don't trust peole just like, any thingy can happen

I'm sure she's gotten the message by now.. thanks for all the support..

I think that might cause more trouble between you and your husband.

@littlesaint
tell ur husband,so u guys can fashion out how to handle the situation.two heads are better than one

By all means tell Oga oooo!!!!

is this a sincere question? If the answer is yes then I would say there is something wrong with you if you do not know what to do. I do not believe you have the best job in the world abi?? and u have expirience on the job so what r u still waitin 4?? Until he pole drive ur behind b4 u go act?? nah real wa 4 u.....

tell ur husband before it's too late

Your husband will find out sooner or later, even if you think he will not. Better to tell him.

Wo that one easy thing now... One time i done tell my guy especially the boss ooh... its something i normally do and we always laugh about it... even when my MD makes some coments i tell him... he calls my MD my boyfriend self....

As 4 his best friend that one get as e be... its not like i dont want him to know ooh but it wld hurt him to know that his friend is after his wife.... that really hurts u know... i wld still eventually tell him but it wont be as easy as telling him about my boss.....

I have it on authority that she has actually told her husband.. She thanks all for their support.. 

Good answers but let me rephrase it.

Assuming you are the husband of the lady in question, what will you tell your wife after she has narrated the situation to you?

Will you ask her to resign from the job?
Should she confront the man and warn him never to try it again?
Will you pray with her against sexual abuse from her BOSS?
Will you go after the man's wife?
Will you pick up your Gun and shoot him?

What exactly will you tell your wife?

Olu

Tell your husband immediately. Marriage is about free flow of info, whether palatable or not.

I agree, how about he keeps thing like that from you. Sure you would not appreciate that.

Its not right for men too to keep such info from the wives. Sincerety and being sensitiveness to feelings of the other party is key to happiness in marriage

dont tell ur hussie anything o unless he's man enuff to handle it. else he could start nagging and disturbing u

I dont live in Nigeria, but.....the last time I visited, I was told that it is generally overlooked, as long as she comes home with gifts for her man (and the children)..No questions asked............that is the way it is in Abuja. Nothing is new.
lord, dont let them introduce DNA test in Nigeria, a lot of hell will break lose.

dont tell me she still hasnt made up her mind yet..

If her mind is made up, she should tell her husband quickly.

In Abuja there are people of virtues ad those without just like any other city in the World. Bringing home goodies from office is not enough to silence any right thinking partner

Yahaya, i don't know where you got your rumour from that Abuja
is full of women of easy virtues. It depends on the circle of people
you move with. I guess you can also get women of easy virtues in Kansas
City.

There are nice and respectable ladies in Abuja.

If you are a married woman, don't allow your Boss to
mess you up. Be upright and committed to your husband.

Aboki na, kaa ji.

Olu I am with you

Hi Nuru and don't mind Yahaya of Kansas City

The question was whether a wife should tell her husband of the boss's excesses and i
think she should.

Married couples should love each other to the extent of finding solutions
to common threat to their union.

A married man should stick to his wife just as a married woman should stick to her
husband. Anything outside of this is evil and disgusting.

i think u should tell ur husband because if he finds out i bet that will be the worst that will happen

tell ya husband.

let him beat tha boss up

Any update? Did you tell your Husband? Did you leave your job ?

My dear, just talk to him as mature parson, that u hv husband he should understand it and let u be, and if he refuses, then u let ur man know about it, that's all!

@topic

y should u tell ur husband?

lets look at the good side of this,

More Money
Extra Enjoyment
Possible Promotion

bad side
tormenting conscience
getting caught
crashing your marriage

remember to be or not to be thats the question?

You want to eat your cake and have it? The choice is yours. Just know that after your boss has 'toasted' you, he would 'butter' you and then 'eat' you. Just remember that man will not live by toasted bread ALONE! When he's done with you or when he discovers a 'fresher bread to toast', then nothing you would do would please him no more. May be your husband would have found out before then and you would lose on both ends Think about it.

evry woman appreciaTES A lil extra attention.bt trust me when he{ur boss} has had his way he'll fire you and hire someone prettier,its d way all men are ,wemen are like toys u get bored after a time,
if u choose not to tell ur hubby dats ur bizz afterall you married, him we wont be there at the divorce proceeding

u better tell him - and if the boss knows u have told your husband - then just get ready to loose your job - why not go for your boss - your husband never tire u?

Kia kia,go tell am now now!!!!lol

if this were to happen to me, i will tell my husband because i naturally tell him everything including advanvces from men and he handles the situation well. he doesnt get angry over the gists.
He not only trusts his wife but he also believes i can handle situatuins well.
wives please dont hide anything from your husbands,