bjcole: @ dare2think, i dont ve problem seeing a female doctor, but i cant remember going to one to inspect my private part or help shave d hair, or check if i my balls are still present, I dont why we cant compare things appropriately. Anyway thks 4 contributing

jidegirl12: I had male Gynaecologist and they are even old to be my father and my hubby's always with me for check ups , Pap tests and examination down there. So relax like people already said, it's nothing to them, I wonder what goes on in those gynaecologists brains during examinations ? tough work .

dare2think: nothing wrong!

except you have problem seeing a female doctor when you are ill too!

jidegirl12: I had male Gynaecologist and they are even old to be my father and my hubby's always with me for check ups , Pap tests and examination down there.

So relax like people already said, it's nothing to them,

I wonder what goes on in those gynaecologists brains during examinations ? tough work .

ifyalways: OP, does your wife, she whose body was torn, have a say ?

You can as well get needle and sew her up, no?

If this is a trick question, I jump and pass.

drnoel:
If only u knew better,...but I won't enlighten u and would prefer to allow u wallow in ur ignorance

denzel2009: Just buy singer machine and sew it yourself. You can put a button sef.

dare2think:




The only person wallowing in ignorance is you and your 1950's thinking!

In this day and age, how can one be worried of the gender of a health professional? are you serious!

Shouldn't the health and ability of the person come first?

So because you may have heard of funny stories about certain doctors you limit the scope of competency based on gender!

Why not go live in saudi arabia?

Perhaps, when next a woman is going to open a bank account, the bank manager, cashiers and even the gate man must be women too!

mondi_cheeks: he is jus doing his job its not like he is going to have sexual intercourse wit her after stitching her up

bjcole: thks madam, i knw this is purely clinical, but is[b] my concept & approval [/b]not necessary b4 this can be done? Now if i express my reservation based on what i heard or knw abt some of them, is it out of place? i dnt why retarded ladies like debrief & her cohorts will always make useless comments here. who m i 2 jealous of, u or my wife.

baby_123: Details are important here. What does she need the gynae for? His expertise or a particular procedure he is renowned for. I think you should talk to her, and both of you agree on what is best.Don't force your insecurities on her if she really needs the guys help. But if its a routine procedure, I think she can compromise. Personally, I feel very uncomfortable with a man prodding and probing down there. No matter how professional. I have done my bi-yearly cervical exam with a male gynae before, and I almost died of embarassment. He was professional though. I just think with a woman, I can ask questions which she can relate to and I won't be rotflmao from shame, on my way home.

bjcole:
@debrief & cohorts u r all retarded, if viginal has been used for all form nonsense like u said with ur mouth, so someone else must do same. A viginal that has been used by all available dick & harry, battered left & right 4rm teenage, why will it be new. U come here & comment, fools. get more knowledge, then u will ve brain & think twice b4 u open ur dirty viginal for them to plaster.

bjcole:
@debrief & cohorts u r all retarded, if viginal has been used for all form nonsense like u said with ur mouth, so someone else must do same. A viginal that has been used by all available dick & harry, battered left & right 4rm teenage, why will it be new. U come here & comment, fools. get more knowledge, then u will ve brain & think twice b4 u open ur dirty viginal for them to plaster.

baby_123:

Are you really married? Why are you throwing infantile insults up and down because people have other opinions. You opened a thread and people put up their own opinion. Frankly, I hope you don't verbally abuse your wife when she disagrees. I don't think she needs your consent to see a gynae male or female. She can talk to you about it and you can talk to her about how you feel. Both of you can agree to a decision. These people are professionals and well trained. Nothing special about your wife's vagina. Am sure they have seen better and tighter. So please Mr. Man respect yourself and at least put yourself together and come across as a mature, married man. I can't believe anyone will marry someone that throws insults so quickly. Please reexamine yourself and your attitude. Your name is cool by the way. Benjamin Cole?

bjcole:
@debrief & cohorts u r all retarded, if viginal has been used for all form nonsense like u said with ur mouth, so someone else must do same. A viginal that has been used by all available dick & harry, battered left & right 4rm teenage, why will it be new. U come here & comment, fools. get more knowledge, then u will ve brain & think twice b4 u open ur dirty viginal for them to plaster.

debrief08:
Disagree ke? She dare not. WHo does she think she is? His words and decisions are law, how else would you explain sitting there with a tear from too much hot waer and waiting for her husband to decide if he will "approve and consent" to a professional male Gynea.

bjcole: a lot goes on in their brain, Those dat r close 2 them know, they only act professionally in ur presence, A man is man Dr or no Dr.