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It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Caringhrtofmine: 9:13am On Sep 26, 2012
Pls i need sincere answers from the house. Did u have intimate relationship (sex) with your partner before marriage? If u dont, how did u prove your love to him without sex? Cos, men dont believe you love them untill u have sex. And as a man, how do u see your wife to be who does not want to have sex with you? Thank u for your sincere responds.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Sijo01(f): 9:18am On Sep 26, 2012
Reasons for your question, sir/ma!
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by greedie1(f): 10:07am On Sep 26, 2012
D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons.

If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage.

If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay.

If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital

nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either.

Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Caringhrtofmine: 12:38pm On Sep 26, 2012
Thank u for your answer.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 26, 2012
Sex should be kept out of relationship until marriage.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by obowunmi(m): 3:30pm On Sep 26, 2012
tpacalipse: Sex should be kept out of relationship until marriage.

GBAM

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by goofie: 4:12pm On Sep 26, 2012
tpacalipse: Sex should be kept out of relationship until marriage.

some guys can kill u 4 saying that
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by goofie: 4:19pm On Sep 26, 2012
gree-die:
D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons.

If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage.

If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay.

If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital

nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either.


very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem.

a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking?



Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by goofie: 4:20pm On Sep 26, 2012
gree-die:
D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons.

If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage.

If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay.

If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital

nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either.


Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run



very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem.

a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking?
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Alaafialoro(m): 11:48pm On Sep 26, 2012
@op...not everybody does but most people do.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by tpia1: 11:55pm On Sep 26, 2012
Greedie has just about nailed it in such a manner as one rarely sees on nl.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by tpia1: 11:59pm On Sep 26, 2012
Move the wedding date forward if he or both of you cant wait.

@ topic.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by cold(m): 11:59pm On Sep 26, 2012
tpacalipse: Sex should be kept out of relationship until marriage.
Bullshyt!Abstain from sex and eventually discover i've been dating a log or a 'it's a missionary or nothing' personality.Hell no!No sex,no marriage.Simples

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by tpia1: 12:00am On Sep 27, 2012
goofie:





a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking?


Gosh, that statement is shocking.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by tpia1: 12:01am On Sep 27, 2012
cold:
Bullshyt!Abstain from sex and eventually discover i've been dating a log or a 'it's a missionary or nothing' personality.Hell no!No sex,no marriage.Simples

I think you should reread greedye's post.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by cold(m): 12:07am On Sep 27, 2012
tpia1:
I think you should reread gree die's post.
That's a load of bull.And besides,reading shorthand gives me a migraine
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Alaafialoro(m): 12:22am On Sep 27, 2012
cold:
That's a load of bull.And besides,reading shorthand gives me a migraine
To you it might be BS, but to others the post was reasonable. And if shorthand truely gives you migrane,you need to see a neurologist because shorthand is what we often see here on NL.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by cold(m): 12:38am On Sep 27, 2012
Alaafia l‘oro:

To you it might be BS, but to others the post was reasonable. And if shorthand truely gives you migrane,you need to see a neurologist because shorthand is what we often see here on NL.
Yeah,yeah.Reasonable to you & a few others.My stance still stands,no sex,no marriage end of!Anyways,to each their own

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Mynd44: 12:47am On Sep 27, 2012
While I am not part of the no sex before marriage crew or no sex no marriage sew, I think these days, sex has become over rated.
If you wanna have sex do so but dont do it to show that you love someone. Its just silly as a lot of people dont give an eff about one another and they have sex
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by cold(m): 1:45am On Sep 27, 2012
^^My point exactly.There's no correlation between sex and love but an attempt to hold anyone to ransom on the premise of marriage is only an exercise in futility.You may or may not have sex before marriage but celibacy before marriage is no guarantee of a healthy marriage.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by greedie1(f): 10:40am On Sep 27, 2012
goofie:



very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem.

a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking?
tnx dear

imagine dat! He is invariably saying his girlfriend is good 4 just sex and cant hold a reasonable conversation?
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by greedie1(f): 11:09am On Sep 27, 2012
cold:
That's a load of bull.And besides,reading shorthand gives me a migraine

sorry about the shorthand, however, im not suprised its all crap to you, afterall isnt it you who wrote
cold:
My stance still stands,no sex,no marriage end of!

cold: There's no correlation between sex and love

agreed!but what do you have to say about this:
Caringhrtofmine: men dont believe you love them untill u have sex.

cold: an attempt to hold anyone to ransom on the premise of marriage is only an exercise in futility.

u contradict yourself. Are you for or against? Because wen u tell a girl no sex no marriage, you are holding her to ransom!
cold: You may or may not have sex before marriage but celibacy before marriage is no guarantee of a healthy marriage.
true. But does sex before marriage guarantee it? If not wat did u mean when you wrote that u cant afford to marry a girl and find out she is the "only missionery" type?
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Nobody: 11:53am On Sep 27, 2012
Everyone knows the difference between wrong and right.
Cuz we choose to do the wrong doesnt mean we dont kno its wrong. Dts d way i see this issue.
Asides that, some are too involved and can‘t stop cuz dy dnt v d strong determination to stop.
If not for the western culture (education), everyone would be getting married @ an early stage such that pre-marital intimacy wont be an issue but since its different now, We are ll handling the issue the way we want to knowing pre-marital sex has lots of disadvantages and no advantage.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Caringhrtofmine: 12:38pm On Sep 27, 2012
How comes no one is confident enough to give a YES or NO answer here.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Alaafialoro(m): 1:33pm On Sep 27, 2012
Caringhrtofmine: How comes no one is confident enough to give a YES or NO answer here.
.....and which of your questions demands YES or NO answer?
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by obowunmi(m): 1:36pm On Sep 27, 2012
@OP: it depends on the maturity of the persons involved.

No right or wrong answers.
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by 190theclown: 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2012
Sex is a very valuable and real stuff in a relationship

Using myself as a case study

There is no way I won't sex my woman even before getting 2know her name undecided

Of what use is she if not for sex

Sex makes a relationship stronger, tighter and even God fearing

Sex makes a relationship true

Why would I wanna marry a woman without sexing her

Would I buy a car without getting 2 see it in d first

Sex is 100% necessary - without sex I loose complete intrest in you undecided

If you are in agreement - say hay

If you are against this - Ogun fire your left ball undecided

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Sep 27, 2012
Sex or No-sex b4 marriage has not way of determining the success of a marriage, they both have advantages and disadvantages....Simply choose whichever one u feel suits your relationship
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by DExplorer1: 1:58pm On Sep 27, 2012
190-the-clown:
Sex is a very valuable and real stuff in a relationship

Using myself as a case study

There is no way I won't sex my woman even before getting 2know her name undecided

Of what use is she if not for sex

Sex makes a relationship stronger, tighter and even God fearing

Sex makes a relationship true

Why would I wanna marry a woman without sexing her

Would I buy a car without getting 2 see it in d first

Sex is 100% necessary - without sex I loose complete intrest in you undecided

If you are in agreement - say hay

If you are against this - Ogun fire your left ball undecided
I had to drop my phone to laugh at this bullshyt grin grin grin
Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by 190theclown: 2:10pm On Sep 27, 2012
God created women for 3 reasons


Sex

Child birth and

Kitchen

End of story - if them like make dem try change am

Dey can decieve demselves but not me and God undecided

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by nikkyshyne(f): 2:32pm On Sep 27, 2012
@190, are you really like this, or you'r just being an annoying clown angry
gree-die:

u contradict yourself. Are you for or against? Because wen u tell a girl no sex no marriage, you are holding her to ransom!
Thank you for this post. You hear them say, 'No girl should give me any condition' 'No holds barred' 'No sex no relationship'. They forget that is also a condition/ransom.

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Re: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by Nobody: 3:17pm On Sep 27, 2012
190-the-clown:
Sex is a very valuable and real stuff in a relationship

Using myself as a case study

There is no way I won't sex my woman even before getting 2know her name undecided

Of what use is she if not for sex

Sex makes a relationship stronger, tighter and even God fearing

Sex makes a relationship true

Why would I wanna marry a woman without sexing her

Would I buy a car without getting 2 see it in d first

Sex is 100% necessary - without sex I loose complete intrest in you undecided

If you are in agreement - say hay

If you are against this - Ogun fire your left ball undecided
indeed you are a clown... Lol@ sex makes a rltnshp 'God fearing' and dn't go about sleeping with a girl b4 asking for her name, because her name might turn out to be HIV.
@post... Not everybody and pre marital sex often kills a relationship even b4 it starts so i would advise that it should be avoided.

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