Mrs.Chima:


No...I don't think there is no man in the world that is better than the next man...ALL DOGS STANK IN MY OPINION regardless of breed or pedigree.

Lol all men are not the same but a man is the same regardless of culture no one is better. It's just a matter of preference

carefreewannabe:

but their reputation contradicts this "fact"

Don't generalize. All Nigerian men cannot be the same.
There has to be some which are different

carefreewannabe:

but their reputation contradicts this "fact"

Well there's always men that may the whole have a worse reputation than need be. Like I know a friend mother has a Haitian background and her mother encourages her not to because she see those men as scum one earth. But regardless these are qualities that you may find in any race. Trust me men are men only thing that divides them is language and different contininents

Mynd_44:
Don't generalize. All Nigerian men cannot be the same.
There has to be some which are different

I am not generalizing!
They tend to have a bad reputation. That's not my fault.
Did I say that I share this opinion?

Lovely empress :

Well there's always men that may the whole have a worse reputation than need be. Like I know a friend mother has a Haitian background and her mother encourages her not to because she see those men as scum one earth. But regardless these are qualities that you may find in any race. Trust me men are men only thing that divides them is language and different contininents

I just said that they have a bad reputation. I didn't say I share the view. So why are you trying to teach me?

carefreewannabe:

I am not generalizing!
They tend to have a bad reputation. That's not my fault.
Did I say that I share this opinion?

There is always reputations about everyone. It is then up to you to decide whether you can allow that to come outta your mouth/fingertips

carefreewannabe:

I just said that they have a bad reputation. I didn't say I share the view. So why are you trying to teach me?

No one is trying to teach you it was a general comment if you take offense to me sharing an opinion I don't know what to tell you. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion

Mynd_44:
There is always reputations about everyone. It is then up to you to decide whether you can allow that to come outta your mouth/fingertips

Exactly, some have a good reputation and some others don't. It has come outta my fingertips as a reaction to some other post. So what?

Lovely empress :

No one is trying to teach you it was a general comment if you take offense to me sharing an opinion I don't know what to tell you. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion

I haven't taken offense. I just had the feeling that you read too much into my post.

carefreewannabe:

I haven't taken offense. I just had the feeling that you read too much into my post.

No just making a comment

carefreewannabe:

Exactly, some have a good reputation and some others don't. It has come outta my fingertips as a reaction to some other post. So what?

Should what other people say affect the way you reason? Especially when you know they are just being silly?

Lovely empress :

No just making a comment

You told me to trust you ... because?
Anyway. I didn't mean to have an argument with you. Just wanted to make sure that we don't misunderstand each other.

Mynd_44:
Should what other people say affect the way you reason? Especially when you know they are just being silly?

How does it affect the way I reason?

Lovely empress :


Lol all men are not the same but a man is the same regardless of culture no one is better. It's just a matter of preference

Reread what I said...let me help you...I said all DOGS stank and there is no man better than the next man.


You are welcome.

carefreewannabe:

How does it affect the way I reason?

Ask me again

[quote author=carefreewannabe]

You told me to trust you ... because?
Anyway. I didn't mean to have an argument with you. Just wanted to make sure that we don't misunderstand each other. [/quote Trust me due to experience people in my family are so adimant on preaching that a particular culture is superior when it comes to mating. No agrument just a misunderstanding no big deal

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]

Reread what I said...let me help you...I said all DOGS stank and there is no man better than the next man.


You are welcome.
Lol

Mynd_44:
Ask me again

Not so important

@POster, it depends on your destiny, fate. Any man can be good and any man can be bad. Also , a good man today can be a devil incarnate tomorrow not minding race or status and a bad man can be an Angel tomorrow. What is key is to watch out for compatibility between you and who so ever you want to roll with. As a Naija boy, we dont open doors of cars for you to come in but we will spend our last kobo to satisfy our Wife and children needs.

Okontami: @POster, it depends on your destiny, fate. Any man can be good and any man can be bad. Also , a good man today can be a devil incarnate tomorrow not minding race or status and a bad man can be an Angel tomorrow. What is key is to watch out for compatibility between you and who so ever you want to roll with. As a Naija boy, we dont open doors of cars for you to come in but we will spend our last kobo to satisfy our Wife and children needs.

You are very right we all have a soul mate so to say. I appreciate your insight

LMAO@won't open the doors but we will pay for that toto!

carefreewannabe:

Not so important

Now you are being smart

Mrs.Chima:
LMAO@won't open the doors but we will pay for that toto!

Madam, some things are not part of us no matter how polished we want to act. If it is to care for the family, show love and help with house chores, yes we will. We also like fresh toto that have not turn to public property, free for all. Not necessarily virgin, but a girl with good record in the area.

Okontami: Madam, some things are not part of us no matter how polished we want to act. If it is to care for the family, show love and help with house chores, yes we will. We also like fresh toto that have not turn to public property, free for all. Not necessarily virgin, but a girl with good record in the area.

A ho toto isn't fresh even the virgin ones. You are sharing with hundreds of other men that had the pleasure of playing, "Where is the Pearly Tongue?"

You are right...buying toto is more refined than opening doors. Gotcha! I am all for stimulating country's economy! No pun intended!

Okontami: Madam, some things are not part of us no matter how polished we want to act. If it is to care for the family, show love and help with house chores, yes we will. We also like fresh toto that have not turn to public property, free for all. Not necessarily virgin, but a girl with good record in the area.

Lol no one would want a toto that everyone has had a turn. I believe that is a given

Mrs.Chima:


A ho toto isn't fresh even the virgin ones. You are sharing with hundreds of other men that had the pleasure of playing, "Where is the Pearly Tongue?"

You are right...buying toto is more refined than opening doors. Gotcha! I am all for stimulating country's economy! No pun intended!

But my country man is really doing a good job on you I can bet with my life. Am sure you appreciate all those roots he is using. Give your testimony so that every body will see. Singing "come and see oooo,come and see, come and see that the lord is good."

Okontami: But my country man is really doing a good job on you I can bet with my life. Am sure you appreciate all those roots he is using. Give your testimony syou o that every body will see. Singing "come and see oooo,come and see, come and see that the lord is good."

What roots are you referring to and what has your Lord has done good?

Mrs.Chima:


What roots are you referring to and what has your Lord has done good?

Since you dont know, that means he is not using it. It is a cure for Jedi dedi (Ask your neighbor. The root is called opa eyin, paraga, ale). if used properly, our spouses always sing praises early in the morning when they are taking their shower. Am so sorry for confusing you.

Lovely empress :
Do Nigerian men date outside their culture? If so would they be willing to teach their woman the culture or do they find that as more of a hassle?

just learn d language n foods, other artefacts slip in with time.

Okontami: Since you dont know, that means he is not using it. It is a cure for Jedi dedi (Ask your neighbor. The root is called opa eyin, paraga, ale). if used properly, our spouses always sing praises early in the morning when they are taking their shower. Am so sorry for confusing you.

I rebuke the roots in the power of Holy Spirit. Selah! What led you to believe that your country man did a number on me?

I am curious.

Before I derail this thread, please lets come back. Nigerian men are very hard working, go-getters and focused. Fun to be with,but in every environment you will see the Judas. We have bad eggs who have given us bad names. I just hope we will all learn to respect our core values and act right always.

Okontami: Before I derail this thread, please lets come back. Nigerian men are very hard working, go-getters and focused. Fun to be with,but in every environment you will see the Judas. We have bad eggs who have given us bad names. I just hope we will all learn to respect our core values and act right always.

She didn't ask about the reputation of Nigerian men...she wants to know can Nigerian men date outside of their culture and teach the women their culture?