there is this lady i have been falling for for about two years now. The reason i did not make a move before now is becos i am a shy guy. I was told she is single at present. I have finally overcome my shyness a lil bit and we talk a bit more just before we were asked to vacate the school. I told her she could go for MBGN(i meant it. she pass for a model) and she felt flattered. She told me she is nuturing that ambition already. She also told me she could show me pics of some of her auditions.
Although, i have not told her about my feelings but as a smart woman, she must be suspecting me as my body language clearly shows.
Recently, i sent her an e mail but she did not reply. I know she has seen the email. My question is what does this mean? Does it mean its a red card or she doesnt want to make it simple?

NB: sometimes she is very friendly. Other times, she is reluctant to talk to me.

1 she doesn't want to make it simple
2 she isnt interested
3 she is "short of words"


tell us, wats d content of the mail?

ok i will send it.

hello! I saw you on my friends suggestion (i think it is becos we both have a mutual friend) so i said i should leave you a message.
It is unfortunate i couldnt get to see those
pictures you wanted me to see before we
were asked to vacate the school.
I want you to know that i believe in your
abilities and your ambition. You turned down
my previous request to have your contact so i
dont know if i can send you a friend request
now.
I would like to keep in touch with you to
know how you are progressing in your
ambition to be Naomi Cambell. The crown
would be so nice on you lol.
BTW, miss nigeria application form is out. I
thought you might be interested and check it
out on their website.

thats it.

You'r beating around the bush @op,..... Be confident and let her know your feelings before sharp badt guys collect food from your mouth.

Sijo01: You'r beating around the bush @op,..... Be confident and let her know your feelings before sharp badt guys collect food from your mouth.

exactly, op, u said a lot without saying anything... girls dont lyk guys like dat. make a move, a bold move and let her know wat u really feel and want.

if i were her, i sure wont reply coz i wont know wat to write. so, y not send her another mail, and this time, tell her wat u want but try not to bore her with a lenghty mail, concise and persuasive l do

Sijo01: You'r beating around the bush @op,..... Be confident and let her know your feelings before sharp badt guys collect food from your mouth.

i know. And the thought of her being with someone else scares me. The thing is, there is an obvious difference between us ( ihate to admit it) and i am so much afraid that it could be a factor. So i just want to do it the slow way so that she can be sure of my feelings for her. NB: all i said in that mail, i meant it! I do, in my fantacy, see her wear the miss world crown. It gives me pleasant feeling.

gree-die:

exactly, op, u said a lot without saying anything... girls dont lyk guys like dat. make a move, a bold move and let her know wat u really feel and want.

if i were her, i sure wont reply coz i wont know wat to write. so, y not send her another mail, and this time, tell her wat u want but try not to bore her with a lenghty mail, concise and persuasive l do

ok, i will tell her. But we are out of school now and i would like to do it face to face

op, wats dis obvious difference?
slow is good but wat if someone dat isnt slow sweeps her off her feet first? or u think other guys dont see wat u see?

thanks alot and you two have been so helpful much more than i asked. Thanks ones more.

souldust: ok, i will tell her. But we are out of school now and i would like to do it face to face

yea, thats better.

gree-die:
op, wats dis obvious difference?
slow is good but wat if someone dat isnt slow sweeps her off her feet first? or u think other guys dont see wat u see?

obvious difference.....HEIGHT! She is way taller. I am constantly afraid of the concern you raised. She is going to be my first attempt ever. I am afraid she might turn me down.

souldust: obvious difference.....HEIGHT! She is way taller. I am constantly afraid of the concern you raised. She is going to be my first attempt ever. I am afraid she might turn me down.

i understand, but wat do u have to lose? just give it a try

dont worry abt the height thingy,if she likes u, it wont matter
but u have to act NOW

look, stop beating around the bush jare n hit the nail on the wall. she has only 4 answers for you.

1. yes
2. no
3. she doesnt even say anything
4. i have a boyfriend

bottomline, at the end of the day you re either gonna move on with her or move on without her. so LEARN TO MOVE ON.

there re many fishes in the ocean. truth is she isnt as special as u think, u made her special which is awesome. u can make another special so stop this your rat chase, oh someone help game jare.

can u do me a favor, type model into google, if its only her name n picture that shows up, then u have a problem, she is the only one, which means u need to act faster. lol. if millions search results show up, well there isnt anything to loose cos there re millions others am sure hotter than her. lol

she's taller than you, er, so what.

school is closed?, better, why? u have an opportunity to murder shyness and go to her house n hit her there. simple.

if school starts n she's hooked nko?

Forget that girl. Focus your energy and enthusiasm elsewhere.

@op...P4VS20 has said it all...worst that can happen is her telling you no...tell her ow u feel ..better try and fail than not try atall..but to be honest,this chic will not fall for you..dats d bitter truth..going by the way u've described her..she is way way pretty nd she knows it..she has no time for small timid boys..,nd moreover she is d very first gal you intend asking out...I suggest you leave her nd build up ur confidence by asking out nd playing with other not too fine gals...who knows,by your final year,u might just snatch up this chic..my 2 cents tho

souldust: i know. And the thought of her being with someone else scares me. The thing is, there is an obvious difference between us ( ihate to admit it) and i am so much afraid that it could be a factor. So i just want to do it the slow way so that she can be sure of my feelings for her. NB: all i said in that mail, i meant it! I do, in my fantacy, see her wear the miss world crown. It gives me pleasant feeling.

young man, abeg throway fantasy for ground jor, and stop been a dreamer or being lost in ur reverie, tell her u love her and would want to date her, and nothin else would make u a fulfiled man except u have a lady like her as urs. Send her such sweet mails and not been the MBGN crap.

souldust: i know. And the thought of her being with someone else scares me. The thing is, there is an obvious difference between us ( ihate to admit it) and i am so much afraid that it could be a factor. So i just want to do it the slow way so that she can be sure of my feelings for her. NB: all i said in that mail, i meant it! I do, in my fantacy, see her wear the miss world crown. It gives me pleasant feeling.

young man, abeg throway fantasy for ground jor, and stop been a dreamer or being lost in ur reverie, tell her u love her and would want to date her, and nothin else would make u a fulfiled man except u have a lady like her as urs. Send her such sweet mails and not been the MBGN crap.