It may be easy when someone says i love you...but do they really love you? thats why i say LOVE IS ACTION... You can tell if someone really love you trough their actions/deeds....
So my question for you is: how do you know when someone really love you

op how do you want someone to prove to you that he/she loves you other than the care, attention, commitment and affection.

what kind of deeds and actions do you want before you understand that someone loves you other than the qualities i mentioned above. OR are you among in the school of thought that money is the deed/action to proof one's love for you.

Na wa o............... according to 190 " nigerian girls"....................lolzzzzzzzzzzz

If d person can die 4 u........with proof ooo!

Wow!!!!

babyface333: op how do you want someone to prove to you that he/she loves you other than the care, attention, commitment and affection.

what kind of deeds and actions do you want before you understand that someone loves you other than the qualities i mentioned above. OR are you among in the school of thought that money is the deed/action to proof one's love for you.

Na wa o............... according to 190 " nigerian girls"....................lolzzzzzzzzzzz

Sometimews I wonder what these people are searching for... Is care not shown through action? Is action not given through attention? Is action not shown in commitment? or maybe what she meant was action through showing financial concern and all that crap... No wonder 190 is weary of Naija gurlz. Lol

dmcdad:

Sometimews I wonder what these people are searching for... Is care not shown through action? Is action not given through attention? Is action not shown in commitment? or maybe what she meant was action through showing financial concern and all that crap... No wonder 190 is weary of Naija gurlz. Lol

actions means leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, listen to her even wen she seems like she isn't making sense to u, being loyal to her, supporting her, giving her a foot rub after she spent the whole day cleaning up after u...

Showing action through care, commitment, responsibility, emotions should definitely define love, but in Nigeria if you don't show girls the colour of notes in your wallet. you don't love them!

mondi_cheeks: actions means leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, listen to her even wen she seems like she isn't making sense to u, being loyal to her, supporting her, giving her a foot rub after she spent the whole day cleaning up after u...

Babies! i know u gals love to be pampered but it gets to a level you become 'spoilt' and begin to lose reapect for your man.And what do we get in return? We continue spending in cash and kind...

binger:
Babies! i know u gals love to be pampered but it gets to a level you become 'spoilt' and begin to lose reapect for your man.And what do we get in return? We continue spending in cash and kind...

none of the things I mentioned above require money. Where is the money thing coming from?

mondi_cheeks: actions means leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, listen to her even wen she seems like she isn't making sense to u, being loyal to her, supporting her, giving her a foot rub after she spent the whole day cleaning up after u...

leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, now this is attention and was acknowledged in my post.. and also some of the things you highlighted could also fall on one or more of what I did acknowledge in my post.n Anywayz, I really know how it goes just that most are craving for things other than what you made mention of but certainly not all them gurlz but most. Don't you agree?

dmcdad:

leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, now this is attention and was acknowledged in my post.. and also some of the things you highlighted could also fall on one or more of what I did acknowledge in my post.n Anywayz, I really know how it goes just that most are craving for things other than what you made mention of but certainly not all them gurlz but most. Don't you agree?

I don't agree

mondi_cheeks: I don't agree

WTH! I didnt say all gurlz but most gurls are looking for something (The bar) other than what you made mention of and you don't agree?

Now you dont wanna be sincere...

dmcdad:

WTH! I didnt say all gurlz but most gurls are looking for something (The bar) other than what you made mention of and you don't agree?

Now you dont wanna be sincere...

have u ever tried anything I made mention of?

mondi_cheeks: have u ever tried anything I made mention of?

I eat with those things you made mention of.. The fact that I am responding this way doesnt mean I falter on those areas. I can do anything ethically possible for the one I love not even watching my favourite Barcelona & Madrid match nor playing game on Play Station would stop me. I sure know how to priotise things and the one I love is always a top priority. But face it my dear, you know what I said is true. Right?

mondi_cheeks: none of the things I mentioned above require money. Where is the money thing coming from?

hian!Where did i say it requires money?

dmcdad:

I eat with those things you made mention of.. The fact that I am responding this way doesnt mean I falter on those areas. I can do anything ethically possible for the one I love not even watching my favourite Barcelona & Madrid match nor playing game on Play Station would stop me. I sure know how to priotise things and the one I love is always a top priority. But face it my dear, you know what I said is true. Right?

but u hvent done any of it yet. I don't agree wit u becos its not true, the moment a guy becomes selfless a matured woman will know well enough to keep him by doing the same for him

binger:
hian!Where did i say it requires money?

u said u will continue to spend in CASH and kind. How else do u spoil person?

mondi_cheeks: but u hvent done any of it yet. I don't agree wit u becos its not true, the moment a guy becomes selfless a matured woman will know well enough to keep him by doing the same for him

I havent done any of what?

I ment about this topic that: it is easy to say ,i love you. But it dont mean anything only in words but it must be done into action to mean something, and i am N O T talking about money or financial.. Or to put it another way, how do you know your man/woman loves you? Tell me what makes u so sure He/she loves you just because he/she told u so? or he/she did something special for you that made you feel loved?

mondi_cheeks: but u hvent done any of it yet. I don't agree wit u becos its not true, the moment a guy becomes selfless a matured woman will know well enough to keep him by doing the same for him

I quoted u on this yesterday and I'm doing so now so you can acknowledge. What did you say I haven't done yet?

dmcdad:

I quoted u on this yesterday and I'm doing so now so you can acknowledge. What did you say I haven't done yet?

rub her feet after a long day of work? Listen to her even if u cnt relate to wat she is saying

mondi_cheeks: rub her feet after a long day of work? Listen to her even if u cnt relate to wat she is saying

Sure! I can do that. I did those several times in the past.. There is no big deal there...