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What can make you keep malice with somebody?

Nah...Malice is not my thing...I just ignore and avoid asssholes.

roymary: Nah...Malice is not my thing...I just ignore and avoid asssholes.

true words...but i must confess...I DO hold grudges.
For me once that line is crossed it's pretty much over.

Because even if I do accept someone's apology it would NEVER be the same. Apparently I have inherited that trait from my mom who is FAR worse!

No i don't.

Malice is for the immature. Many people in this world will offend you. You just need to forgive and move on.

obowunmi: Malice is for the immature. Many people in this world will offend you. You just need to forgive and move on.

[color=#000030]Very true statement. I learnt this the hard way.

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Nice diary bro

i wonder why everybody on topics like this, tend to form like they never do what the thread is about.

Not in talking terms with a friend of almost seven yrs, we've had more serious bone-of-contention compared to the one causing the rife and we sorted things out, I just hate the ish called malice, but what can one do when you're stretched to the breaking point?

To be sincere to myself, and also to evrione.

Yea, i do keep malice.

Once u are in my bad book, u will remain there 4eva. Even, wen i forgive, it can neva be like before.

Hardly,but when I do,its for lifetime.There is this aunty of mine that I have been keeping malice with for 11years now... 

I have not seen someone important enough to keep malice against. It is just pointless and when/if you get to that point, you cease to exist to me

I don't care what anyone thinks,I keep malice well. Infact,na hobby to me. Once I sense any form of disrespect in your conversation or attitude towards me,I cut U. I can stare at U for eternity without saying a word. Ive been off words or any form of interaction with my neighbours since 99. Its just my own way of not tolerating shit

Its very difficult keeping malice with my fellow guy but when a lady angers me in a very disrespectful way and doesn't show remorse, I automatically switch on my 'IDGAF' attitude and that's it.

nyere84: To be sincere to myself, and also to evrione.

Yea, i do keep malice.

Once u are in my bad book, u will remain there 4eva. Even, wen i forgive, it can neva be like before.

exactly..

especially when the crime is "betrayal"

I'd forgive you but at least 1 star drops from your rating

Its childish and its immature...but unfortunately I do it.
I can't help it sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I could end up reconciling with the person(s) in question, but for some people, its just hard.
I just stay away from them

I don't. I consider it a waste of energy and my peace of mind.

Luv this topic... Malice seems so immature to me, but have come to understand there are lines people shouldn't cross. If I have issue with someone and for days he/she keep giving me this staright face or On nd Off attitude. I'll stoop low for some time and play the bigger man role, but once I notice stupidity is setting in... Without wasting time I'll off d person, but will have a soft nd free heart once u've learn from ur mistake and ready to put d past behind.


And for dose dat keep malice pls learn to forgive, cant say much on forget cos I don't think it is possibly, the memory wil sure be, but jst take vengeance off ur mind.