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Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by acidtalk: 11:31am On Sep 04, 2012
afam4eva:
That's the sad thing. many girls have been killed while some lucky ones like the writer lived to tell the story.

See I typical story I posted some few months back, but trust the moderators, they never allowed it see the light of day (they hid it).

https://www.nairaland.com/928252/girl-used-rituals-aristo-picture
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Seun(m): 11:35am On Sep 04, 2012
Maria-G:
hmmm...easier said. I am sure you don't know the trauma she is going through now, neither do you know her family background? Maybe you should try putting yourself in her shoes for 5minutes, then you tell us how you fared. This is the best she can do and unlike Acidtalk, i prefer to and will be positive about this message...only those who have ears will be able to hear this warning bell!

She would not have had to go through this trauma if the women that were victims before her had reported the evil men to the authorities. Do you know the trauma other women are going through right now because of her failure to report those evil men? It's certainly easier said than done, but it must be done in order to protect other women from the same fate. If the six earlier victims of Cynthia's killers had reported the men after being raped, she would not have been killed. This evil persists because good men (and women) fail to fight against it pragmatically.

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Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 11:43am On Sep 04, 2012
Seun:

She would not have had to go through this trauma if the women that were victims before her had reported the evil men to the authorities. Do you know the trauma other women are going through right now because of her failure to report those evil men? It's certainly easier said than done, but it must be done in order to protect other women from the same fate. If the six earlier victims of Cynthia's killers had reported the men after being raped, she would not have been killed. This evil persists because good men (and women) fail to fight against it pragmatically.
and who should she report to? Naija policemen? Ok, lets say that they actually reported this, whats the guarantee that they will get help from them? With the way corruption is sweeping this country. Why was Cynthia's case followed? Is it not because of her father's influence? My dear o, thats their office, so they will want to make money too. I have seen cases where a poor man's case wasnt followed. No money to give and yet police is our friend.
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by acidtalk: 12:15pm On Sep 04, 2012
Seun:

She would not have had to go through this trauma if the women that were victims before her had reported the evil men to the authorities. Do you know the trauma other women are going through right now because of her failure to report those evil men? It's certainly easier said than done, but it must be done in order to protect other women from the same fate. If the six earlier victims of Cynthia's killers had reported the men after being raped, she would not have been killed. This evil persists because good men (and women) fail to fight against it pragmatically.
BEAUTIFUL!!!


Exactly my thought too.
Can't she just save the life of others?
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by acidtalk: 12:18pm On Sep 04, 2012
Maria-G:
and who should she report to? Naija policemen? Ok, lets say that they actually reported this, whats the guarantee that they will get help from them? With the way corruption is sweeping this country. Why was Cynthia's case followed? Is it not because of her father's influence? My dear o, thats their office, so they will want to make money too. I have seen cases where a poor man's case wasnt followed. No money to give and yet police is our friend.


If they shout out and the man's details are all over, we have NGOs and Legal practitioners who are willing to take up such cases without even expecting to get paid.

Let's drop this mentality of who can't get justice if the person isn't connected.

That's why so many people suffer each passing day from the so called elite in the society.

What as happened to the spiritual saying that "every human is his brother's keeper" and "love your neighbor as you love yourself?"
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 12:48pm On Sep 04, 2012
acidtalk: MUST READ FOR ALL LADIES                

I read  a touching, pathetic experience on one a blog, so i thought i should share it with you guys, it's about the horrifying experience of 8 girls in the hand of 8 devilish men, its a must read for all ladies out there.

"Hi, I am Tonia (not real name), a girl who has fears, beliefs, reservations and just your regular typical Nigerian girl. This past few weeks has been one hell of a game for me. I have really been unsettled and I thought I share this story with you.

"When Cynthia (the lady killed in the hotel room in Festac, Lagos) surfaced on the internet and various news media, I was scared and it brought back a whole lot of memories to me and also served as and eye opener. Many people castigated and criticised Cynthia (may her
gentle soul rest in peace), but my point is, it could have been anybody, anybody at all.

"We have met people through various social media. Some have ended up well, some have not but with painful memories. To cut the long story short, let me kindly share with you my encounter with social media especially the very popular Blackberry Messenger (BBM).

"I am a graduate and currently serving in Kaduna. I could have runced it, but I needed somewhere to clear my head and forget about my ugly encounter. Here is my story.

"I happened to have a married man as a contact on my BBM. He had been asking me out for over six months and I refused to date him. As time went on, he invited me clubbing with him when his wife was outside the country, and I went with him all night. We spent most of the night at Swe bar, Lagos.

"I also met his clique of friends, married as well with their various mistresses. We had 'mad' fun. After all the clubbing and drinking, he lodged me in a hotel somewhere in Obalende. I felt sort of safe with him. We did not have sex, but he made sweet love to me and touched me in places I had never ever imagined.

"He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have sex with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with. I did not know that it was all part of the plan.

Its not a new story what Nigerian girls do cos of money, and this is one reason most good guys today find it hard to trust a girl to say marry me. Some have committed so much atrocities that can even destroy their future husband. Even as they read this story, they will only laugh and keep on with their senseless evil ways, anyway, nature will surely pay them back! Let them keep catching fun!
"He gave me N10,000 and put me in a cab to go home the next morning. We kept talking and chatting and sending naked pictures to each other and he told me naughty things of how he wanted to whisper things in my ear, I blushed. We didn't see for two weeks and that was because his wife just came back from Turkey.

"One faithful evening, he pinged me that he was organising a beach party/boat cruise and that he would love for me to be his date and that he wanted to open a BBM chat, as a medium for his friends and my friends to interact. I was excited about it, I just wanted to have fun. I was able to get five of my very hot friends.

"The BBM group opened and we got chatting. I also realise that majority of them were married and working in reputable firms. It was fun and we didn't mind if they were married, we just wanted to have fun, as well as some other girls apart from my friends in the group.

"We chatted exclusively, sent pictures to the BBM group to introduce ourselves, and we had opened group conversations pending the beach party. And as excited as we were, we went shoping for nice sexy beach wears.

"The D-day finally came, we all assembled at the Lagos Island Boat Club. I was wowed because it was a high class party. We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot babes, and as well 'MARRIED MEN'. I did not care, I just said in my mind that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn't paying bills.

"We got there, it was a private beach resort. Most of the beach facilities I got to see there were owned by multinational companies. We got out of the boat, and went to where we were partying. It was a duplex made with wood. It was a very nice setting.

"I felt comfortable because it even had a fence around it separating it from other beach houses around. So, there was privacy and of course bouncers (heavy looking guys) guarding the place. I said to myself, this must be heaven, I must be dreaming.

"Anyways, we felt free with each other because we had been chatting. It was 5:30pm and the party just started. We had drinks flowing from the private bar tender which happens to be owned by one of the men in the group. Reality struck when I realised that I was feeling dizzy and feeling really funny and light headed. Not only me, but other girls around me too noticed there was something strange about it.


"I was also feeling Hot as hell! I had been drugged. They monitored us and when they knew the drug had really gone deep into our system, they moved us up into the main beach house. I could still see faces, but was too weak and Hot to react.

"Mr B, the man who took me clubbing, carried me in his hands like a sacrifice and put me down on the floor just as other men also did with their girls. We were eight in numbers; 8 girls, 8 guys, and they all stripped us down and had sex with us.

"I enjoyed it a bit because I was Hot. It was a mixed feeling because I cried, I moaned, but I did not know how many times he came into me. He pounded me hard. I was dizzy, but he grabbed me with force. All I could notice was the wedding ring on his finger. I thought of how wicked and miserable some married can be. How inhuman and heartless they could be.

"All of them took turns in switching partners and slept with all of us. I passed out. That was the last thing I could remember. I felt water poured on me. I noticed all the other girls around me too were half naked and some stark naked.

"We spent the night at the beach, but the men were no where to be found. I looked round me and all I could see was packs of used condoms. I ran to pick my cloths and possibly raise an alarm. I got dressed, found my phone with an envelope. It contained N16,000 and a note asking us to take N2000 each for transport. Tears of anger and rage filled my eyes and the girls around me as well.

"We were drugged and used like tissue paper. I grabbed my phone and noticed a ping came in. I checked my phone and I noticed the BBM group had been deleted, and a message via BBM from MR B came in. He threatened me that if I say a word to anyone, I would regret it.

"I told him he was a bastard, and he said try it. A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were pictures of us being naked on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures. I was not myself for a month.

"I went back to school, I had no one to talk to. The rest of the semester was hell for me. My CGPA dropped drastically. It was the worst out of the worst result I ever had.

"Till today, my friends and I have not discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia's story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the word, and pray they see it and changed their ways.

"I am now born again. I have given my life to Christ. I fear men so much that I cannot even move close to them. I still have nightmares, but with time, God will strengthen me and I will move on. My advice to single ladies out there is, do not be desperate for fun. Pray to God to open your eyes of understanding, and pray hard. He who kneels before God will stand before kings and queens.

"To all married women, pray hard to God to intervene in your marriages and turn your husbands from bad habits to and bad friends. As for me, I do not think I ever want to get married or date a man again. That chapter has been closed for good in my life.

Please, do not ignore my mail. Please post it. There are a lot of things we ladies need to learn including you. Please post it on your blog and save a soul. It could be your friend, sister, cousin, neighbour.

"God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen."
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 12:53pm On Sep 04, 2012
acidtalk: MUST READ FOR ALL LADIES                

I read  a touching, pathetic experience on one a blog, so i thought i should share it with you guys, it's about the horrifying experience of 8 girls in the hand of 8 devilish men, its a must read for all ladies out there.

"Hi, I am Tonia (not real name), a girl who has fears, beliefs, reservations and just your regular typical Nigerian girl. This past few weeks has been one hell of a game for me. I have really been unsettled and I thought I share this story with you.

"When Cynthia (the lady killed in the hotel room in Festac, Lagos) surfaced on the internet and various news media, I was scared and it brought back a whole lot of memories to me and also served as and eye opener. Many people castigated and criticised Cynthia (may her
gentle soul rest in peace), but my point is, it could have been anybody, anybody at all.

"We have met people through various social media. Some have ended up well, some have not but with painful memories. To cut the long story short, let me kindly share with you my encounter with social media especially the very popular Blackberry Messenger (BBM).

"I am a graduate and currently serving in Kaduna. I could have runced it, but I needed somewhere to clear my head and forget about my ugly encounter. Here is my story.

"I happened to have a married man as a contact on my BBM. He had been asking me out for over six months and I refused to date him. As time went on, he invited me clubbing with him when his wife was outside the country, and I went with him all night. We spent most of the night at Swe bar, Lagos.

"I also met his clique of friends, married as well with their various mistresses. We had 'mad' fun. After all the clubbing and drinking, he lodged me in a hotel somewhere in Obalende. I felt sort of safe with him. We did not have sex, but he made sweet love to me and touched me in places I had never ever imagined.

"He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have sex with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with. I did not know that it was all part of the plan.

Its not a new story what Nigerian girls do cos of money, and this is one reason most good guys today find it hard to trust a girl to say marry me. Some have committed so much atrocities that can even destroy their future husband. Even as they read this story, they will only laugh and keep on with their senseless evil ways, anyway, nature will surely pay them back! Let them keep catching fun!
"He gave me N10,000 and put me in a cab to go home the next morning. We kept talking and chatting and sending naked pictures to each other and he told me naughty things of how he wanted to whisper things in my ear, I blushed. We didn't see for two weeks and that was because his wife just came back from Turkey.

"One faithful evening, he pinged me that he was organising a beach party/boat cruise and that he would love for me to be his date and that he wanted to open a BBM chat, as a medium for his friends and my friends to interact. I was excited about it, I just wanted to have fun. I was able to get five of my very hot friends.

"The BBM group opened and we got chatting. I also realise that majority of them were married and working in reputable firms. It was fun and we didn't mind if they were married, we just wanted to have fun, as well as some other girls apart from my friends in the group.

"We chatted exclusively, sent pictures to the BBM group to introduce ourselves, and we had opened group conversations pending the beach party. And as excited as we were, we went shoping for nice sexy beach wears.

"The D-day finally came, we all assembled at the Lagos Island Boat Club. I was wowed because it was a high class party. We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot babes, and as well 'MARRIED MEN'. I did not care, I just said in my mind that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn't paying bills.

"We got there, it was a private beach resort. Most of the beach facilities I got to see there were owned by multinational companies. We got out of the boat, and went to where we were partying. It was a duplex made with wood. It was a very nice setting.

"I felt comfortable because it even had a fence around it separating it from other beach houses around. So, there was privacy and of course bouncers (heavy looking guys) guarding the place. I said to myself, this must be heaven, I must be dreaming.

"Anyways, we felt free with each other because we had been chatting. It was 5:30pm and the party just started. We had drinks flowing from the private bar tender which happens to be owned by one of the men in the group. Reality struck when I realised that I was feeling dizzy and feeling really funny and light headed. Not only me, but other girls around me too noticed there was something strange about it.


"I was also feeling Hot as hell! I had been drugged. They monitored us and when they knew the drug had really gone deep into our system, they moved us up into the main beach house. I could still see faces, but was too weak and Hot to react.

"Mr B, the man who took me clubbing, carried me in his hands like a sacrifice and put me down on the floor just as other men also did with their girls. We were eight in numbers; 8 girls, 8 guys, and they all stripped us down and had sex with us.

"I enjoyed it a bit because I was Hot. It was a mixed feeling because I cried, I moaned, but I did not know how many times he came into me. He pounded me hard. I was dizzy, but he grabbed me with force. All I could notice was the wedding ring on his finger. I thought of how wicked and miserable some married can be. How inhuman and heartless they could be.

"All of them took turns in switching partners and slept with all of us. I passed out. That was the last thing I could remember. I felt water poured on me. I noticed all the other girls around me too were half naked and some stark naked.

"We spent the night at the beach, but the men were no where to be found. I looked round me and all I could see was packs of used condoms. I ran to pick my cloths and possibly raise an alarm. I got dressed, found my phone with an envelope. It contained N16,000 and a note asking us to take N2000 each for transport. Tears of anger and rage filled my eyes and the girls around me as well.

"We were drugged and used like tissue paper. I grabbed my phone and noticed a ping came in. I checked my phone and I noticed the BBM group had been deleted, and a message via BBM from MR B came in. He threatened me that if I say a word to anyone, I would regret it.

"I told him he was a bastard, and he said try it. A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were pictures of us being naked on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures. I was not myself for a month.

"I went back to school, I had no one to talk to. The rest of the semester was hell for me. My CGPA dropped drastically. It was the worst out of the worst result I ever had.

"Till today, my friends and I have not discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia's story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the word, and pray they see it and changed their ways.

"I am now born again. I have given my life to Christ. I fear men so much that I cannot even move close to them. I still have nightmares, but with time, God will strengthen me and I will move on. My advice to single ladies out there is, do not be desperate for fun. Pray to God to open your eyes of understanding, and pray hard. He who kneels before God will stand before kings and queens.

"To all married women, pray hard to God to intervene in your marriages and turn your husbands from bad habits to and bad friends. As for me, I do not think I ever want to get married or date a man again. That chapter has been closed for good in my life.

Please, do not ignore my mail. Please post it. There are a lot of things we ladies need to learn including you. Please post it on your blog and save a soul. It could be your friend, sister, cousin, neighbour.

"God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen."
This is not a new news of what nigerian girls do for money. They only turn to fake born agains after so much nonesense. Even as they read it, they will laugh at it and go on with their evil ways cos naturally a nigerian girl love money and fun more than true love. There must be a good guy pleading her to pls love him and be good, but she preferred married men cos she is greedy. This is one reason most good guys today find it hard to trust any girl nowadays to say marry me. And even when men marry, they want to pay girls back for what they did to them when they were young, single and had less cash. All of you, don't worry, nature go gbab una one by one...make una keep catching fun ok? Ndi isi mgbaka! Sighs
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by acidtalk: 12:57pm On Sep 04, 2012
Really in Nigeria of today, Money rules over true love.
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Ariyke: 1:06pm On Sep 04, 2012
*singing* Eni ba leti ko gbo ooo Eni balokan kogba oo e

half word is enough for the wise, the disadvantages of social network is more than the advantages *shakes head*
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 2:28pm On Sep 04, 2012
Everybody is entiltled to his/her own thoughts. Let God be the final judge......
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by acidtalk: 3:20pm On Sep 04, 2012
meaning?
So you see nothing wrong in her actions?
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 04, 2012
acidtalk: meaning?
So you see nothing wrong in her actions?
I never said so. She was wrong to indulge in that, and with a marid man for that matter. But you see, it's not in my place to judge her.
Remove the plank in your eye before trying to remove the speck in your neighbour's. I am not perfect, no one is. She made a mistake and she turned to God, according to her. So, we gats no other say in it. As for the police stuff, let her decide that.
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by acidtalk: 3:49pm On Sep 04, 2012
Well.....
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by DExplorer1: 4:33pm On Sep 04, 2012
Maria-G:
and who should she report to? Naija policemen? Ok, lets say that they actually reported this, whats the guarantee that they will get help from them? With the way corruption is sweeping this country. Why was Cynthia's case followed? Is it not because of her father's influence? My dear o, thats their office, so they will want to make money too. I have seen cases where a poor man's case wasnt followed. No money to give and yet police is our friend.
You made some sense there. Most of the cases aired has always been influenced by prominent individuals. Reporting isn't the solution. Besides were these ladies forced to play along? Why should you meet a man somewhere that leaves two of you alone with no eyes watching? I need a reasonable story, this isn't one.
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by ignis: 9:34pm On Sep 05, 2012
Seun: They should ignore the threat of disgrace and report the men to authorities.

I will only blame them for not reporting, because this guarantees that other girls will suffer the same fate.
You might not know the level of the threat and consequences attached to it. Beside you know ladies easily get scared of little threats.
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by BluePinkee(f): 7:57am On Sep 06, 2012
I agree; poverty is not an excuse to mess around. Frolicking with a married man always has consequences. Hasn't she ever heard of the phrase "sorry, not interested". She's kinda lucky, she was only raped!!
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by ignis: 7:38pm On Sep 06, 2012
BluePinkee: I agree; poverty is not an excuse to mess around. Frolicking with a married man always has consequences. Hasn't she ever heard of the phrase "sorry, not interested". She's kinda lucky, she was only raped!!
Am solidly behind you...
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 7:58am On Sep 07, 2012
this has absolutely nothing to do with social media, and i am really angry at all the daft threads that keep popping fingering social media

these things have been going on for a very long time - we are simply talking about serial rapists in a country like nigeria, where the woman is always to blame

before social media, animals were still engaging in serial ra-pe social media is just another tool , much like knives , guns and cars are tools for armed robbers.i mentioned a medstudent who we knew as a serial rapist in school, who also took pictures - this was before gsm and facebook etal.

the real lesson here is that women have to be very very very careful around men, and have to understand that you cannot be too careful with men where s-ex is concerned. i had two friens in school, very cute chicks funmi and tobi. funmi grew up in unilag, the daugher of a lecturer and she was very very sharp. they NEVER returned my visits to their room. it really pissed me off then, but i understand now - because i later found that that is another guys play, befriend a babe, then get her to your room and intimidate her.

that is probably how these animals started

the real problem is that in nigeri and africa, men are rarely prosecuted for rape, and most of us have a very cavalier attitude to wards rape in the first place
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by Nobody: 7:59am On Sep 07, 2012
BluePinkee: I agree; poverty is not an excuse to mess around. Frolicking with a married man always has consequences. Hasn't she ever heard of the phrase "sorry, not interested". She's kinda lucky, she was only raped!!

see what i mean, a woman saying that - not even a man - how disgusting and sick is that?
Re: A MUST READ : For Every Nigerian Girl Who Uses Social Media Platforms by tpia5: 7:20pm On Sep 07, 2012
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