Can anyone of you object the union of couples at a wedding ceremony after the priest might have asked everyone. Just because one of the couples have offended you in the past, so wud u raise your hand up.
As for me i dont think i can do it, so that i wont spoil thier weddin. What abt u?

Do you have the mind to face the aftermath? Besides wetin concern you for matter of people that have agreed to stay together. Shey na titanic love abi. Wait after objecting let her brothers beat you to a pulp. You think wedding arrangement and planning is easy abi?

baby_123: Do you have the mind to face the aftermath? Besides wetin concern you for matter of people that have agreed to stay together. Shey na titanic love abi. Wait after objecting let her brothers beat you to a pulp. You think wedding arrangement and planning is easy abi?

true talk oo, no wonder its very rare. Bt come to think of it, it is the bride that panic the most whenever such question is asked in the church.

didnt you read about the guy [was he a doctor? ] who did such at his girlfriend's wedding some years ago in lagos, and almost didnt live to tell the tale due to the thorough beating he received from the audience?

oluswaggz: Can anyone of you object the union of couples at a wedding ceremony after the priest might have asked everyone. Just because one of the couples have offended you in the past, so wud u raise your hand up.
As for me i dont think i can do it, so that i wont spoil thier weddin. What abt u?

it's a very horrible thing to do....
heaven knows i am hiring enough mopol on my wedding to taser any intruding lunatic that might want to ruin my big day. only a twät would actually do such....

tpia1: didnt you read about the guy [was he a doctor? ] who did such at his girlfriend's wedding some years ago in lagos, and almost didnt live to tell the tale due to the thorough beating he received from the audience?

so y shud d pastor ask wen dey kno its not adviceable for som1 to object

I would never do that for any reason whatsoever...!!!!

coogar:

it's a very horrible thing to do....
heaven knows i am hiring enough mopol on my wedding to taser any intruding lunatic that might want to ruin my big day. only a twät would actually do such....

lmao..
Someone's afraid of his sins catching up with him....

I can't,i simply can't,IMPOSSICAN'T

oluswaggz:
so y shud d pastor ask wen dey kno its not adviceable for som1 to object

usually one wouldnt expect the whole thing to degenerate to that level, but it does happens that there are objections sometimes.

as to how to handle such, i have no idea.

slimyem: I would never do that for any reason whatsoever...!!!!

lmao..
Someone's afraid of his sins catching up with him....

there's always a twit somewhere hoping to ruin the day.....you can't be too careful!


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I can. But I wouldn't come empty-handed.

I cant, God forbid!
Of what benefit will dt be for me!

I'd rather send a note annonymously to threaten the living daylight outta them.

If i have anything against a union, i'll stand up. If they don't want anyone to say anything then what's the use of even asking the question in the first place.

I think its wrong for officiating ministers to ask such silly question...in the presbyterian church for instance, you're give a date to report any reason why you feel the marriage shouldn't go on.

Once the given date is elapsed, and no one objects, the Rev. Would give the couples the green light to go ahead with their preparations, and on the wedding day, he won't even bother to ask whether or not the union should be joined together.

I feel that's much better that way...asking it publicly isn't wise...

I cant.

I have done it once, I looked at the bride scornfully, and said I want the wedding to continue...see tension released to laughter...lol no be me ooo na stori I hear!

What Of if na ur Ex?

Yes i can! But that is if i'm very sure that the hubby is not whom he claims to be. Probably a wanted person or an ex-convict.

That action alone will be very embarrassing. That is why lovers should take time to know their partner's past. If he/she is very secretive, use technology to get the truth.

You can discreetly listen to her phone conversation, get a copy of any incoming & outgoing SMS on her phone using this APPLICATION . There is no way you will not run into what you DON'T KNOW about her.

CrazyMan: I think its wrong for officiating ministers to ask such silly question...in the presbyterian church for instance, you're give a date to report any reason why you feel the marriage shouldn't go on.

Once the given date is elapsed, and no one objects, the Rev. Would give the couples the green light to go ahead with their preparations, and on the wedding day, he won't even bother to ask whether or not the union should be joined together.

I feel that's much better that way...asking it publicly isn't wise...

The same thing in my church, Assemblies of God Church.

Don't think i can do that,it 'll b a hunt for ever in my life.Let God b d judge dats all.

Hell no

The question is not asked in Catholic churches. Weeks before the wedding, banns of marriage will be announced in the church and other churches where any of the couple is known. If anyone has an objection, such is expected to inform the priest in the parish before the wedding day.

The bann is always announced for 3 weeks, if no one comes up with an objection, the wedding na carry-go.

All these people wey dey talk say dm dey ask d qstn 3 wks b4 marriage 4 church... What if I dey attend a diff. Church, or I dey another town?.. Na 4 only d weddin day I go fit go d Church.. How una want me to do?

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author=passionate88]All these people wey dey talk say dm dey ask d qstn
3 wks b4 marriage 4 church... What if I dey attend a diff. Church, or I
dey another town?.. Na 4 only d weddin day I go fit go d Church.. How
una want me to do?[/quote]

d priest wont boda to ask again in d church, since they have given u guys 3weeks to respond.

A lot of hypocritical responses.

I can for many valid reasons.

1.If either party were already married
2.If either party were related
3. If either party was an escaped Convicted criminal
4.The planned union is unlawful
5. If its my job to do so as an implementer of the law . E.g all the fake marriages Nigerians do abroad to get papers.

If you don't stop it, the marriage will be deemed invalid due to the circumstances in which it took place so you are saving them both a lot of heartache in future .

No Qualms: The question is not asked in Catholic churches. Weeks before the wedding, banns of marriage will be announced in the church and other churches where any of the couple is known. If anyone has an objection, such is expected to inform the priest in the parish before the wedding day.

The bann is always announced for 3 weeks, if no one comes up with an objection, the wedding na carry-go.

That's the Catholic way, you just said my mind.

No Qualms: The question is not asked in Catholic churches. Weeks before the wedding, banns of marriage will be announced in the church and other churches where any of the couple is known. If anyone has an objection, such is expected to inform the priest in the parish before the wedding day.

The bann is always announced for 3 weeks, if no one comes up with an objection, the wedding na carry-go.

But if you get married when you are not free to but lied then the marriage will be invalid . The 'marriage' is stopped but in a different way.

Its not good to do such thing but when i felt the pains of disappointment so much that it caused me so many things, i thought of doing it and surely i would have done it but thank God my friend understood that she need to wait for me for just few months and she terminated her promise to marry another and came back to me. Its only for one reason she left me, that am not ready to marry her now and her time as a woman is going and if her time goes and i changed my mind, she will be useless. After constant persuation that i would do it soon, she backed off from the other guy who was much ready than i am. I never felt men could have such feelings for a woman but when she told me that she will move on, i couldn't eat for 2-3 days. But when feeling like these are controlled, you won't feel bad. Surely the way i feel then, i would have done it but certainly will regret it later. But i just want to point out that its of no meaning if one say that in a church. In fact, whatever the case may be, the wedding will go on that day. The only place one will say it and it works it in the registration process in court or local government where they give 21 days for objectors to cancel it.

coogar:

it's a very horrible thing to do....
heaven knows i am hiring enough mopol on my wedding to taser any intruding lunatic that might want to ruin my big day. only a twät would actually do such....

Have u done Bad thngs before to ur partners dat will warrant MOPOLs

Its only dos with a Bad Past dat will be scared on der wedding days....
#my2cents

BE811APP:
Have u done Bad thngs before to ur partners dat will warrant MOPOLs

Its only dos with a Bad Past dat will be scared on der wedding days....
#my2cents

i don't need to have done bad things in the past to maintain security on my big day......why do you need seat belts and airbags in your car? is it because you intend to have a car crash?