stillwater: I can. But I wouldn't come empty-handed.

What do you mean you wouldn't come out empty-handed?

@Poster, if you have a valid reason to, you do it and let the pieces fall where they will. I mean if the couple getting married have nothing to hide, then it should not be a big deal. But if there is something that needs to be cleared up, it is likely in the benefit of the unaffected party that it be dealt with because it becomes a burden on the relationship, in the future.

I mean if your fiance is keeping a second family on the side(kids and mama complete) wouldn't you want to know of it before you make the mistake of wedding such a person? I bet you would be grateful if someone showed up on your wedding day to reveal that truth to you.

Why do you say you cant?

If you see a man or woman you know is married and he/she is also the one on the altar nko?

I dont understand why people with comma in their stories, will still insist on doing " alariwo" wedding as if to dare heaven and earth.

Is it they have money to burn or they feel keeping a low profile is beneath them?

Nigerian churchs re not supposed 2 be asking such questions because in most cases the traditional union has already been done. Nigerians just wanna copy d whites blue black. As 4 d question, i can't try it no matter what

tpia1: I dont understand why people with comma in their stories, will still insist on doing " alariwo" wedding as if to dare heaven and earth.

Is it they have money to burn or they feel keeping a low profile is beneath them?

wetin u mean?

Announcement on the day of wedding is merely ceremonial and not binding. Bans of Marriage is announced three times before the wedding. Any intruder on the wedding day should be bound and thrown out!

jamesbridget13: Nigerian churchs re not supposed 2 be asking such questions because in most cases the traditional union has already been done. Nigerians just wanna copy d whites blue black. As 4 d question, i can't try it no matter what

BS. The church needs to ask whether traditional has happened or not. Since when did the church start taking it's cue from what the folks do at their traditional hookup centre?

That hand will not follow that person back home! Like for real!

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passionate88: All these people wey dey talk say dm dey ask d qstn 3 wks b4 marriage 4 church... What if I dey attend a diff. Church, or I dey another town?.. Na 4 only d weddin day I go fit go d Church.. How una want me to do?

inasmuch as u know the date,time and place of wedding ceremony,you make your feelings known before the ceremony

I don't know the reason why most people are saying they wouldn't object. Is the priest or who ever that's in charge just wasting people's time by being sarcastic. If I were there and I have any grudge or know any hidden stuff that might ruin their marriage in future, I will object to prevent them from it.

The priest isn't bluffing when they asks the question.

If there should b any objection, it should b b4 d wedding n not dat day. Na witchcraft b dat

objecting comes with big consequences.d guy objecting may not live to tell d story.

donedy: I don't know the reason why most people are saying they wouldn't object. Is the priest or who ever that's in charge just wasting people's time by being sarcastic. If I were there and I have any grudge or know any hidden stuff that might ruin their marriage in future, I will object to prevent them from it.

The priest isn't bluffing when they asks the question.

There is one thing I have realized as a Nigerian. Even when the situation is meant to be as easy as ABC, Nigerians still find for themselves a way to complicate it so they can never take advantage of that which is even freely offered.

Just a simple question asked during a ceremony that anyone with a valid reason can raise hand to respond to, but as you can see, people have found a way to demonize those who take advantage of that opportunity when it is presented. The thing wey dey worry the people no be small thing oo.

oluswaggz: Can anyone of you object the union of couples at a wedding ceremony after the priest might have asked everyone. Just because one of the couples have offended you in the past, so wud u raise your hand up.
As for me i dont think i can do it, so that i wont spoil thier weddin. What abt u?

very simple! I can do it.... But that would be in nollyhood

Y NOT!!! if na the wife my pastor tell me say i must marry..

passionate88: All these people wey dey talk say dm dey ask d qstn 3 wks b4 marriage 4 church... What if I dey attend a diff. Church, or I dey another town?.. Na 4 only d weddin day I go fit go d Church.. How una want me to do?

Get to the church before the wedding ceremony starts and register your complain with the priest in charge. Shikena

No Qualms:

Get to the church before the wedding ceremony starts and register your complain with the priest in charge. Shikena

Why not wait till when the question is formally asked so that all the witnesses can hear what you have to say? Or were you born gutless

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