GO BALLS OUT
Confidence is almost always ranked by guys as the most attractive trait a woman can have, so ooze it. Next time you’re going out with your girls, get a blowout and throw on your favourite mini. You’ll totally feel like working the room.

TALK YOURSELF UP
Yeah, it sounds kinda cheesy, but it’s super important to remind yourself that you kick ass. Walk down the street thinking “I am sexy, and any guy would be lucky to talk to me.” Trust us, it makes a difference in how you act.

BE A GREAT LISTENER
This is crazy-important: Flirting is all about making the person you’re with feel like the center of the universe—so you might have to stroke his ego a bit. Ask questions, listen to his answers, and ask follow-ups. For example, that drool-worthy dude you’ll bump into in a Arizona Cardinals tee—ask how long he’s been a fan, and follow up with another question. It’s the perfect way to get conversation flowing.

FOLLOW THE TWO-SECOND RULE
Next time you spot a hottie on the subway or standing across the bar, make it a point to

a.) smile and

b.) make eye contact for two seconds.

That dude will fly over to you.

BRING IN REINFORCEMENTS
Nothing catches a guy’s eye more than a flock of sexy women. Grab a fun friend or two—the backup will boost your confidence. Just make sure to let them know that when you start connecting with someone, they can back off.

My take: Be careful who you bring along….Some friends are not worth taking for such adventures.

GET HANDS-Y
Guys repeatedly tell us they notice when a girl reaches out and touches them—and they freaking love it. So lay your hand on his arm when you’re making a point. He’ll dig how special it makes him feel.

HAVE AN EXIT STRATEGY
The problem with being a total flirt? Sometimes you reel in guys you realize you’re just not that into. It’s important to have an exit strategy. Try, “I promised to meet a friend for a discussion, but it was great to meet you.”

Courtesy: http://marriageessence./2012/11/12/how-to-flirt-with-him-without-losing-your-respect/