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Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 12:46pm On Sep 10, 2012
dammytex:

OK mami,
Why I want a Mel-San? I'd still prefer her to a Mel-chol. Things will be a lot easy with her and I'm not sure I like female competition, I like to just respect and honour her for whom she is. Being a Mel, the most difficult thing about her would have to be mood swings and that I understand.

Out-think me; maybe. Out-smart me; even maybe but out-charm me; never (trust your guy naa). My Sanguine no be mumu oooo.
BBC Knowledge+Comedy Central=Perfecto. I always love humour while learning things. I remember things learnt while flexing than things learnt being serious. In fact, I hate being serious (weird right? don't worry; I know). Only God knows how I will propose. In school, I used to read my Engineering Maths textbook (Stroud 1 & 2) while strolling up and down the street.

Conscience; I guess that's a plus to my advantage.
Super organized; thank God. At last, I can find my pairs of socks well arranged somewhere.
Are you saying, Mel-sans could also be a Michelle Obama, a good political wife? Yeh pa!!!

Willing to pay any amount for a free MEL-SAN in the house please...

Waiting...



Mrs Obama aint got San in her! Lai lai. She is a combo θf mel and Choleric! No atom θf San.
Re: Temperament N Love. by malaria(f): 4:04pm On Sep 10, 2012
slimyem: i have never actually believed in these temperament thing..
Though i think i'm more of a San-Mel,I can be any of the four temperaments if i want to...
...and i'm not also a lot of some parts of those temperaments...and i do not believe anyone's temperament or mine would define our compatibility in any way!
No be lie my sis, all dis temperament stuffs some even link it with zodiac signs.I believe ppl are the way God created them. Some act with respect to enviroment and ppl they are with.
Re: Temperament N Love. by kittykat1(f): 2:32pm On Jan 13, 2013
I agree with u. I see me in her grin. ; D
spicy v:

Mrs Obama aint got San in her! Lai lai. She is a combo θf mel and Choleric! No atom θf San.
Re: Temperament N Love. by 2sexy(m): 2:49pm On Jan 13, 2013
spicy v:

Melancholy: oh sweet melancholy. Sounds to me like melody but I have read that melancholy is derived from gloomy! These people are highly sensitive, highly emotional! You say one and they have reasoned one million! Lol. They are very self conscious, perfectionist and fastidious in nature. Unlike the Choleric whose motto is, "things should be done my way or no way" the Melancholy's motto is, "things should be done the right way"! The Mels are very thoughtful people who have moments θf highs and lows. That is, they have mood swings. They have very creative minds but their insecurities and low self esteem often poses as a self limitation! Most θf the worlds greatest poets and opera singers are Mels. They are introverts, reserved, but a Mel may be mistaken to be an extrovert when they are experiencing their temporal high. They are very reliable and would hardly ever cheat in a relationship because θf their beliefs in morals. Mels are very suspicious people! They can doubt! It takes a lot to earn their trust, probably because once they do, there is no going back. They are also very vengeful! The kind who recalls the year, month, day, hour, second and the colour θf t-shirt you were wearing the day you called her dumb in public! Desperate housewives Bree is so Melancholic.
Just me... But dont like some part of this attributes. I am trying hard to change the ones I can.
Re: Temperament N Love. by kittykat1(f): 2:59pm On Jan 13, 2013
2sexy: Just me... But dont like some part of this attributes. I am trying hard to change the ones I can.

What r your bad parts?
Re: Temperament N Love. by 2sexy(m): 3:08pm On Jan 13, 2013
kitty kat:

What r your bad parts?
you wanna help?
Re: Temperament N Love. by kittykat1(f): 3:58pm On Jan 13, 2013
I am not an expert but I can try
2sexy: you wanna help?
Re: Temperament N Love. by sirwilli(m): 3:08am On Jan 14, 2013
hummm omg, is real i can see that in my love life
Re: Temperament N Love. by DeraOfobike: 4:13pm On Oct 05, 2013
I tnk am San/Mel, and a litle of Phleg.
Re: Temperament N Love. by drnoel: 4:33pm On Oct 05, 2013
When u started I thought u wanted to finish the book but u just failed to do so. Or did u omit reading the part that says most people could have as much as 2 or 3 temperaments all in one person...
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 11:07pm On Oct 05, 2013
And your point sir? Could you maybe loose the hate n sarcasm?

Also, if you were not so enveloped in your "beef", you'd have deduced from corresponding posts that it has already being explained that there is always a blend of temperaments.
Re: Temperament N Love. by Nobody: 12:31am On Oct 06, 2013
Can't a mel/phleg date or get married to another mel/phleg? Cos I see me and my g/friend having d same, though in different percentages.
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 9:20am On Oct 06, 2013
tomba: Can't a mel/phleg date or get married to another mel/phleg? Cos I see me and my g/friend having d same, though in different percentages.

Well, as discussed in one of my threads, "marry for compatibility, not love", being compatible is crucial for a successful marriage. Compatibility is about living in harmony, being agreeable with your partner.

Since you and your lady will most often think alike, it could be said that you have compatibility but I wonder if you have spark in your relationship. I mean, there may be a lack of variety and a lot of boredom because both of you are laid back.

Finally, the essence of knowing and understanding temperaments is to improve on yourself and you can choose to steer your relationship in the direction you desire, will only require more effort because of your situation. But again, your phleg nature doesn't. Like to put effort into things right?
Re: Temperament N Love. by nitrogen(m): 9:37am On Oct 06, 2013
^^^ Spicy v, the 'temperament and love' doctor!
Re: Temperament N Love. by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 06, 2013
spicy v:

Well, as discussed in one of my threads, "marry for compatibility, not love", being compatible is crucial for a successful marriage. Compatibility is about living in harmony, being agreeable with your partner.

Since you and your lady will most often think alike, it could be said that you have compatibility but I wonder if you have spark in your relationship. I mean, there may be a lack of variety and a lot of boredom because both of you are laid back.

Finally, the essence of knowing and understanding temperaments is to improve on yourself and you can choose to steer your relationship in the direction you desire, will only require more effort because of your situation. But again, your phleg nature doesn't. Like to put effort into things right?
yeah, u're very correct. I seldom put efforts into things. Really I'm a fun loving person. I create fun esp wen I'm with someone I'm very free with. Compactible, yes we are, but the reserved nature and mood swings! We have that in common a lot.
Re: Temperament N Love. by GennyOma: 12:34pm On Oct 06, 2013
am a chlo/mel/phelg......funny ryt...i could b so impossible at tyms
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 7:16pm On Oct 06, 2013
nitrogen: ^^^ Spicy v, the 'temperament and love' doctor!

Lol, the subject of temperament is just one I happen to find intriguing wink
tomba: yeah, u're very correct. I seldom put efforts into things. Really I'm a fun loving person. I create fun esp wen I'm with someone I'm very free with. Compactible, yes we are, but the reserved nature and mood swings! We have that in common a lot.

smiley
GennyOma: am a chlo/mel/phelg......funny ryt...i could b so impossible at tyms

I can imaginecheesy
Re: Temperament N Love. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 06, 2013
Phleg-mel. Always known that. My bestfriend is a Choleric. That's why we don't get along.
Re: Temperament N Love. by Tethys22: 4:29am On Dec 29, 2013
Please, i'm a sanmel who had raging hormones of the san and pessimism and fear from the Mel so i've had many "things" but I have never committed. Now I think I've found someone I'd like to commit to but I fear I may not like him as much as I think I do, plus he's a melphleg. Should I give this a shot or look for a chlor?
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2014
Hi Tethys,

I hope this is not coming too late.

The whole essence of understanding temperaments is to know thyself thoroughly and to also understand why people act the way they do. Having noted that, I believe you know your weaknesses, as well as your strengths. You ought to perfect the art of effectively managing your weaknesses to give you advantages.

In this regard, the weakness of your "Mel" nature is asking you to forfeit a present opportunity and wait for an unknown/non existent future opportunity. You are afraid of what you haven't tried. We all fear, even the seemingly courageous people fear! The difference is, we act inspite of our fears.

So I say, if this current guy is a great guy, give it a shot! Work at the relationship and give in your best! Even if it does not work out as planned, you have the fulfilment of knowing you tried and not the burden of wondering what could have been. wink
Re: Temperament N Love. by darlynlara(f): 1:22am On Jan 09, 2014
hello,happy new year guys spicy dear I didn't really like your generalization of sanguine I am one by nature I keep secrets very well and am brilliant not just cause my daddy said so my G.P also speaks same it hurts mostly cause I recently overheard someone having such misconceptions about the temperament and calling sanguines dull,I had such a horrible week and reading these post just broke me be careful what you write you don't no who's reading just my opinion thanks dear apart from that beautiful write up.
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 11:04am On Jan 09, 2014
Darlynlara, lol cheesy

I find your reaction to my post quite humorous. You seem to be a very sensitive person and your reference to the fact that you are a secretive person, you brood a lot-often playing in your mind words you perceive as negative, spoken by others. This clearly shows that your dominant temperament is MELANCHOLY! I have also noticed that a lot of people with a dominant Melancholic temperament often think they are Sanguines.

Try taking some personality tests.

Also, even if you insist you are Sanguine, you shouldn't get offended because someone stated the truth about your perceived personality which may be their own opinion. If you are really true to yourself, you would know your weaknesses, accept them and work at becoming a better person rather than being overly defensive when your weaknesses are pointed out! Besides, does my post not point out the strengths of the different personalities? Why did you choose to focus on the weaknesses alone? That is an attitude that is typical of Melancholics.

Let me also point out that my post on this subject is thoroughly enlightening, how you comprehend is entirely your prerogative.

Cheers smiley
Re: Temperament N Love. by darlynlara(f): 12:12pm On Jan 09, 2014
lmao I have taken personality test certified by a psychologist am a dominant sanguine and recessive choleric, I was just saying c'mon I had such a week ain't ma fault your topic helped me channel my anger on some points than on someone's face,as much as I admire my charmingly extroverted nature#takes a bow# I don't like people seeing playful people as unintelligent, don't judge a book by its cover(trust me I learnt that the hard way thanks to this beautifully packaged biscuit).

#flips beautifully made wig and catwalks off#


# comes back to pick the wig that fell off#
Re: Temperament N Love. by deb(m): 3:33pm On Jul 04, 2014
This is intellectual, more of what we should be discuss on this forum. Nice one OP.

If I were to consider every of the temperaments; I think I have got them all but more to San-Phleg and Chol than Mel.
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 7:21pm On Oct 22, 2014
deb:
This is intellectual, more of what we should be discuss on this forum. Nice one OP.

If I were to consider every of the temperaments; I think I have got them all but more to San-Phleg and Chol than Mel.

Thank you smiley. what a combination you got there. cheesy
Re: Temperament N Love. by Nobody: 7:31pm On Oct 22, 2014
San-phleg-mel-chol....dats my temperament....mtcheeew
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 7:35pm On Oct 22, 2014
Cutehector4u:
San-phleg-mel-chol....dats my temperament....mtcheeew

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy why you dey para?
Re: Temperament N Love. by Nobody: 7:41pm On Oct 22, 2014
spicyv1:


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy why you dey para?
lol spicy i just dislike the names of temperaments...whch one come be melancholy..frm d dictionary it means a sad mood...does that mean those whose temperaments are melamcholy are always sad? Choleric...d name dey remind me of the disease cholera....phlegmatic....hmmn, anoda weird name... Sanguine... It actually means many things.... Optimistic, blood thirsty..does it mean all sanguines are vampires? Lol
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 7:44pm On Oct 22, 2014
hahahahahahaha, cute-hector. Hilarious. Honestly, I don't know why they are named such. I read the reason then oh, i don forget, lol. But the entire concept is true. There are other elements used to describe temperaments though.

Fire
Water
Wind Earth.

Lol, imagine.
Re: Temperament N Love. by PrincessB1(f): 7:52pm On Oct 22, 2014
Am Mel-Phleg
Re: Temperament N Love. by spicyv1(f): 8:00pm On Oct 22, 2014
PrincessB1:
Am Mel-Phleg

wow, extremely introverted. smiley
Re: Temperament N Love. by PrincessB1(f): 8:07pm On Oct 22, 2014
spicyv1:


wow, extremely introverted. smiley
Yap its so culsmiley

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