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Yes, forgiving is a rare virtue, its a gift.

nxanadu: if ur wife had serious problem wit u & u beat her up b4 going to ur biz. in d morning, she now went to meet her x-guy who always treat her right to sleep with her. after like 2 months, u guys came back at right. her conscience could not allow her. she could not pray well any more to God. she's always angry with herself for sleeping wit another man after marriage. she couldn't hold it no more that she woke u up one night to confess to u. what would u do?

You cheated on her first by beating her up. You are to honour and love your wife like Christ loved the Church, you cheated her out of her portion of honour and love. Whether you can forgive her? Why not? She has forgiven you for cheating on her too(if she hasn't she won't be confessing her adultery to you). Remember part of the Lord's prayer ' forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us'.

Next time, don't cheat her out of the honour and love she is due from you, and she will not feel so disrepected, dishonoured and vulnerable enough to foolishly seek solace in the arms of another man. A godly man keeps his own house, not tear it down with his own hands.