Efemena_xy: Methinks "Personality" and "Cultural Upbringing" has a role to play here.

You'll find more often than not, it's the women who stay "faithful" to cheating spouses...

Or maybe, they "appear" to be faithful, but are getting their kicks just as well, except that they do it discreetly / secretly.

Methinks "Personality" and "Cultural Upbringing" has a role to play here.

You'll find more often than not, it's the women who stay "faithful" to cheating spouses...

Or maybe, they "appear" to be faithful, but are getting their kicks just as well, except that they do it discreetly / secretly.

dahonestboss: Efemena xy


I don't think its a personal thing or its attached to any cultural or social upbringing. there are no evidence that relates cultural upbringing with sexual feelings. even in a country like Saudi Arabia or Pakistan where islamic religion is practice, people still cheat on their spouse.

if its personality, the question still stands. doess he/she no longer find others attractive? or they chose to still remain faithful considering their *personality and/or marriage rules?

JallowBah:

Many people give in to that first thought, and take it further, instead of turning their back.

ferhyntorlah:

JallowBah,

You have a point. I once heard someone say that one can't avoid the first look but one can avoid the second look.

obadiah777: cuz the lords wrath is deadly. ask that hamzat guy

obadiah777: cuz the lords wrath is deadly. ask that hamzat guy

POTUT: For me, I don't find any other woman sexually worthy anymore. An ex once tried to chat me up two weeks after my wedding and I turned get flat down, even though she was very good when it was going...perhaps the best, but a strong canceling anchor hooked me when I said "...I do".
Paper attraction and first looks will always be there...but a sixth sense should hold everyone back, because when you look back after the act, you'll truly feel worthless inside, even if you don't show it.
Couples who cheat on themselves simply take their marriage for granted.

POTUT: For me, I don't find any other woman sexually worthy anymore. An ex once tried to chat me up two weeks after my wedding and I turned get flat down, even though she was very good when it was going...perhaps the best, but a strong canceling anchor hooked me when I said "...I do".
Paper attraction and first looks will always be there...but a sixth sense should hold everyone back, because when you look back after the act, you'll truly feel worthless inside, even if you don't show it.
Couples who cheat on themselves simply take their marriage for granted.

POTUT: For me, I don't find any other woman sexually worthy anymore. An ex once tried to chat me up two weeks after my wedding and I turned get flat down, even though she was very good when it was going...perhaps the best, but a strong canceling anchor hooked me when I said "...I do".
Paper attraction and first looks will always be there...but a sixth sense should hold everyone back, because when you look back after the act, you'll truly feel worthless inside, even if you don't show it.
Couples who cheat on themselves simply take their marriage for granted.

odehaj: But is there any thing like cheating on spouse as regards to the Muslim man?Just asking since they are entitled to four wives&many concubines outside marriage.