of this world and he doesn't get it often, but even then I still doubt.
Women have very sharp intuition, except if she allows her emotion to cloud her reasoning only then will she discover after 3yrs
And like we say in Warri, her eye don dey shine like police man torch.....
But honestly I doubt

well most women will marry him and carry on but the women that have anger issues will shout on him