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70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by karlmax2: 7:42am On Oct 11, 2012
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Based on a prediction that his fortune would experience a leap, should he be married to a 12-year-old, a septuagenarian is hell bent on exchanging marital vows with the pre-teen girl despite the protestations of the mother. Olalekan Olabulo reports.

TWELVE years old Aminat Hamisu, a Class 1 student of Ansar Ud Deen Junior Secondary School in Ado Odo/Ota Local Government is in dire need of someone to save her life from impending disaster. She is a subject of a forceful marriage to a man, old enough to be her grandfather. She lost her father in the course of the confusion that ensued over her planned marriage to a septuagenarian. Aminat is supposed to be a Junior Secondary School 2 student but had to miss a whole academic session as a result of the fact that she had to escape from being forcefully engaged to a man, who should have been her guardian rather than husband. The insistence of the old man to marry her has also resulted in her missing classes.

Forty three years old Salamatu Hamisu, the mother of the 12 years old girl, while speaking with the Nigerian Tribune, appealed to well-meaning Nigerians and human rights organisations to save her daughter from forceful marriage to a man bent on marrying the girl. The mother of seven, while narrating the whole episode to Nigerian Tribune stated that it all started in 2001, when a man identified as Mallam Ibraheem Mairago, who was like a father to her insisted on marrying Aminat, who was just 11 years of age at that time.

According to her, a certain Mallam Alli had told Mairago that he had a dream that if he could marry Aminat, his riches would multiply. Meirago believed Mallam Alli and instantly approached the father of Aminat, Alhaji Hamisu Aliyu, now deceased, asking for the hand of his daughter in marriage.

“Initially my husband refused but, when Mairago promised him some goodies, he accepted the marriage proposal without telling either the girl or me. Mairago promised to give him a portion at the ram market in Mile 12. He also promised to always involve him in Quranic recitation for wealthy people in Lagos,” Salamatu narrated. She also stated that “One day, my husband brought some yards of cloth home and said that it was meant for my daughter. I asked him where the cloth was from and he said that Alhaji Mairago bought it for her. I asked her for what reason and he said he did not know. I rejected the cloth and when I prodded him further he confessed to me that Meirago wanted to marry our daughter.”

The planned marriage led to a clash between the household of the late Mallam Hamisu Aliyu, forcing him to report the case to his brother in law in Sagamu. The brother in law also initially kicked against the planned wedding but later succumbed, in a circumstance Salamatu described as suspicious. “When I refused to support the marriage proposal, my late husband reported me to my   brother in Sagamu and my brother also kicked against the marriage but later he took Mairago to my brother and it was agreed that Mairago should pay N50,000 as the bride price. At this stage, my daughter was not even aware that somebody wanted to marry her,” the mother said. She also said that “When the situation got to a stage my daughter was informed and she became really devastated. Because of the marriage talk, she ran away from home for four days. On the day she ran away, I woke her early in the morning and told her to go and pray. For more than three hours, I did not see her and we looked around Mile 12 Market but she was nowhere to be found. It was after four days that we saw her.  The situation grew so tense that the deceased Aliyu divorced his wife, who was then nursing a two-month- old baby. The woman said that she was sent away from her husband’s house and she had to live on menial jobs in Mowe area of Ogun State. Before the death of Aminat’s father, her suitor forced him and the mother’s brother to refund the N50,000 naira he paid to them as the bride price. Though the father was said not to have taken out of the money when it was paid, the brother-in-law collected N40,000, while a certain Alhaji Manga also went away with N10,000.  

The refund of the bride price, ordinarily, should have been the end of the proposed marriage but Alhaji Meirago kept on pestering the girl’s family that he wanted to marry the underage girl. He was accused of victimising the late Aliyu, who was then working under him. “Before my husband died, he got to know that I had relocated to Sango in Ogun State, where I was staying with my cousin, Mallam Thani Bala. He even pleaded with my cousin not to allow me return to Mowe. By this time Alhaji Mairago had married another wife for him. My husband still loved me and he was coming to see me, even sometime he would sleep in my cousin’s house,” the woman claimed. She further claimed that “When Alhaji Mairago got to know that my husband was still coming to see me in my cousin’s place, he changed to him totally. Even when they told him that my husband was ill, he said that as long as my husband was coming to see me, he should die.”

The death of the father of the 12-year-old girl has, however, not changed the situation  as Mallam Mairago  has turned his attention to Mallam Bala, who he accused of habouring his wife. According to the mother, “Mairago has continued to insist that Aminat is his wife and that he wants the police to force Thani to release the young girl to him.” In his reaction to the issue, Alhaji Mairago, who spoke through his lawyer, Mr. Jeleel Bashir, said that the proposed marriage was in accordance with Islamic Law. He said that he had secured the approval of the bride's father and paid the required bride price as stipulated by Islamic law. The lawyer claimed that there were witnesses to the marriage between Alhaji Mairago and Aminat, adding that the only person, who had the right to dissolve the marriage was Alhaji Mairago himself.

On the claim by the girl's mother that the bride price had been returned, the lawyer said that "I am not aware that the bride price had been returned. Even if the bride price was returned, that does not mean that the marriage has been dissolved."

According to Bashir, Islamic law permits such marriage, even if the bride to be is not in support of the marriage. “Islamic law allows a guardian to choose for the girl if she is underage,” he said. He, however, said that the purpose of such marriage is not essentially for sex but for the suitor to take care of the underage girl. 

The girl, while speaking with the Nigerian Tribune, kicked against the planned marriage. She insisted on completing her education before thinking of marriage and added that the man was even far older than her father. “I don’t want to marry now; I want to finish my schooling. Alhaji’s children cannot even be my friends because they are older than I am. I don’t want to marry Alhaji. He should leave me to complete my education,” the 12-year-old girl said. 



http://tribune.com.ng/index.php/lead-stories/49024-70-yr-old-man-insists-on-marrying-12-yr-old-to-boost-wealth
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 11, 2012
Disgusting!!! Ritualistic paedophile! What a shame! All in the name of a religion... smh

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Chanchit: 8:28am On Oct 11, 2012
So how old is the gurl now, if it all started in 2001..? Abegi it happens everytime in the north, this is no news.

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Nobody: 8:33am On Oct 11, 2012
Chanchit: So how old is the gurl now, if it all started in 2001..? Abegi it happens everytime in the north, this is no news.

Hahahaha, I thought it was 2011; if it was 2001 then I think she should be around 23 now. Na their yawa sha!
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by NEROSKY(m): 9:26am On Oct 11, 2012
em neva serious...
make em go wed transformer!!

pesin wey senior Nigeria won marry 12 years old girl...

he needs cognitive therapy!!!!

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by nass07(m): 9:31am On Oct 11, 2012
Which kain nonsense be this na! That man should be kidnapped and thrown into the lagoon abeg.
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Nobody: 9:32am On Oct 11, 2012
If the girl is around 23 now, is the said Old man still alive?
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Goldieluks: 9:34am On Oct 11, 2012
Fuccking bastards!
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by BrutusOj(m): 9:39am On Oct 11, 2012
CHILD ABUSE
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by hbrednic: 9:41am On Oct 11, 2012
why am i not suprised,they are always pulling out a magic wand in the name of religion.
yet they said the ones in southwest are different from their northern cousins tongue

the shameless old fo-ol show just drop dead.religion my axxe
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Hamintab: 9:43am On Oct 11, 2012
Disgusting!!!. These Northerners are ANIMALS!!!

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by sdiq: 9:46am On Oct 11, 2012
NA THIS STUPID HAUSA PEOPLE DEY SPOIL MUSLIM IMAGE, WANT TO MARRY YOUR GREAT GRAND CHILDREND NA WA O
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by MadCow1: 9:47am On Oct 11, 2012
Guys!! Its okay. There is nothing wrong in this according to his religion. Here are passages from the Quoran.

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Book 008, Number 3309:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house at the age of nine. She further said: We went to Medina and I had an attack of fever for a month, and my hair had come down to the earlobes. Umm Ruman (my mother) came to me and I was at that time on a swing along with my playmates. She called me loudly and I went to her and I did not know what she had wanted of me. She took hold of my hand and took me to the door, and I was saying: Ha, ha (as if I was gasping), until the agitation of my heart was over. She took me to a house, where had gathered the women of the Ansar. They all blessed me and wished me good luck and said: May you have share in good. She (my mother) entrusted me to them. They washed my head and embellished me and nothing frightened me. Allah's Messenger (, may peace be upon him) came there in the morning, and I was entrusted to him.


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Book 008, Number 3310:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.


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Book 008, Number 3311:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old.


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Mohammed died at the age of 63, meaning he was 52 years old when he married 7 year old Aisha.

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by dridowu: 9:50am On Oct 11, 2012
I dnt even undastand d whole superstory............summary pls
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Nobody: 9:55am On Oct 11, 2012
Chanchit: So how old is the gurl now, if it all started in 2001..? Abegi it happens everytime in the north, this is no news.
they meant 2011, d girl was 11yrs and nw 2012 she is 12. Something need to be done abt this asap. Hw could the stupid lawyer have said marriage like this is not 4 *.e.x but just to take care of her. Pure thrash!
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by ParisLove2(f): 9:56am On Oct 11, 2012
Jihadists apologists the floor is yours. cool
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Sijo01(f): 9:56am On Oct 11, 2012
Stewpid aboki!
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by petipeti: 9:59am On Oct 11, 2012
So in islam, one's guidian can sell him or her? I allways tell my muslem friends to disregard sentiment. Islam jst started like Boko haram with its members. Remember how muhamad died after eating poisoned meat(prophet) .Even odinary perikoma wont die of poison. Muhamad was fucking d most prity gal in khalid after killing her husband yet u guys ar following this satanic militant. Why nt worship Fela,2pac etc. Rubbish people.

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by AntiGbagaun(f): 10:00am On Oct 11, 2012
Mad Cow: [size=20pt]Guys!! Mohammed died at the age of 63, meaning he was 50 years old when he married 7 year old Aisha.[/size]
shocked shocked shocked

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by etunoman76(m): 10:00am On Oct 11, 2012
Alhaji Mairago needs serious deliverance. Just because of the dream of a friend, he wants to waste the life of an innocent girl. The young girl mentioned in the Quoran was a willing wife, but Aminat isn't. She should be allowed to go to school, then after graduating from the University and after her Phd, if the shameless man is still alive, then all of us on NL will be at their wedding grin grin grin. Yeye old man!

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by AntiGbagaun(f): 10:03am On Oct 11, 2012
petipeti: So in islam, one's guidian can sell him or her? I allways tell my muslem friends to disregard sentiment. Islam jst started like Boko haram with its members. Remember how muhamad died after eating poisoned meat(prophet) .Even odinary perikoma wont die of poison. Muhamad was fucking d most prity gal in khalid after killing her husband yet u guys ar following this satanic militant. Why nt worship Fela,2pac etc. Rubbish people.
sad sad angry

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by HayZee06(m): 10:03am On Oct 11, 2012
Is this a build up story or what? Coz I dnt even understand any bit of it
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Chikebrain: 10:04am On Oct 11, 2012
Mad Cow: Guys!! Its okay. There is nothing wrong in this according to his religion. Here are passages from the Quoran.
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Book 008, Number 3310:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.


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Book 008, Number 3311:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old.

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Mohammed died at the age of 63, meaning he was 50 years old when he married 7 year old Aisha.


Sorry to say this but you are really a MAD COW. How can you deem this as right; How will an old man have sexual intercourse with a girl at such age. I really don't understand some people these days who's mindset are based on primitive thinking. Mtchewwwwwww

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Odinaka00(m): 10:08am On Oct 11, 2012
This story is nt well written

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by HayZee06(m): 10:11am On Oct 11, 2012
petipeti: So in islam, one's guidian can sell him or her? I allways tell my muslem friends to disregard sentiment. Islam jst started like Boko haram with its members. Remember how muhamad died after eating poisoned meat(prophet) .Even odinary perikoma wont die of poison. Muhamad was fucking d most prity gal in khalid after killing her husband yet u guys ar following this satanic militant. Why nt worship Fela,2pac etc. Rubbish people.
U are d greatest fool with ₪☺ common sense @all, hw does dis relate 2 (prophet Muhammed). If u av notin reasonable 2 talk abt why nt kip quiet dan writing rubbish u knw nothing abt....this is d type of pple dat cause religion palava.....#DumbAss

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Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by ifeomabernard(f): 10:12am On Oct 11, 2012
dridowu: I dnt even undastand d whole superstory............summary pls


Mohammed died at the age of 63, meaning he was 50 years old when he married 7 year old Aisha.
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by bolseas(f): 10:12am On Oct 11, 2012
@ serialink, i dont think you read the article properly.
karl max:

Based on a prediction that his fortune would experience a leap, should he be married to a 12-year-old, a septuagenarian is hell bent on exchanging marital vows with the pre-teen girl despite the protestations of the mother. Olalekan Olabulo reports.



According to her, a certain Mallam Alli had told Mairago that he had a dream that if he could marry Aminat, his riches would multiply. Meirago believed Mallam Alli and instantly approached the father of Aminat, Alhaji Hamisu Aliyu, now deceased, asking for the hand of his daughter in marriage.

http://tribune.com.ng/index.php/lead-stories/49024-70-yr-old-man-insists-on-marrying-12-yr-old-to-boost-wealth
it is not because of any religious reason.
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by ifeomabernard(f): 10:13am On Oct 11, 2012
Mohammed died at the age of 63, meaning he was 50 years old when he married 7 year old Aisha. shocked shocked
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by snowprince01(m): 10:14am On Oct 11, 2012
Since 2001...d girl should b like 22 or 23, so wat d Bleep..if she cnt decide @ her age let her marry a 600yrs old man for all I care..How does dis story raise me moni for my masters mtcheeewww!!
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by ifeomabernard(f): 10:14am On Oct 11, 2012
Mohammed died at the age of 63, meaning he was 50 years old when he married 7 year old Aisha. shocked shocked
And was the said mohammed dat serve may God help us
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by Odinaka00(m): 10:15am On Oct 11, 2012
HayZee-06:
Is this a build up story or what? Coz I dnt even understand any bit of it

♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ too bro......check †ђξ headline first....a 70yr old man insist on marrying a 12yr old gerl

And this started since 2001? Or maybe †ђξ writer wanted Ť☺ write 2011....I think so
Re: 70-yr-old Man Insists On Marrying 12-yr-old To Boost Wealth by fortyfeet(m): 10:20am On Oct 11, 2012
He should be arrested, tried and jailed for attempted child abuse and harassment.

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