kulyie: lol,of course i think outside d box n if ure married,ur wife is such a lucky lady

Ileke-IdI:
. . . . . and you attached your picture because. . . . ?

Angelahoney: Its a pity a lot of men suffer inferiority complex. I grew up in a wealthy home, I studied in UK, I have a business with a monthly turnover running into tens of millions.
My husband is struggling with a peanut salary job. I asked him to resign and work for me so that the money I pay doesn't leave the family. But he refused.
I'm very beautiful with a child and not up to 30. Some people say its because I'm richer. May be. In fact I bought him a brand new car but he prefers to drive the Tokunboh jalopy.

I would not want to mention his tribe so that the thread does not deviate. That's my side.

goodluckizuchi: Woman I advice u any time u have a problem with ur husband don't tell him that u are still marketable two trie to obeyed ur husband command onLess it is something that u know that is not good to do three u should know that catfish is for papersoup and goatmeat is for soup because of the egusi is not good with catfish and third go and plead ur husband promise him that u we never go contrally to his command and he we forgive u if he love u realy ok don't panic or insult him by say that some body can see u and still price u ok that is a very wrong word to use to ur husband thanks and talk the advice ok

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arramyjay:

Geez,wht stubborness,she didn't cook pepper soup for d guy instead she made egusi soup,do u knw if she was trying to manage money,[/b]wht has peppersoup got to do wit getting divorced? It is funny how things like dis don't come up when or while dating instead it comes up when it is marriage.
SIT DowN and pls dnt type again.

Angelahoney: Hello Nlanders. I have been hearing a lot about this site for a long time. I often visit this site but I've never been a member.
I have a problem with my marriage and I hope there are matured people who can help.
My husband of 5 years want to divorce me for trivial reason. It even sounds funny talking about it.

Last week [b]he asked me to buy fresh catfish and goat meat. He said he wanted to eat catfish pepper soup, while I prepare egusi soup with the goat meat. I wanted something different so I prepared goat meat pepper soup and used the cat fish for egusi soup.
His inlaws came and they enjoyed it. But my husband was frowning. He said I'm too stuborn and he refused to talk to me. He has refused to sleep with me. I can't go a week without his sensual touch. To crown it all, he's threatening for a divorce. What do I do?

Pls your advice is needed. Thank. (I'm still pretty and marketable but he doesn't appreciate that).

Angelahoney: Its a pity a lot of men suffer inferiority complex. I grew up in a wealthy home, I studied in UK, I have a business with a monthly turnover running into tens of millions.
My husband is struggling with a peanut salary job. I asked him to resign and work for me so that the money I pay doesn't leave the family. But he refused.
I'm very beautiful with a child and not up to 30. Some people say its because I'm richer. May be. In fact I bought him a brand new car but he prefers to drive the Tokunboh jalopy.

I would not want to mention his tribe so that the thread does not deviate. That's my side.

Angelahoney: Hello Nlanders. I have been hearing a lot about this site for a long time. I often visit this site but I've never been a member.
I have a problem with my marriage and I hope there are matured people who can help.
My husband of 5 years want to divorce me for trivial reason. It even sounds funny talking about it.

Last week he asked me to buy fresh catfish and goat meat. He said he wanted to eat catfish pepper soup, while I prepare egusi soup with the goat meat. I wanted something different so I prepared goat meat pepper soup and used the cat fish for egusi soup.
His inlaws came and they enjoyed it. But my husband was frowning. He said I'm too stuborn and he refused to talk to me. He has refused to sleep with me. I can't go a week without his sensual touch. To crown it all, he's threatening for a divorce. What do I do?

Pls your advice is needed. Thank. (I'm still pretty and marketable but he doesn't appreciate that).

Angelahoney: Most of the people commenting are men so it is one sided. I want a lady's opinion.

Angelahoney:

No I'm not. I'm as logical as you. Fact is many men think they're the only ones who can reason. They see women are emotional beings. But I expected my husband to ask me why I decided to use cat fish to cook egusi soup instead of goat meat.

Angelahoney: Many people are saying marriage is old fashion. I didn't think so but now it might be true.
Mind you, a lot of women talking here are not married. Many of them don't know how to keep a man. Some of them are even thinking of marrying a ready made man.

Billyonaire: I have read all your reactions and its a pointer to the fact that you are smart, and you are intelligent, and its dangerous when one employs intelligence in relationships. Relationship is an emotional union, so to use your intelligence and smartness to make decisions in marriages may certainly make your marriage more of a classroom than a bed of roses and sex. Men are natural leaders and intuitively avoid ladies who try to counter their superiority even in their myopism. I can relate to this personally cos am a pretty intelligent dude and each time my lady (a programmer mind you) comes with multifaceted intelligence on issues, what I jokingly say is "You are the Boss, and the man today, take the lead" Believe me that makes everything work. But your husband, he might be a Beast of Carthage and may not wanna reason differently.

armyofone: for those asking if she followed instruction, can't a lady be creative again?

easy solution would have been for the guy to go shopping for the cat fish and goat meat, cook the stuff yourself and serve your wifey. The difference would convinced her of how you wanted it.

OP lady, the current vi.brators in the market got hands for sensual feelings.

armyofone: yeah, it would have been easier for him to eat the food, say 'delicious' and add well darling, next time use goat meat for the egusi soup etc.

adolegoallywise: i tink u nid 2 go n read atleast 10 book write by PASTOR MRS FAITH OYEDEPO dats jst wat u needed ssimplei tink u nid 2 go n read atleast 10 book write by PASTOR MRS FAITH OYEDEPO dats jst wat u needed ssimplei tink u nid 2 go n read atleast 10 book write by PASTOR MRS FAITH OYEDEPO dats jst wat u needed ssimple

Ileke-IdI:
. . . . . and you attached your picture because. . . . ?

Angelahoney: The way some women sound, like they're beefing me. They've already passed judgment and put on that holier than thou attitude.
I'm very sure they all want to marry a richer guy. Not one of them would want to marry a struggling guy but I did. It wasn't as if I'm desperate or old. I had money and beauty and intelligent.
Many of them want to paint that virtuous woman picture but I won't buy that.