Mustay: Some people feel they must 'hammer' or get to a certain position first before marrying - I want to believe that's where your question is coming from.

Before or after marriage, one needs to manage responsibilities adequately as they come.

It must be noted that before marriage (aka home alone), you're selfish and you do have enough time for yourself and career but this could also backlash and prevent you from having time for your prospective other half - also, people tend to seek a HOME (not a house) to go to after the day's work which a marriage provides for ceteris paribus.
Some people also want to get to a certain level so that when they marry, they have enough time for their children as they have become more like consultants but the reality is YOLO - it is difficult to delay.

So, whichever way you plan your personal + career life, just remember the effects of each one and ask yourself if you can deal with.

i fall into this category,because i find it highly unreasonable not to invest in yourself financially,intellectually and others ESPECIALLY AS A WOMAN LIVING IN NIGERIA AND LIVING AMONG A MIXTURE OF HUMAN BEINGS AND BEASTS before marriage and later bank on love

Before marriage and a while into the marriage when you both must have worked out a way in which the marriage won't be adversely affected by a career leap. This is what I plan on doing sha. Extra advice is welcome.

Am just me: When is it the best time to achieve a lot in one's career? Is it before or after marriage?

Does success have an expiry date?
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The bert time for me is before marriage, cause its relatively difficult to satisfy your marriage, especialy with kids and still pursue your goals 100%

Am just me: When is it the best time to achieve a lot in one's career? Is it before or after marriage?

It could be anytime.
But if you're banking on after marriage, then you must choose a wife or husband that will enable you
and not pull you down

:oIts depend on how life turn 2 U opportunity can come anytime b4 or after marriage. Marriage its self is an opportunity don't miss it cos u are pursuing a carrier . It like throwing 7 balls at you and asking u to catch any of them, you might choose to catch all at once and lose all at a go. A step @ a time. U can be whatever u wanna be grab opportunity as they come married or unmarried.

Thx to y'all! Ur comments have been awesome.