I noticed while growing up that each time I wanted to make a positive progress in any area of my life,and people especially my relatives heard about it,such move would be null and void.As a result,i decided to keep my intentions known to my self,they only get to know of it after it's been carried out.They get furious for not telling them important things about me,but I do apologise to them not to be upset.Is it just me,or does any one have this type of experience?